You have afternoon tea with a girl who is very close. Why didn't you even reply to my message? What does this mean? I haven't been back for almost a day now, which is really embarrassing.

Chatting can show that you are ordinary friends. Dating may make girls wary, nervous, resistant and overwhelmed, so know how to reply to you. Don't worry about such things. If girls come out with you, it means they are not interested in you. Men should be generous, stop pestering these things and don't waste their time.