My wife always likes to chat with men and never returns his messages.

I'm glad to answer your question. You have a good relationship with your wife, which shows that your husband and wife have a good relationship, but your wife often chats with other men, which will make you uncomfortable. If it goes on for a long time, some doubts may arise.

If he has a very good relationship with many gay men, it means that your wife is a woman with a very good relationship with men.

If your wife only has a very good relationship with that man and often chats with him, then you should pay attention to whether she loves that man more or depends on him more, which shows that that man also has a very important position in her life. At this time, you should appropriately remind your wife to reduce contact with other men. You tell her that you will be jealous because you love her. If you talk about feelings with that man, tell her that their relationship is beyond your bottom line.

Although you and your wife have a good relationship, she loves that man very much. She can marry you, but she can't let go of that man. So she, your wife, broke up with that man. Maybe she knows that you can't live without her, and she can't live without that man.