The man’s father sent me a text message very arrogantly, asking me to come over and talk after school. I no longer want to bother with that kind of scumbag. How should I reply?

It depends on whether you love a man or not. If you love a man, you should talk to him, make an appointment with him on a time and a place and then go there. If you don’t love him and don’t want to continue to be entangled with that boy, you Just reply to him with this message, I'm sorry I'm very busy right now and don't have time, no matter what you think, but I don't think I will disturb him and there is nothing to talk about. As a girl, I feel that no matter who I am with, his parents should not interfere.