Swear never to borrow money again. Really?

1. "I swear: I will never borrow money again, not a penny!"

I don't know how many times I have told myself! Can't get the money back every time; Good words don't get back money; When you don't even come back. I always try so hard to tell myself!

But what happened? Same old! Why is it that when you need money, it is always in the hands of others? After careful reflection, it is not the time when I need money. The money is in the hands of "friends", "colleagues" and "classmates". But I always lend them money easily! You can even borrow money for some nasty reasons-your girlfriend is pregnant, your money is gone, and another classmate has no money to rent a house. ...

I borrow money to help others. What's wrong with charity?

As the old saying goes, "If you are poor, you will be immune, while if you are rich, you will help the world."

2. classmate n, come to work in this city and have sex for three months at a time. He has no money. R classmate borrowed money from me to solve N classmate's urgent need!

It took me more than three years to pay back this more than 900 yuan! R said, "You are not short of money in the wild!" If I don't lack money again, it will be my hard-earned money! Twelve hours later, I earned it!

I really don't understand myself. If you don't understand, you should cherish your hard-won efforts! It's not decided yet, so it's better not to borrow such money! If you have to say that you have some classmates' friendship, then the following things are like being cheated!

At the beginning of 2009, I borrowed 1000 yuan from my colleagues to buy a mobile phone-the then "Machine Emperor" N95. This colleague was fired in April, and he went back to his hometown! So far, I haven't got that thousand dollars back!

At that time, the mobile phone I used was still Nokia 6020, which was repaired several times. If it can't be repaired, it will be replaced by N8 1!

Is this the treatment that the helper deserves? Kindly borrowed money to buy a mobile phone, and the result became a mobile phone subsidy for him!

It should be a long memory to have such a lesson. Why do you lend money to these so-called friends again and again? It's really "save the poor and not save the poor!"

3. I am also a working class, trying to save money! I want to borrow money to help others, and someone can help me at the critical moment! At most, I lent all my money,130,000!

For the matter of paying back the money, the vast majority of people, it can be said that 99% of classmates, friends and colleagues will pay back the money and they are all grateful! Never received interest, but it is common to invite people to dinner. This gratitude for help and the happiness of helping others have always been harmonious and pleasant!

The disharmony is that there are always some small twists and turns, episodes! There are also several "old lai", who will bite the hand that feeds them when they borrow money!

On 20 13, J, a classmate who resigned, suddenly took the initiative to say hello on QQ, so he chatted for a while and left each other's phone numbers! Suddenly one morning, on my way to work, my classmate J called for help and said that his father was seriously ill and wanted to borrow more money! At that time, all the money was lent out, only the salary card was more than 3 thousand, and I had to live! He promised to lend him two thousand yuan, and he said a lot of thanks, saying 10!

/kloc-I participated in the company competition in October, and I was so nervous that I forgot! J: He took the initiative to call me and said that his child was ill, and he couldn't pay back the money until1February! I also readily agreed!

/kloc-I am at home in 0/2 months! I have experienced such things as "borrowing money to buy a mobile phone", "borrowing money from a classmate", "being cheated in buying a book" and "borrowing money from a colleague to give my girlfriend an abortion" ... My parents urged me to ask this classmate J for money, so I barely made a phone call. Thinking that classmate J has difficulties at home, he will take the initiative to pay back the money as soon as he turns around!

When the phone was connected, he said ... it's not like I won't pay you back ... I will pay you back during the Spring Festival! ""I still feel guilty, but what he said turned out to be my fault. Is it wrong for me to lend you money? It was really embarrassing!

"Maybe he needs money more!" I said to myself!

Don't answer the phone for the New Year! QQ and WeChat ignored me ... Later, I saw him go to Beijing and Shanghai on business and bask in delicious food at the Pearl Tower ... which showed my identity and he directly blacked me out. ...

Now that I think about it, fortunately, I didn't have much money at that time, so I didn't lend it to him much! Is it true that the father is seriously ill and the child is seriously ill? I don't know! So far, J has died in a circle of friends and never lived again!

It still hurts to experience such a thing!

20 16, quit your job and start your own business at home. When I needed money most, only three friends helped me raise money! One of them just gave me my money back. I thank the person who can borrow money, and I also thank him for paying back the money in time!

This kind of thing, resigning and starting a business, is inherently unreliable for me without any experience! It is not easy for everyone. With a family and children, I spent a lot of money at home ... it is reasonable not to borrow money!

I never pay much attention to money, no matter how hard it is, I just want to give the best to my relatives and friends!

Now I like to draw and write something after work, and writing makes me happy! I am very satisfied with my present life! In the era of information explosion, we don't expect to be rich or expensive by code words! I only focus on the richness of my heart, and I am satisfied with giving an inspiration to passers-by occasionally!

No matter whether you are rich or not, I will not hesitate to help people who are in trouble to borrow money from me!