I received a text message from my predecessor in the evening.

I won't answer it. I'll blacken this number.

The text message from my predecessor was embarrassing and insincere. In my opinion, there is no need to reply at all. I remember having a relationship before. After breaking up, both sides are very reluctant, but we all know that this is impossible, because all things that cannot be integrated touch the bottom line of both sides. I can't make myself a person who has no bottom line in pure love, and the other person obviously doesn't want to give up that harsh male chauvinism requirement, but I am also struggling until I figure out one thing. At that time, after breaking up, the other party would send me a text message or send me a WeChat, but I changed my number, so the first message sent by the other party to change the number or change the micro signal was probably, I am XXX, I miss you very much and so on. I was still very shaken and sad at first, but then I thought about it. He knows where my family lives, where my school and dormitory are, and we are not far away. Why can't I find them? Instead, I hide behind my cell phone and do these neurotic harassment things. After I figured this out, I didn't completely put it down. I didn't even want to see what this person sent me.

I am the kind of person who likes to make things clear in person, and it is probably this personality that keeps me from replying. In fact, whether the other party wants to save this relationship or really has something important, I think it's best to make it clear in person. I really can't stand keeping in touch after breaking up, and making friends by texting or WeChat one after another, so as long as I break up, I will simply break up without leaving any room for both sides.

In a word, I think it's better not to reply to my predecessor's text messages. If you want to get back together, make an appointment to make it clear. If you don't want to get back together, you don't have to reply. This is not good for either person, especially if the other person is a scum, you will only get hurt all the time.