My ex-wife texted me when she was in hospital.

I don't know why you divorced. But it's not entirely her fault. Now that she has left, now is not the time to ask right or wrong. Let's put aside adults and say what you did was wrong. You can't be so selfish to help the child make a decision and not let her see him. Even if she regrets it, she will leave, and you have the ability to make her happy and love her, and she won't leave you, right? If you had no love at all, you wouldn't have children, would you? So you divorced and gave your child an incomplete home. You still forbid him to see his mother. Even if you hate her again, the child is innocent, isn't it We should educate our children in the right way, lest they leave a shadow that will affect their future life. You tell your child that his mother has gone out to work, and tell him the truth when he is sensible, otherwise his mind will think that he is a motherless child, and he will become introverted and feel inferior, and many bad things will hurt him. There are countless divorced people now, but the children are innocent. Even if they get divorced, you should be fine. Cheer up. The children need you. You are their big tree. What should they do if the tree falls down? The anger has subsided, but we still need to let the children see their mothers more. We can't help but put the pain on the children, don't you think?