How to refuse to refuse if the blind date is not satisfied? What should I pay attention to?

Nowadays, many young people rely on blind dates to find their partners. In fact, this has become a very common social phenomenon, but the result of blind date is often unsatisfactory. So how to refuse a blind date if it is not satisfactory?

How to refuse a blind date if you are not satisfied?

1, don't be too enthusiastic

If you think the blind date is not your type, don't be too enthusiastic about the other person, because if you are too enthusiastic, it will easily lead to misunderstanding. Boys should face their hearts bravely and know how to adjust their emotions. If they don't like each other, don't be too nice to others. In case the other party misunderstood, it would be bad for anyone.

2. Speak your mind directly

When a boy meets someone he doesn't like, don't force yourself to accept him, just say what you think and tell him that you are not suitable. At this time, don't consider face, express your inner thoughts directly, and there will be no extra burden.

3, contact is not easy too much

If you don't like the blind date, don't contact each other too much after the blind date, because it can easily lead to misunderstanding. Especially when the other person likes himself, boys should not contact each other, because it will make the other person have a lot of fantasies. It's embarrassing to refuse each other at this time.

4. Follow your heart

When a boy meets someone he doesn't like on a blind date, there is actually no need to be afraid of rejecting him. Inappropriate is inappropriate. Bravely pursuing your own heart is the most correct choice. Feelings can't be reconciled. If you make peace from the beginning, there will be more and more contradictions between the latter two people.

What should I pay attention to when refusing a blind date?

1, don't accept gifts from each other casually.

If you don't want to associate with blind date, it's very important not to accept their gifts. If you accept the other person's gift, the other person will think that you have accepted him. When you are not sure whether you can go to the end with the other person, don't accept gifts well, just accept gifts from others and don't want to associate with others. This is a bit excessive.

2. Take care of the emotions of parents and relatives.

Rejecting blind date should first consider the emotions of parents and relatives. After all, families are eager to arrange blind dates. If they refuse the blind date in person, they will be embarrassed, so we must learn to look at the occasion and take care of the emotions of both parents.

Don't delay too long.

If you want to refuse a blind date, don't joke about time, so no one can afford it. The blind date is definitely going to get married. Both sides should have a good attitude. If they don't like each other, they should say it quickly. If the delay is too long, it is easy to cause unnecessary trouble and misunderstanding.

4. Don't hurt each other's self-esteem.

If you want to refuse a blind date, you'd better organize the language in advance. Whether you refuse directly or euphemistically, you must be careful not to hurt the other person's self-esteem. Don't find fault with each other if you feel that they are not suitable. After all, everyone has dignity, and this bottom line still needs to be adhered to.

What should we talk about on a blind date?

1: favorite food

If you are dating in a restaurant or bar, let's talk about their favorite food, which is a pleasant topic. Talking about food, you can not only understand her tastes and find common ground, but also don't have to worry about no topic anymore.

2. Hobbies

Like collecting stamps, singing or dancing? Do you like sports? What music do you like to listen to? You must ask these questions, otherwise how do you know her hobbies? And she also wants to show herself, so why not?

3. Future plans

Can you talk about your college life? Do you still want to go to school? She may be interested in these topics, talking about her student life, interesting things, various honors and so on. However, she may be indifferent, just saying that her current job major is not suitable, and then change the subject. However, no matter what happens, I will give you a good opportunity to praise her.

4. Work situation

If you work for a while after graduating from college, talking about work is a good topic. However, you should control the initiative and don't let her ramble about some trivial things that bother you in life. The more she talks, the less excited she will be, and the more impatient you will be. However, when most people talk about work, they will talk nonsense even if they are bored. It doesn't matter, you can at least know whether she will be a workaholic or a good housewife in the future.

Is it reliable to find a date on blind date?

If you have no other way to get to know the opposite sex, blind date is the fastest and most effective way. Besides, this is just experience. It's good to find it, and there's nothing to lose if you can't find it. Moreover, this is not absolute. Some people love each other very much through blind date, while others are assigned darts in a short time.

If the two sides have similar personalities, the chances of being together for a long time are relatively small. Well, like a magnet, the poles repel each other. For example, when two stubborn people get together and have a quarrel, both of them complement each other, which will easily lead to the final emotional breakdown and separation. Even if both of them belong to the kind of inarticulate. When there are contradictions, if we don't communicate with each other, it will easily become a cold war. Such two people will only get colder and colder in the cold war and finally become the most familiar strangers.

The so-called values are also a kind of thinking or orientation of people to identify things and argue about right and wrong, thus embodying some value or function of people, things and things. For example, one side thinks that luxury goods can show good taste and temperament, while the other side thinks that luxury goods are not much better than ordinary brands except well-known brands and cannot show good taste and temperament. Taste and temperament are not expressed by price. There are differences in the judgment of value. As time goes by, the differences are getting bigger and bigger, and finally they can't be reconciled and move towards separation.