"Daughter, you are married for the second time, so don't choose any more." What should I do if my mother picks on my child?

As a woman, I have to worry about whether my husband will cheat, whether my children are obedient and sensible, whether my husband's family is good to her, and whether I have to take care of my parents. Women are prone to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, which is reflected in marriage. In the face of her husband's infidelity, Ms. Tang has something to say. Let's listen to the story of Ms. Tang.

Ms. Tang said:

My name is Tang Yu. I am 34 years old. I originally had a very happy family, but the happy days really didn't last long. My husband and I were 28 when we got married. Because I am pregnant, I married my husband. At that time, my husband loved me more. Every time I went back to my mother's house, people said I was a light rain! You really marry better than all your sisters.

Every time I go back to my family, I am envied, but such envy has touched my family. As long as my mother's house is at a family reunion, she can always hear from me. I didn't feel anything at that time, but after a long time, I felt as if all my sisters regarded me as a public enemy because they were unhappy. When they see me so happy, they always say they are envious and think they will be unhappy sooner or later.

They are right. When the child was two years old, her husband cheated on her, which was a slap in the face. Now when I come home, people will say my husband. How can you not see it? Why did you cheat? That's great. None of the sisters are feeling well. I'm the one who feels uncomfortable. I'm thinking about my initial feelings. I can't accept such cheating, so I want a divorce. At that time, my mother-in-law said that divorce didn't want me to forgive my husband.

I can't stand such a thing happening to me. I'm determined to get a divorce. I want custody of my children. In this way, I have no relationship with my husband's family and returned to my family. My mother's pride in me was suddenly eclipsed. There is still a younger brother at home who is not married. It's more or less inconvenient to watch me live at home with my children after the divorce. After all, my parents prepared this home for my brother.

At my mother's house, I give my child to my mother and give her living expenses every month. Since my divorce, I have found a job. Although the salary is not very high, this is the way of life now. Because my husband and I are divorced, I can't bear to say that I am looking for it. Because I gave my old youth to my husband and asked me to pay my feelings, I was always uncomfortable. Often crying alone, relatives can't bear it. I often come to my house to give it to me.

After meeting several men, I feel very inferior, because none of them have children. I took care of the children for several years, and my mother never told me those things. Suddenly one day, my mother said to me, "Daughter, you are married. Don't choose any more." I was puzzled by my mother's words at that time. I said, "Mom, I didn't choose it. I took care of the children."

Mother said, are you worried about remarriage, that other people's homes are not good for your children, or that you have to face your husband's affair again? They say that knowing a daughter is like a mother, yes, that's what I'm worried about. A woman gave her youth, but she ended up like this.

Conclusion: Taking Ms. Tang as an example, this kind of marriage exists. Ms. Tang did not dare to remarry, just because she was worried that her feelings would not be trampled on again. In fact, what she is most worried about is the child. After all, it's not her own, and the other person's thinking is completely bad. In fact, I advised Ms. Tang that getting married is not to say that she is unhappy once, and then she will be unhappy later. Isn't there a saying that "good things always pay off"?