Tsai Kangyong’s personal classic quotes

1. When you are 15 years old, you find swimming difficult and give up swimming. When you are 18 years old and you meet someone you like and ask you to go swimming, you have no choice but to say "I can't do it." When you were 18 years old, you thought English was difficult and gave up on English. When you were 28 years old, a great job came up but required you to speak English, so you had to say, "I can't do it." The more troublesome you are in the early stages of life and the less lazy you are to learn, the more likely you are to miss out on the people and things that interest you and the new scenery later on. ——"Kang Yong, a kind message to a cruel society"

2. "Enjoy" is more valuable than "own". We "enjoy" the air, but we cannot "own" the air. We "enjoy" the sunshine, but we cannot "own" the sun. In the same way, we enjoy friendship and family affection, but there is no way and we should not want to "own" that friend or family member. We also enjoy love, but there is no way and we should not want to "own" that lover. Just enjoy it, "enjoying" is much more valuable than "owning". ——"Kang Yong, Love Message to an Unknown Lover"

3. The person you want to fall in love with should be dumber than you - you don’t have to be too dumb, as long as you are dumb enough to truly believe in your promise, then love will be yours. was established. Well, but. The person you want to fall in love with should preferably be smarter than you - you don’t have to be too smart, as long as you are smart enough not to hold you accountable for your commitment, your love will continue. ——"Kang Yong, a love message to an unknown lover"

4. Two drops of rain in a cloud are in love. The other raindrops next to them were very indifferent. They were going to fall soon anyway, so why bother. But these two drops of rain still want to fall in love. Soon the day came, the clouds turned into rain, and drops fell one after another. The two raindrops in love hugged each other and fell down. They were ready to fall to the ground and disappear, but just before disappearing, they changed from two drops to one drop. ——"Kang Yong, a tabloid that no one cares about"

5. Do you want to have him? That's great, but what can you have from him? Can you own his disease? Can you own his scar? Can you have his memories? It seems that you can't, so what can you have from him? ——"Kang Yong, a love message to an unknown lover"

6. You are very important, because you are all you can have. You exist and the whole world exists. If you can see the sunshine, the whole world can see the sunshine. If you lose balance, the world will lose balance. When you disappear, the world disappears. So you are important and you are all you can have. ——"Kang Yong, a kind message to a cruel society"

7. Temperament can be faked, and usually you can fake it for a whole night; but humor cannot be faked, not even for a minute. So I value humor more than temperament. ——"Kang Yong, a kind message to the cruel society"

8. You thought that you missed him to the extreme, and it was impossible to miss him more. As a result, at an unexpected moment At that moment, you succeeded again and missed him a little more than you originally did - "Kang Yong, Love Message to an Unknown Lover"

9. You are in love, but you love People sometimes don't really exist. He may be just an innocent white wall, and you are so enthusiastic that you project all the love movies you most yearn for on him - "Kang Yong, Love Message to an Unknown Lover"

10 , the other party said: "I don't love you anymore." You became anxious and blurted out: "It's okay! We can still be together!" After saying that, you suddenly cried, not because you were sad that the other party didn't love you. It's because of this moment that you suddenly realize that you have become a beggar of love. ——"Kang Yong, a love message to an unknown lover"

11. When the game was about to end, the announcer shouted excitedly: "The time is getting less and less! The time left is getting less and less. !", of course this is correct. But when I heard it, I couldn't help but think: Don't get excited, time is getting less and less all the time. No matter who you are, no matter how old you are, no matter what you are doing, time is never more and more, time is always less and less. Forever, less and less. ——"Kang Yong, a kind text message to a cruel society"

12. I have kept the text messages you sent me at that time and have not deleted them.

Because I still need some evidence to prove that even you loved me so much. ——"Kang Yong, Love Message to an Unknown Lover"

13. If the other person is dressed ugly, should we praise her beauty "without conscience"? If the other party's cooking is unpalatable, should we praise it "against our conscience"? Most of the time I would suggest: "Yes." Because this matter really has nothing to do with conscience, but it seriously affects your interpersonal relationships. Don't waste your conscience on such superficial things. Conscience is not that cheap. If you really care, there are many places where you can use your conscience. ——"Kang Yong, a kind message to a cruel society"

14. You said, you are getting old. I replied, no, you will not grow old before we meet. If we never meet, you'll never grow old. Love is our clockwork. If it doesn't rotate, our music box will never rotate. ——"Kang Yong, a love message to an unknown lover"

15. / I am so sad to be cheated on / I have to comfort myself that my vision is not bad / The person I like is also liked by others / —— "Tsai Kang Yong's Avoidance Poems"

16. // I don’t want to judge people by their appearance // I also tried hard to see your soul // In the end, your soul is not more beautiful than your appearance // - "Written by Cai Kangyong for everyone "Escape Poems"

17. // Every subsequent laugh // is just the first real laugh // What's left // - "Escape Poems Written by Cai Kangyong for Everyone" 》

18. Seeing that person’s current appearance, I can’t help but stop for a moment after turning the corner and imagine: If we hadn’t broken up, this would be the person next to me now. People. ——"Kang Yong, a love message to an unknown lover"

19. Does it take 4 years to study in college? Is it necessary to study for 6 years between junior high school and high school? Do I need to attend primary school for 6 years? I will be 22 years old after graduation. In these 22 years, how many years have I been asleep in the classroom? How many years have been boring winter and summer vacations? Wouldn't the 22-year-old who finally slipped from this production line into the carton to be shipped with a whoosh sound has been tortured to the point of being on the verge of the freshness limit? ——"Kang Yong, an honest message to a boring adult"

20. Don't hate those who "judge books by their appearance", don't hate this thing. It is human nature to "judge people by their appearance". If you hate it, it will not disappear. It is just a wall. You can't hate it with hatred, and you are not Meng Jiangnu. As long as you can climb over this wall when necessary, let others see the real you, and let the wall not stop you, that's enough. Climbing over the wall is troublesome, but it is worth it than falling under the wall and "hating the wall". ——"Kang Yong~ A kind message to a cruel society"

21. "Look, I told you this a long time ago!" These words can easily make people angry and make us want to say something back: "That's right! You're the best!" Why is this so annoying? Because you are already in trouble, and if you hear such sarcastic remarks that are completely unhelpful, besides getting angry, how else can you feel? So, if you had enough of this as a kid, practice not saying it as an adult. ——"Kang Yong, an honest message to a boring adult"

22. Love is not a solid skating rink. Love is a frozen lake. We can hold hands on it, play lightly, and circle around ourselves, but no one will warn us that the ice will melt and crack in that second, and that in that second we will be in love, With a suddenly frozen laughter, I fell into the cold water, lonely, struggling, and felt so cold. ——"Kang Yong, a love message to an unknown lover"

23. Sometimes we have to have the courage to say the words "none of your business", or at least have this courage. Many outsiders who are not relatives like to ask: "Why haven't you gotten married?", "Why haven't you had children?", I wonder, does that have to do with you? Are you guaranteed to be happy if you get married and have children? If you are unhappy, will you pay 10 million? These people never realize that they are rude. If they say "none of your business" in return, they might educate him.

——"Kang Yong, an honest message to a boring adult"

24. The school is terrible and the class is boring. Will you refuse to study and read from now on as a protest? Killed in the wrong direction. They fail to teach, that's when they screw up their job. If you refuse to study and read, you are screwing up your life. This is not protest, it is self-mutilation. The object of your protest has no feelings, and you yourself suffer the consequences. Just like if you ate at three bad restaurants in a row, would you go on a hunger strike to protest? ——"Kang Yong, a kind message to a cruel society"

25. "Look at so and so's child! Why can't you be like him?" If parents like to say this, well , the outstanding performance of other children is like the display in the roadside window. You will be envious when you see it, but those displays require various costs to create. It is not possible to make it happen, and it may not be cost-effective to make it. You don’t care about the process. Just complain that the good things in the window are not yours, that's very willful. ——"Kang Yong, an honest message to boring adults"

26. It is best to consciously lower the volume when speaking, not only because too loud will disturb others, but because if a person cannot even control his own volume, Failure to control them well will make it difficult for others to trust your abilities in other aspects. Just like if a lion can't even control the weight of its footsteps and always makes unnecessary noises, how can you believe that this lion can hunt a deer? ——"Kang Yong, a kind message to a cruel society"

27. Many people know the words, but they only "see the words" and do not "read". They read road signs, documents, and various instructions, but they don't "read." What a shame. They obviously have wings, but they only use these wings to fan the wind and set fire to deal with life. They don't believe that if they stretch out their wings, they can actually fly. ——"Kang Yong, an honest message to a boring adult"

28. Chickens lay eggs, and chickens also poop, but you must only eat eggs, no. This is true for chickens, and it is true for people: every outstanding person can lay eggs and poop. For example, if he is good at running a company, then you can buy his stocks to make money. As for his nonsense, you don’t need to learn from him. The most important thing for you is to eat more eggs, pay less attention to chicken poop, absorb nutrients, and strengthen yourself. Many people don't eat eggs and pursue shit all day long. Do you think you can become stronger? ——"Kang Yong. A kind message to a cruel society"

29. The butterfly is so beautiful, the spider looks at it and falls in love with the butterfly. The spider couldn't help but weave "I love you" one after another on its web, making it the most beautiful web in the forest. The butterfly was very touched. It happily landed on the net and was stuck. No matter how hard it struggled, it couldn't move. When its strength ran out, the butterfly died, dying on countless "I love you" words. The spider looked at the scene in front of him and couldn't understand what happened. ——"Kang Yong, a tabloid that no one cares about"

30. Talent is very similar to frozen meat in the refrigerator. No matter how high-quality the meat is, it will become sour if it is frozen for too long. It stinks. If you know you have talent, it's like knowing you have frozen meat in the refrigerator. It's not something to be arrogant about. Using that talent to make something is better than keeping a pile of sour and smelly meat to fill up your refrigerator. , and finally even the refrigerator was damaged. ——"Kang Yong, a kind message to a cruel society"

31. When your boss enters the cubicle to use the toilet, he secretly follows you in, then washes your hands at the sink while waiting for any colleague to come in. If you just compliment your boss casually on this colleague, your boss who is still in the cubicle will definitely have a good impression of you when he hears it. However, this cheap move may affect the colleague who comes in later, because without knowing it, he may scold your boss for flattering you! ——"Kang Yong, a kind message to a cruel society"

32. If the means are evil, then the whole thing is destined to be evil. Some people or organizations say that they have no choice but to use evil means for legitimate and beautiful goals. This statement can never be accepted! Once accepted, his methods will only become more and more evil, and his legitimate and beautiful goals will never be realized. A world that makes endless concessions to evil is tantamount to poisoned soil, and all flowers become a luxury.

——"Kang Yong, a kind message to a cruel society"

33. The souvenirs of love have never been the watches and necklaces you gave me, nor even those sweet text messages and photos. The most precious souvenir of love is what you left on me, just like the river left on the terrain, the changes you made on me. ——"Kang Yong, Love Message to an Unknown Lover"

34. They like to say "I never go to that kind of place", "I never think about that kind of thing", "I never go to that kind of person" People make friends.” They think they have principles, but in fact they are just afraid. They are afraid of "change." They just want to cling to those boring ideas forced on them by someone for the rest of their lives. Alas, as plants, dandelions are braver than them, daring to let their seeds fly and wander. ——"Kang Yong, a kind message to the cruel society"

35. If you envy the wealth of successful people, please don't blindly imitate what they did after becoming rich. Those brand-name watches, bags, wine, cars, etc. It's something they did after they got rich. If they insist on imitating it, they can only be poor and happy. If you want to imitate, just imitate what they did before they were rich and powerful. Their eagle-like probing, snake-like focus, ant-like search, and pupa-like patience are all things that are weathered and disgraced. ——"Kang Yong, a message of kindness to a cruel society"

36. Love is not a religion. Religion means that after you feel it, you can further believe it. And love is that even if you feel it, you still may not believe it. I have met some people like this. No matter how strongly they feel love, they still don't believe it. ——"Kang Yong, Love Message to an Unknown Lover"

37. When you lose your temper with others, such as accusing the other person of "only loving money", you will be corrected, because the other person will fight back after being hurt. . But when you lose your temper with life and say such angry words as "No matter how hard you try, it's useless" or "Things will never change", you won't be corrected, because others are fine, and what you hurt is just your face of life. Your confidence and fighting spirit will make your life less interesting. ——"Kang Yong, a kind message to a cruel society"

38. Beautiful people are not so difficult to meet. What is rare is to meet someone who is beautiful and loves us deeply. Because of deep love, we can experience and understand their beauty, their beauty that is unknown to outsiders. ——"Kang Yong, a love message to an unknown lover"

39. Will happiness come after suffering is over? Well, it depends on what kind of suffering you are eating. If what you eat is suffering in a specific direction, for example: losing weight until you are about to starve to death in order to attract people. Or if you lose money for half a year just to attract customers, it is more likely that all the hardships will come to an end. But if you endure hardships without direction, and are blindly manipulated and bullied, then what sense does it make that all the hardships will be rewarded? No matter what, you have to endure hardships and figure out the direction before you can have hope. ——"Kang Yong, a kind message to the cruel society"

40. Living is going to suffer. If the taste is too bitter, spit it out quickly and rinse your mouth. If you can't spit it out and it's painful that you have to swallow it, then swallow it quickly. Regardless of whether you want to spit it out or swallow it, don't hold it in your mouth and chew it carefully. Bitterness exists to help us seek good fortune and avoid misfortune next time. It is not just for every meal. ——"Kang Yong, a kind message to a cruel society"

41. Are there always people in your life who are causing trouble for you? Think about the plot of Linghu Chong, Tian Boguang, and Feng Qingyang in Jin Yong's "Swordsman": Every time Tian Boguang slashed at Linghu, Linghu couldn't catch the move, so he went into the cave to ask Feng Qingyang for advice, and finally practiced step by step. It became a unique trick. If there weren’t nasty people like devil coaches slashing at us, we might not have the motivation to practice so actively. ——"Kang Yong ~ A kind message to the cruel society"

42. "I just run around casually. Running too fast is meaningless!" This is a very useful saying. If you run poorly, you are not serious. Run Okay, that’s so wise! We like to imagine that we are actually very powerful, but we are just too lazy to take action, so that when we fail, it is easier to escape. Well, the disappointing thing is that in the end, if we fail in life, it will be difficult to escape by this trick, because when we hand in the paper in life, the person we hand in is not the teacher or the boss, but ourselves.

——"Kang Yong, a kind message to a cruel society"