Find a job and ask others for help.

Ask others, be sincere, even if they say "you don't have to be so polite." You also have to answer "nothing, this thing is nothing." \x0d\ It's better to talk to people at home, and it's more sincere to ask them face to face with gifts. If the other person is far away from you and not in the same city, then calling and texting is the worst and the success rate is low. Call first to ask how you are doing recently, where you made a fortune or how much money you made. \x0d\ Since you said invite people to dinner, it means that you are in the same place with others, then you should call them first and ask them out for a chat and dinner, instead of inviting them to dinner after it is done. Isn't this a success? So who dares to help you? Failure has no face. Therefore, whether it is successful or not, you can't say, "Please eat when you are ready." Not saying it means that the relationship will get worse. Who can guarantee that you will find a job? Can only try. You have to invite people to dinner first, and then they will act. People will take action instead of calling or texting. They must pay in advance. This is called investment. He owes you a favor for eating your meal. If you want to pay it back, he will help you find a job. Do you see it? \x0d\ I hope I can help you and wish you success!