When my brother wants to borrow money, he always borrows it but never pays it back. What reason should I refuse him?

When you meet such a younger brother, if he borrows money from you again, you tell him not to borrow it. If he has a good attitude, then you can gently tell him that you have no money either. If he has a bad attitude and says he wants to borrow money, tell him he has no money, or tell him to return the money he borrowed before. After all, his brothers have to settle accounts. He borrowed money again and again and never paid it back, and no one had that much money to lend him.

Borrowing money from relatives like this is the most troublesome, because you might as well urge her to pay back the money. You can't beat him and scold him, but you can only suffer from YaBaKui. Next time he asks you to borrow it, you are embarrassed to refuse him. Even when he is in urgent need of money and has no money to ask others to pay back the money, he is just like an uncle, so there is a saying that when he borrows money, he is a grandson and when he pays back the money, he is an uncle.

Therefore, even if you are your own brother, you should make it clear to him and settle accounts between relatives. After all, every family has its own family, and you have to take care of your wife and children. As the saying goes, it is not difficult to borrow again after borrowing. If you meet such a person who doesn't pay back the money, don't lend it to him next time. Don't refuse him because you are embarrassed. It's hard to get him to give it back to you. Besides, you have a family. You should take care of your family. You can't suffer your family just because you are embarrassed to refuse others for a while. This kind of person must be brave enough to tell him.

Therefore, when lending money to others, we must find out what personality this person is. Lend it to him. Can he pay you back? Does this person have integrity? Is it worth borrowing? These problems must be clarified before borrowing money, and like the kind of person who repeatedly borrows money and doesn't pay it back, he not only hurts himself but also hurts him, because you have no idea what he borrows money for. Although we want to be a kind person, we should have our own bottom line and not let others step on your bottom line again and again.