I’ve known a girl for ten days. I like her but haven’t confessed to her. She is very cold to me. Every time I take the initiative to chat with her and I say something to her.

As long as the confession method is appropriate, the girl will agree:

Here’s how to see it

For boys only

Confession is definitely very technical. something. Only an idiot would say I love you directly. . . It will scare the other person away. . . How to express your love?

In fact, confession is just a process. . . Before you confess. . . The other party should actually already know what you mean. . . The two of you should be so ambiguous that she is actually your girlfriend. . . It's not that she started to like you after you said I liked you. . . A man who expresses his feelings without thinking is actually ignoring the feelings of the other person. . . Even if the other person likes you too. . You can only express your relationship on specific occasions and in specific ways. . . Confession is actually an upgrade from an ambiguous relationship to a romantic relationship. . . It's not about letting her know you like her. . . . Anyway. . Before confessing. . She already knows. . .

Summarize some common mistakes. . .

1. Valentine’s Day. . . Date a girl who is not your girlfriend on Chinese Valentine's Day. .

This is a big no-no. . . Remember the above is a Valentine’s Day. . . If she says yes to a date, she's tacitly agreeing to a relationship with you. . . Unless you are sure of it. . . You like her. . She doesn't know yet or isn't ready to say yes to you yet. . . You absolutely cannot make a date. . . Otherwise the guarantee is rejected. . .

2. Confess your feelings without being ambiguous. . .

First of all, you have to make sure that others also like you. . . Is your unilateral confession too selfish? . . How to test it. . . Hint first. . . First there are hints that are not easy to guess. . . . Reuse is a cue that everyone can see. . . She responds to these cues. . . You take advantage of these reactions. . Find out what her attitude is towards you. . .

3. Regardless of the occasion. . .

It’s easy to confess your love in a hurry. . . Too abrupt. . . And non-suggestive confessions must be made in person. . . QQ text messages will not work. . . Only when the atmosphere between two people is extremely ambiguous can I say that I really care about you. . . (But hints can be used casually)

4. After the girl refuses. .

Even if she likes you, she may refuse out of reserve. . How to determine what it is. . . Very simple. . . If she refuses, the relationship between the two becomes somewhat estranged. . . It means she didn't mean it. . . If more ambiguous. . . It means that she doesn't really refuse. . . There is a good idea at this time. . . You keep her cold for a while. . . She will feel a little disappointed and regretful (be careful not to stay cold for too long, and you have to make sure you refuse out of reserve) and then you are looking for opportunities to cultivate an ambiguous atmosphere alone (preferably at night). . . Confess again. . .

5. Don’t go crazy after being rejected. . . Otherwise you will become strangers. . .

6. Girls talk about being friends. .

Perhaps rejection. . Maybe it's reserve. . . Maybe I want to observe and see if you are qualified. . . The judgment method has been mentioned above. . .

If you really refuse, don’t say much. . . The latter two are similar. . . you say. . . What I want is your words. . There is a need to understand each other. . . Let's be friends first. . . Then take the opportunity to show off. . . Let her know that you do like her. . . Avoid embarrassment. . . Quiet. . . Don’t be too fiery either. . . Be slightly chilled. . . If she notices that you are slightly cold, she starts to take the initiative. . . It means she is really interested in you. . . It's just a matter of time before you two get together (of course you have to behave well...and even the most reserved girls will do this...I've done experiments). . If you are slightly cold, she is even colder. . . This is no longer reserved