I gave my father 8000 yuan for his birthday, but I accidentally saw my husband's text message and ended my ten-year marriage. What should I do?

Married couples must understand each other more and tolerate each other more, which is definitely the right way for couples to get along. Sometimes, it is inevitable that there will be some misunderstandings between husband and wife. When some unexpected situations happen, we must listen to the other side's explanation and consider the problem from the other side's standpoint. So the relationship between husband and wife will get better and better.

However, some couples, their relationship is really bad, because they didn't establish a correct view of love from the beginning when they were in contact.

When interacting with each other, we should pay more attention to each other's personality and self-cultivation, rather than just their status and family conditions.

Bird's family conditions are good. His parents used to be senior managers of the enterprise. At that time, they earned high wages. Now that they are retired, they have a lot of pensions every month. Therefore, Bird's family conditions have always been superior.

After graduating from Bird University, I went to work in a foreign company. The salary is not low, and I can get more than 10 thousand a month, and there is still a lot of room for growth.

He also knows a girl named Betty in that company. Betty is beautiful, smart and lively. Bird likes Betty very much. Later, he confessed to Betty, and the result was the same as he imagined. Betty accepted him and they were happy together every day.

This life didn't last long. Betty's family comes from other places. Later, her parents desperately urged her to go back to her hometown. Her parents think Betty can't work in other places for a long time, so she must go back to her hometown and marry a boy from her hometown, so they don't agree with Betty and Bird.

Betty and the bird began to work hard for Betty's parents, but it didn't work for a long time. Betty's parents became more and more determined. Finally, Betty couldn't hold on. She returned to her hometown and broke up with Bird at the same time.

Bird felt miserable and decadent for a long time. After breaking up for three months, he slowly recovered.

He saved Betty's contact information in his mobile phone, and he was reluctant to delete it. Later, he learned that Betty had a new boyfriend in his hometown, so he had no other thoughts about Betty. He regards Betty as an ordinary friend and deeply wishes Betty happiness in his heart.

Later, under the arrangement of a colleague of his parents, Bird met a girl named Wang Dan on a blind date. Bird disliked Rainbow Dan very much, and even hated him, because when Wang Dan was dating, he kept asking him how much he earned, whether he had a house or a car.

Bird wanted to tell his parents that he was going to reject Wang Dan after meeting him, but his parents changed their minds. "The girl introduced by my old colleague can't be wrong. We think that girl is very nice. Try to associate with her first. "

In this way, the bird and Wang Dan began to associate. After knowing the details of Bird's family, Wang Dan began to be nice to Bird. Wang Dan's kindness, coupled with the constant persuasion of his parents, made the bird's heart accept Wang Dan.

After dating Wang Dan for eight months, Bird got married.

In the tenth year after marriage, great changes have taken place in Bird's family. His parents suffered from incurable diseases one after another. In order to treat those diseases, they spent all their savings at home and borrowed hundreds of thousands from relatives.

Since such a change has taken place in the family, Wang Dan's attitude towards birds has also changed a lot. She becomes impatient with birds. She often gets angry with birds.

Zhang Yuan has a cousin named Zhang Xue. On the Mid-Autumn Festival, he intended to send a message of blessing to his cousin Zhang Xue, but inadvertently, he sent the message to Betty.

When Wang Dan learned about this, he made a scene in front of Zhang Yuan Da. "Are you still in contact with your ex-girlfriend? It really is too much of you. Let's divorce. "

The bird said helplessly, "I sent a Mid-Autumn Festival blessing message by mistake, ending my marriage of 10".

Marriage should be pure love.

I'm afraid many people will lament that the love between Bird and Wang Dan is as thin as paper. They ended their marriage of 10 years because of a text message.

In fact, the love between two people is not pure from the beginning. Bird is a good man. He should not be criticized. However, Wang Dan's attitude towards love is definitely wrong. When she first met Bird, she kept asking about Bird's family conditions and income.

The same is true after marriage. After Bird's family conditions deteriorated, Wang Dan divorced Bird on the pretext of short messages. Therefore, in her view of love, money occupies a large proportion.

Marriage should be pure love, and both men and women should not be mixed with too many unnecessary factors. If there are too many other factors, it may be like the marriage between Bird and Wang Dan. When the family changed, the marriage broke up.

Therefore, for love and marriage, we should have a very pure attitude, eliminate those factors that should not be there, and make love and marriage pure.