What does the boss mean by sending me a text message?

If you hadn't said it earlier, you would rather be in your fifties than give in without a job.

I won't eat you. What are you afraid of? It mainly depends on your mentality. If you want to date him and make friends, you should be honest and generous. This is a normal performance of a girl. It would be embarrassing to be too shy. If you want to know him, take your best friend as a third wheel, so that you can understand each other's outlook on life and so on in chat.

If you don't want to date him, you should be generous. Then gently tell him what you think before the date is over. You must be tactful, or you will make it difficult for people to accept you as a person.

In fact, if you work under someone else, it is helpful to take this opportunity to communicate with your boss more. I'm afraid you are an introvert or a mediocre person who can't help you. Then don't go. Just text him back and say that your boyfriend is waiting for you to chat online.

Remember: not everyone is a pervert, and people with status are not stupid enough to dominate the upper body with the lower body. Of course, if you want to eat your tofu, you have to denounce it. And do all possible preventive measures in the future.