What do you think of a teacher's resignation letter? I want to read it, because the world is so big.

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/kloc-in the early morning of April 4, a resignation letter triggered a hot comment. The reason for my resignation is only 10: the world is so big, I want to see it. Some people commented that this is "the most sentimental resignation letter in history, no one." According to the interview, the author is a female psychological teacher, who joined the Henan Experimental Middle School in July 2004.

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Zhihu users: Chen Si.

Specific analysis of specific problems.

She is a psychological teacher in our school, surnamed Gu, a national second-level psychological counselor. I have attended her classes in junior high school and high school.

Above, this is one of the games that Mr. Gu took us to play before the winter vacation in Senior One. Pass a straw through a small paper ring and don't drop it, or start over. Do you see the words on the blackboard? She looks good on the blackboard, too )

Some people say that I infringe the right to portrait, so can I add a filter to blur my five senses: -D

She is not beautiful, but her voice is gentle and beautiful, and her temperament and way of speaking will remind people of kindergarten teachers.

The class will tell us something about brain science, analyze whether we are left brain or right brain, and how to adjust stress.

Junior high school is not very impressed with her, and the life span of psychology class is only one semester. Later, the course may be shot by the grade head or the principal because it is not helpful for further study.

Usually, she works on the twelfth floor of our school, which is nominally the psychological counseling room of the school, but in fact, few students take the initiative to go. Her level is very good, but everyone is unfamiliar with psychological counseling, and there are some exclusions and prejudices.

When I was in high school, I only met a "problem student" who was dragged by the class teacher to go to psychological counseling every day, except that the academic performance was the best senior in our class.

When she was in military training in senior three, she played games in every class.

Wrong response to the instructor's instructions,

Twist your ass and say, "I am a big teapot, and my ass is green."

Then she demonstrated it in front of us first.

When the first year of high school begins, all freshmen will go to the art and sports center to participate in an activity.

It was September, and she hosted the event in a fantastic puppet.

I made a lot of preparations and had a good experience.

Let senior one write a letter to senior three, saying that she is a dream and will be sent to us as a postman on the eve of the college entrance examination.

I saw that when she finally took off her hood, her hair was wet and stuck to her face.

Teacher Gu's works are probably in this state-I spent my junior high school and senior high school in experiments, and she only appeared in senior one and senior one. (Senior one attended more than ten classes and presided over three activities.)

In her position, there are few opportunities to really understand students.

I quite understand her decision. Unlike a teacher, she is in charge of a class of students. Seeing the growth of students, she has a full sense of satisfaction and accomplishment. Most of the classmates who remember her, such as me, are unknown to her. Every year, she has to face a large number of strange students and host the same activities. She can only understand the students as a group, but she has no chance to get to know every individual in this group seriously. Few people go to the consulting room. At this time, students can't interact with her or give her feedback. This kind of student interaction and feedback is available to other teachers in the school and is very important for teachers.

She is still young. If it were me, I can't imagine sitting in the cold office on the 12 floor all my life, with few students visiting. (Students are only active on 1-6 floor, and other teachers' offices are on 1-7 floor. )

Such a naive teacher who brings me good memories deserves a better future than a deserted office.

The world is so big, I want to see it-ten words, concise, enough. Complaining and explaining are not her style.

Zhihu user: Joal Zhu

I just don't understand why so many people interpret these ten words as "I want to travel around the world"

Jumping out of the system and choosing a different career is also "seeing the world."

Zhihu users: Fat cats.

Why do you laugh at others like this?

Everyone wearing Zhihu at the moment, you secretly pretend that "the world is so big, I want to see it". It's just that people wrote this sentence and gave it back to the leader. You dare not.

"What kind of experience is XXX?" This sentence will be popular in Zhihu style, which shows that as long as people are not too confused, they all have the instinct to yearn for a bigger world. And maybe you also realize that at this moment, in the parallel universe, there are countless things you are doing that you can't think of in this world.

Ask yourself three questions:

1. What did you do from 9 am to 9 pm this morning? Take a pen and write it down.

2. Now you travel back to last Friday to compete with you for a favorite job or a opposite sex. Where do you think you can beat him?

3. Send the paper written by the question 1 to 18 years old. Imagine his expression.

I think there is no essential difference between most people's living conditions and those before the teacher resigned.

Many people can't remember what they did yesterday or what they ate the day before yesterday. There seems to be no difference between last year and the year before. But I can clearly remember many details of one afternoon when 14 years old. What does this mean?

This circular life, which everyone is used to day after day, is a black hole that devours our time. Blink of an eye, white hair as white. Your subjective life passes very fast because your brain is escaping from this mechanical feeling. If you realize that a job is not only consuming your vitality, but also your life, why not leave?

To see the world, you really don't have to travel around the world with your body. My understanding of "going far away" is to experience life as much as possible in a given length of life. Why does everyone like buffets? We don't miss that bite of food, we just like the feeling of holding options. And the world is secretly encouraging all behaviors that increase "diversity".

This experience doesn't have to be linked to a wallet.

Some people's life is just a big meal. Abalone and sea cucumber are served without your money, but even after eating for 300 days, the sparerib noodles across the street will attract you irresistibly.

But if someone stops you at this time and tells you not to cross the street, abalone and sea cucumber are your life. Do you feel that the small noodle restaurant opposite is close to you? What does abalone taste like at this time? The noodle restaurant 50 meters away is your Tibet and your distance.

So, don't think about traveling when you see "far away".

To see the world, to play a different self. It can't be solved by buying a plane ticket. How many people get on a jet plane and reach the other side of the planet, but only find a five-star hotel to play mahjong for seven days, or watch Korean dramas in another place with an ipad.

At least for now, this teacher has experienced the feeling of "naked resignation". If Zhihu has a question called "What kind of experience is naked resignation", she can answer it, but many people dare not think about it.

What is looking into the distance? Suppose she wants to experience the life of a stall. She has been standing in the distance since she finished the resignation procedure and walked from the classroom to the school gate to set up a stall.

Why don't you have a try?

Be a different person and see what kind of experience it is.

Zhihu users: Tang Que.

Your wallet is too small for you to leave.

Zhihu users: Kokura Temple.

My father, 54, resigned last year and became a monk in Dabei Temple in Haicheng, Liaoning this year.

When he was in office, he was one of the best national experts in the industry. He is honest and selfless, and he is very demanding of himself.

I only told my family and superiors when I resigned. Now when I go home for the New Year, my colleagues don't know about it.

Before he left, he told me that he would live for his family, career and country for the rest of his life (that's what he said).

Now I really want to live for myself and do what I want to do. The rest of his life is still long, but he can't wait any longer.

After dad left, mom picked up the abandoned driver's license, bought her own car, went to work every day, and drove back to another city to see grandma on weekends.

I took out some money left by my father and began to learn how to manage money. I plan to study abroad after working for a few years.

I feel a little lonely when I dare not set off firecrackers during the Spring Festival and occasionally encounter difficulties in choosing (my father used to help me with my advice).

But he left me a lot of spiritual wealth, which is enough to support me to make great strides in the days to come.

I was not very homesick since I was a child. I traveled halfway across China to go to college and chose a job that crossed the diagonal.

In the future, we may go to more and further places. The world is so big, who doesn't want to see it?

That's all, whether it's mom and dad or myself, the so-called "going out to see" means different things to everyone.

When we put aside "selfish" concerns and live for ourselves once, and our families don't all want each other to be happy, then maybe we can really find the balance of the world.

Thank you very much for your recognition and blessing to dad. Sometimes it feels like telepathy. I received a text message forwarded by my mother three minutes ago, and I couldn't help sitting in the office ... I sincerely wish everyone can find their own peace of mind.

Zhihu user: Zhu Sha

In fact, this is the reason why I resigned for the first time.

Just said it in front of the unit leader. You can't leave it on the paper. Finally, the reason for resigning on the paper is that the home is too far away from the unit, nearly four hours away every day. Considering the hardships of life, I request to resign, hoping to be considerate and approved. At the same time, I am very grateful to the unit for its trust and training. Thank humbly.

Actually, it doesn't matter why she resigned. The important thing is that she chose to resign. If I thought the world was so big at that time, I would have gone out to see the reason and filled out a formal resignation form, which probably wouldn't have passed. I found a tacit reason that I could pass.

that's it

But what I want to say is the reaction of the leaders when they hear me say this.

The leader at that time was a kind predecessor and was very polite to his subordinates. After receiving my resignation report, he talked to me several times. I really appreciate it. He is so right, I have to say, the world is so big, I want to go out and have a look. I am still young. He said at the time, but the outside world is dangerous. You have been here since graduation. Safe and enviable. Your resignation now is like jumping off a cliff. Are you sure you want to jump?

I said, yeah, if you don't jump, how do you know if there will be branches sticking out to catch you

He said that since you have thought it over, I will support you.

When you are sure, the reason for quitting is just an excuse. Whether it's literature, reason or nonsense. What matters is how to write to achieve the purpose of resignation. For others, you can't just think about the reasons for others' resignation and think that others' journey is a sea of stars, and you will be miserable. No, but that's her life, her choice, and she will be responsible for it.

Yes, I am responsible for my choice. Later, I met with this leader. A few years later, he fully understood my choice at that time. And sincerely wish my future.

I am very grateful to those who have tried to lend you a helping hand in the journey of life. While they are kind-hearted, they also respect your choice.

The reason why the female teacher resigned was approved, which shows that she also has such a leader, trusts her ability and judgment, and respects her choice.

What is the reason? It has nothing to do with it.

End with a chicken soup. When you know where the road is, the whole world will make way for you.

People won't ask you why you took this road. Because that's-your choice.

Zhihu user: Sun Zhigang

This news made me experience three feelings, first laughing, then crying, and finally sweating.

Teacher Gu and I have some similar experiences:

1, we have all worked in school for ten years, but she is in middle school and I am in college;

Our work in school is not very mainstream. She does psychological counseling, not the main course teacher; I pay more attention to teaching and don't do much scientific research;

Teacher is our first job after graduation. In other words, never left school;

Finally, we all left school with a longing for the world. She just left. I have been gone for two years and eight months.

I laugh, because it's really cute and interesting! What's more, I have had that kind of pure and heroic, and I have always been proud of it. Therefore, there is both a knowing smile and a watching smile.

Then I want to cry.

No one can predict what will happen in the unknown world, not to mention that the world is so big and there are too many possibilities.

The new world I stepped into was not completely unfamiliar. Internet education is a combination of my computer major and educational background. The biggest change is the working environment. There is a great difference between universities and enterprises. The nature, ideas, methods, objectives and evaluation system of the work are different. These are not difficult to adapt and learn, but I entered this environment with the mentality of being old, having a high salary and a high position. No one thinks I should have problems with these basic things. For example, the recipient and cc of an e-mail should always know what it means, right? But I really don't know. Sending emails will bring a lot of trouble, which was completely unimaginable in the past.

In short, I entered the enterprise with the mentality of a fresh graduate, but directly assumed the responsibility of a ten-year-old employee. This imbalance brings a lot of trouble to colleagues, but it is extremely painful for yourself.

In the most painful time, I will completely doubt myself. From emotional intelligence to IQ, from ability to personality, I am very skeptical. Even for the previous achievements, I will doubt that they are all lucky and illusory.

It took me a whole year to get back to normal. It's really silly to think about it now. Netease is really tolerant. What got me through this year? Courage? Responsibility? Ideal? Honestly, neither. Relying on the natural "thick skin" and the timely encouragement of colleagues.

I admit, I really cried, I really cried. //blush

Thinking about this, thinking about Teacher Gu, thinking about the onlookers, makes me sweat.

I don't know what kind of planning and preparation Miss Gu has made for the future. She smiled innocently and wrote innocently. The school is childish, but it is not allowed outside. I'm afraid she will meet unexpected difficulties and be crushed.

Netizens praised him for his courage, and many people admired him. But I am afraid that she will become positive energy and encourage many people to jump out of the present world to have a look. This kind of jump is really only suitable for a few people.

I think there are only two kinds of people who can consider taking risks:

1, nothing, nothing;

If you have a solid future, you won't lose everything if you lose.

And we must optimistically turn "losing" into an experience, otherwise it will be a blow.

"Jumping out of the comfort zone" is really good for people's growth. I don't regret my original decision, and I'm glad I made the right choice. But I still think "out of the comfort zone" is more suitable for most people. The network is so big, take a good look, do small practices, and go down bit by bit, which is more responsible for people and themselves.

If I go back in time, I will definitely make more preparations in advance and talk to more people. Hope to adopt. Thank you.