What should parents do if the teacher complains to them?

Some methods can be used for reference.

Method 1: It is convenient to make phone calls and send text messages.

In fact, parents and teachers don't have to sit down face to face and talk seriously. It's a good idea to call the teacher and send a message. However, when to call, how long to call, and the method of conversation are really worthy of parents' consideration. For example, my job determines that I often have to work overtime and it is difficult to take care of my children. So from this perspective, the topic can try to discuss how to educate children, rather than grades and rankings. So calling the teacher should be straight to the point, and it doesn't take much time. Some parents talked for half an hour, and the teacher was a little at a loss. When you tell the teacher about your child, don't take a preconceived impression. My children are excellent. Children don't get along well with others, so they should try to tell what happened.

If you are too busy to contact the teacher, you can also use the method of sending text messages. For example, at the beginning of this semester, I knew that my child was not doing well in school, but I couldn't find time to talk to the teacher, so I sent a short message to the teacher: I learned about the child's recent situation and thought it over carefully. First of all, parents are busy with their work and have not fulfilled their responsibilities. I hope the teacher won't lose confidence in the child because of this, and I also try to get him back to the state. Thank you very much for your contribution! I will contact you more in the future.

Method 2: Listen to what you should listen to.

Children make a little mistake, and some teachers have to call their parents excitedly. In fact, just as children are afraid of teachers, many parents are particularly afraid of being summoned by teachers. Because some teachers blame their parents as much as students. There is another situation, that is, when teachers misunderstand or hurt their children, some parents dare not negotiate with them, for fear that after finding a teacher, the teacher will even neglect or retaliate against them. Therefore, teachers' complaints about children and hurting children because of parents have become the two most troublesome things for parents.

What should parents do when the teacher complains to them? That's what happened to me. My son didn't finish his homework once when he was in the second grade. After school, the teacher left him in the classroom and asked his parents to pick him up. I know that the teacher originally wanted to ask parents for help to solve the problem, but because of his bad attitude and blunt tone, it is no longer like communication. I told myself that playing hardball at this time is not the solution to the problem. I listened to the teacher patiently and selected some information about children's problems from the teacher's words. When the teacher's fire is over, I take the initiative to express my views and suggestions, and make clear what I can do. I hope the teacher can help me correct my mistakes.

Good communication skills.

The naughty son came home from school with his clothes still on and his face flushed. He said to me: Mom, I'm a little unhappy today! I was punished by the teacher.

I think it's time to communicate with the teacher. I called the teacher when my father took them out.

Teacher: I accepted my opening remarks happily and started our conversation with great interest.

Teacher: The teacher criticized me for not corporal punishment, thinking that it is natural for boys to be generally active, and explained what happened that day, saying that it was only a moment before the children realized their mistakes.

Then: I euphemistically expressed my thoughts. Although children are naughty, they are sometimes very enthusiastic, kind, affectionate to teachers and have many advantages. I'm afraid that students who are positioned as naughty boys will lose their initiative if they are criticized and punished every day. Can they appreciate education or the combination of punishment and encouragement? Express your opinions euphemistically and discuss with the teacher. )

Teacher: That means you don't always punish him. You often praise him, encourage him, and praise him when you see his progress. But at the same time, there seems to be a lot of praise, and sometimes children will be numb, so we must master the heat!

Continue: Let me introduce the children's worship and gratitude to the teacher. For example, after the teacher encourages the child, the child will chant at home. For example, the teacher lets the child take a broom, and the child is very proud. For example, if a teacher praises a child's beautiful writing, the child will be happy and write more carefully, and so on. Feedback the good performance of children at home and praise some good practices of teachers. )

Teacher: I'm glad to hear such feedback, and I'm also very satisfied with the words and deeds that the children showed at home after their encouragement.

Final statement: I will try my best to cooperate with teachers and do a good job in children's education.

Conclusion: Parents should communicate with teachers frequently, give timely feedback and pay attention to the ways and means of communication with teachers. Educate children, parents and teachers want Qi Xin to work together!