The benefits of using polite language

Greetings generally do not emphasize the specific content, but only show a courtesy. When used, it is usually concise and clear, and it is not bound by the occasion. On no occasion should you omit greetings when meeting people. At the same time, no matter who greets you in any way, you should give a corresponding reply and don't ignore it. In communication with people, common greetings mainly include "hello", "good morning", "good afternoon" and "good evening". When greeting foreigners, it is best to use international greetings. For example, how to use English? (Hello) Wait. Welcome language is an indispensable polite language when receiving visiting guests. Such as "welcome", "welcome everyone", "nice to meet you" and so on. Apologize, in daily communication, people sometimes inevitably influence or disturb others for some reason, especially when they are rude, stand up, excuse or miss, and they should apologize to each other in a timely, positive and sincere manner. Common ways of apologizing are "sorry", "please forgive", "sorry", "rude" and "sorry to have kept you waiting". When you are embarrassed to apologize in person, you can also express it by phone or text message. Request language refers to the necessary language you should use when you make a request or request to others. When you make a request or request to others, you must first take the word "please" and be sincere in attitude and tone. Don't sell yourself short, let alone be arrogant. Common pleadings include "excuse me", "sorry", "thank you" and "trouble you". In Japan, people often say "Please take care" and "Please". English-speaking countries generally use "Excuseme". Consultation language refers to the frequent and appropriate use of consultation language such as "Do you need help", "What can I do for you", "Do you have anything else", "Can I come in", "If you don't mind, can I have a look" and "Do you think this is ok", which will make others. Compliment refers to the words used when others express their compliments. In communication, we should be good at discovering and appreciating the strengths of others and give them sincere praise in time. This can not only shorten the psychological distance between the two sides, but more importantly, it can reflect your tolerance and kindness. Common compliments are "very good", "not bad", "great", "really great" and "really beautiful". In the face of compliments from others, we should also respond positively and appropriately. For example, thank you for your encouragement, thank you, you flatter me, and you are not bad. Refusal refers to the language that implies with euphemistic words when it is inconvenient or difficult to directly explain the original intention, so that the other party will understand. In interpersonal communication, when the other party puts forward a question or request and it is difficult to answer the other party's "yes" or "no", some evasive language can be used to refuse. For example, you can say politely, "Sorry, the manager is in an important meeting. Can you come back another day? " "Would you please make an appointment with the manager and contact you later?" If the visitor is still pestering, he can smile and say, "I'm really sorry, I can't help you." Although farewell language gives people a sense of politeness, it is also sincere and warm. When you say goodbye to others, you should be friendly and gentle, your language should be measured, and you should be tactful and humble. For example, "Thank you again for coming, and you are welcome to come again!" "Nice to meet you. I hope to contact more in the future. " "Thank you very much. I will see you soon. " Wait a minute. Honorific honorific words, also known as honorific words, are words that show respect and courtesy as opposed to modesty. Besides being polite, using honorifics can also reflect a person's cultural accomplishment. Honorifics are usually used in more formal occasions. Common honorifics include "please", "you", "your Excellency" and "your wife". Honorifics are especially used to address relatives of the other party, such as talking to others or writing letters to others. When paying tribute to the relatives of the other party, words such as "order", "respect" and "xian" are often used. In daily life, honorifics also have some idioms, such as asking, forgiving and disturbing. These honorifics are frequently used. In addition, common honorifics are:? Re-education-respecting the elderly as a teacher. One more question-a question of respecting your elders or superiors. Rethink-respect the care of elders or superiors. Visit-means visit. Admire.-it means admire. Farewell.-It means leaving. Gift-send it respectfully. The address of the younger generation to the elder or the younger generation to the superior. Be correct-send your own work to others for criticism and correction. Teach-give advice. Tell.-it means tell. Return-means return. Companionship-means companionship. Gui Geng-ask the other person's age. Your name-ask the other person's name. Huicun-please save it. It is often used to give people photos, books and other souvenirs. Backing the mountain-refers to coming in the right direction. Mainly used for business to customer. Letters to others. Birthday-Celebrate other people's birthdays. Wait-wait respectfully. Help yourself.-help yourself. Junjian-please read the letter from your elders or heads. Used after the title at the beginning of a letter. Work-refers to leaving the original position will lead to a higher position. Longevity-used to ask the age of old people. Masterpiece-an article that respects others. Your home-address the other person's home or hometown. Come on.-the guests are here. Patronize-Businessmen are often used to welcome customers. Bi is also used to return the original owner or politely refuse the gift. Bi Xie-means to return the original and express gratitude. Mostly used to politely refuse gifts. Daughter-call someone else's daughter. Arrival-refers to the arrival of the other party. Take off your coat-let others take off their clothes. Yang cheng-intended to follow each other's intentions. It should be noted that the word "please" in honorific language is slightly different from that in request language. The word "please" in honorifics focuses on asking for help from others, and the word "please" in honorifics focuses on respect and respect for others, but the essence of the two is still the same. In addition, when using honorifics, we need to pay attention to the following questions: (1) You must have sincerity in your heart before you can say it. If you have a good culture of respecting others, you should first respect others ideologically. In this way, you can show respect for others in language. Therefore, when using honorifics, we should also pay attention to the concentration and sincerity of tone. Language is the shell of thinking, and it must have corresponding connotation. (2) Use different honorifics according to different objects. In other words, when using honorifics, we must make targeted choices. ? (3) Try to form the habit of using honorifics. Of course, the key is to respect people at all times. Only in this way can we pay attention to the use of honorifics everywhere. Modesty is also called "modesty". Compared with honorifics, it is a kind of word to show humility to people. The use of modesty is the same as the use of honorifics, and both reflect the speaker's own civilization. They are two sides of the same thing, that is, using respectful words to people and modest words to themselves. Modesty is used less than honorific words, and more often appears in written language. Modesty is the most commonly used usage, and it is also a humble way to address yourself and your loved ones in front of others. However, it should be noted that if the words "home", "house" and "small" have been marked, they already contain the meaning of "mine", so they cannot be added. Common modesty words mainly include the following: Dare to ask others for it. It used to be used to do things related to yourself. ? The family is poor. My humble opinion refers to my own comments. Wrong love-thank each other for their love. Dare-describe bold. Idiot-used for older people, saying that they are a few years older. Incompetence-modesty. Stupid birds fly first-refers to people with poor ability, who dare not lag behind and act before others. Stupidity-how humble you are about your articles, opinions, etc. Humble position-the modesty of officials in the old days. Old age-the modesty of the elderly. Shallow learning-not wide and not deep. Overpraise-excessive praise or praise from the other party. Dare not-that means you can't bear it. In addition, self-modesty and respect for others are inseparable unity. Although modest language is rarely used in daily life, its spirit is everywhere. As long as you show your modesty and sincerity in your daily language, people will naturally respect you. Polite and polite refusal refers to the use of euphemistic and implicit words to express things that are inconvenient to say frankly. In our country with a long cultural tradition, especially in social occasions, we should use polite refusal, which can better reflect one's quality and respect others' personal quality. Politeness is politeness, and clever use is politeness. Common etiquette mainly includes the following: Walking slowly-a kind of etiquette used to send guests away. Stay-is what guests say to their hosts when they leave. Excuse me-used to ask others for convenience or ask others. Excuse me-used to ask others to do something or make way. Be polite-call yourself impolite or ask others to be informal. Spend less time-because something can't be with me. Disrespect-apologize to the other party and blame yourself for being rude. Spare time-mostly used to ask others to put aside red tape and take time out to do something. Long time no see.-long time no see. Often used in separate reunions or letters. I have admired it for a long time. Use it when we first meet.