How to change the habit of loving others?

1, correct your attitude first. A good and sincere attitude can make your own language, like spring breeze and drizzle, knock other people's hearts, moisten dry hearts, inspire people's fighting spirit and increase people's courage.

2. Encourage others more. Say more words that inspire others and affirm their abilities, make others feel excited, and then have a feeling that their ambitions have not been realized.

3. Give others trust. Giving people full trust will give people full courage and strength, save the sinking soul and ignite confidence and hope in the desperate heart.

4. Don't swear. Bad words can only arouse others' disgust and resistance, cause irreparable trauma to people's hearts, make people feel disheartened and feel that no one in this world will believe in themselves.

Don't lose your temper. When a person is angry, what he says will plunge into other people's hearts like nails and scratch them. Even if the wound heals, it will leave an indelible mark.

6. Change the rude way of speaking. Don't jump to conclusions and criticize at will. First think and then speak. A rude word can destroy a soul whose original conscience still exists. Everyone likes to listen to the same kind words as flowers, and try to say more golden words that praise others and cheer up the soul.

7. Be good at listening. A person who is good at listening to others quietly must be a person with thought, meticulous knowledge and conduct, and modest and gentle personality. Such people may not be noticed in the crowd at first, but they must be the most respected in the end. Because he is modest, he is liked by everyone; Because of his thoughtfulness, he is trusted by everyone.