My ex-boyfriend is afraid of how I can fix it.

My ex-boyfriend was afraid of me, which made me very lost and confused. I think about our days together again and again, but I still can't find the problem. Until one day, he told me that he was deeply hurt by a woman and was full of fear of feelings from then on. He used to suppress this emotion when he was with me, and he still tried his best, but in the end he couldn't escape the shadow of fear. He is afraid of being hurt again, afraid of not knowing what kind of pain the future emotional road will bring him, which is why he has been reluctant to get back together with me.

How to save him?

In order to save him, I began to actively look for ways. I know that the most important thing for people who are afraid of injury is trust and security. Therefore, the first thing I have to do is to make him feel that I am a safe person and a person who is really good to him. I began to pay more attention to his needs and psychological changes, give timely support and encouragement, and let him feel my love and care. At the same time, I should respect his feelings, communicate with him constantly, understand his situation and thoughts, and let him feel my recognition and respect for his feelings.

Success saved his experience.

After a period of trying, I succeeded in saving his heart. I think the key to success is that I always adhere to the following three points: understanding, support and introspection. First of all, I try to understand his situation and thoughts and avoid friction and contradiction with him. Secondly, when he encountered difficulties and setbacks, I gave him support and encouragement and actively helped him solve the problem. Finally, reflect on your own shortcomings and problems, improve your self-awareness and emotional intelligence, and make yourself a more attractive and stable person. In short, to save a person who is afraid of being injured, we need to listen carefully, respect his feelings, give support and understanding, and gradually establish a relationship of mutual trust and security.