When her mother-in-law died, her husband once collapsed. How can I comfort him?

Human life is fragile, and birth, aging, illness and death are also human normality. Although we know this truth deeply, when the closest relatives around us leave us, our mood is also extremely collapsed, and no one can bear the pain caused by death. A little carelessness may even lead to depression. So at this time, the topic must not be taken lightly. Be sure to keep an eye on your husband to avoid his emotional outburst and hysteria. Once a person is emotionally unstable, he will make some extreme behaviors and have a sense of conflict with life.

Sometimes some people often face a big change, and he can't stand it. At this time, people will become extremely painful, and they will become like walking dead, and every day is boring. At this time, as wives, all we can do is quietly accompany him. Don't comfort him with too many words. Because this kind of thing cannot be solved by language. No one can see through birth, death, illness and death completely fearlessly. It's not practical if you can get your husband out of the shadows just by your words.

So say no to excessive nagging. It is important to reject excessive rhetoric and excessive affectionate confession. When a person is no longer interested in life, he often makes some extreme behaviors. I suggest that if there is a child between you, you can let the child do something to comfort him. Let the child's innocence affect him and let him feel the hope of life. This is the most important thing. The past has passed, and we are infinitely nostalgic, but nothing can be changed. Let the hope of life continue is the most reasonable way.

I believe that your husband's mother can't bear to see her son collapse like this. At this time, as a wife, you must not stimulate him in other things. Only by digesting ourselves can we get out of the haze as soon as possible, forget the past and meet a better tomorrow. This is the most important place to pay attention to.