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Some couples are divorced, but they need to keep in touch because of their children, or they can write to each other. I sorted out the letters to my divorced husband below. Welcome to reading.

A letter to a divorced husband

Dear husband:

Hello, I want to say hello. Your 12-year long and bumpy divorce road has been very difficult.

I didn't want to write to you, because I didn't want to recall the past, but you forced me to divorce so hard that I couldn't communicate with you (I was afraid that the conversation wasn't as good as you thought, so you attacked me again), so I had to turn on the computer to sort out my thoughts. Because my hand hurts, I can't hold on to much typing time. I want to simply answer the difficult question you gave me.

Looking at the computer screen, although I don't know how to write it, I have a firm determination: to carry our marriage through to the end! In order to give my son a complete home, and for me in my forties, I will carry our marriage to the end!

I know you are not satisfied with this answer. Divorce is really hard for you to live with me.

Just say you don't love me and don't want to live with me. Then why did you marry me twice? ! After the divorce in 2005, the house was sold and you said you would hold hands with me again. I want to go back to my house and remarry with you, and now you want a divorce. Don't you think it's too deceptive? ! Don't I have to do nothing to accompany you all my life?

You only think about the bright future after divorce, and I must also consider the hard journey after divorce. I've been beaten black and blue by you many times, and my arm bone grafting is still recovering. My two broken ribs often hurt, and now I can't take care of myself. I have to do an operation without medical insurance, and I have to pay high medical expenses. You won't let me go to work to take care of my family. You said that there are many other people's wives who don't work. Are you hungry? For this reason, I also lost my business to make a living. I specialize in cooking and washing at home to take care of your father and son's daily life. I have to pay four or five thousand old-age insurance every year, and my child's college tuition is 20 thousand a year. Once you and I get divorced, I will think about my future life.

You let me think again today, and you must let me answer it before it can be fulfilled? Your divorce wish, please pay me120,000 cash (because I want to have surgery to treat your injury), and buy me old-age insurance every year until I retire, and you will bear two-thirds of my children's college tuition. Otherwise, no way! I know this is nothing to you with an annual income of more than 100 thousand, because after divorce, I have to stand on my own feet, and I have to consider my medical expenses, living expenses and children's tuition. After 22 years of marriage, I have devoted my youth and all my energy to this family. In this way, I am also helpless and reluctant to open our home. Even if you break the contract, you should compensate for the loss.

Seeing this, maybe you will scold me MGB, DXD and GRD over and over again. Then I will silently bring you a cup of warm water, just like the day before yesterday, and advise you to drink some water, so don't get angry. Being angry is not good for your health. That's it. Let's not get divorced. Let's have a good life together Be careful that your blood pressure will rise. Honey, don't break anything, these are all household items that we have worked hard to make. You can buy it if you kick it out. How painful is your leg? You always say I'm smirking at you. Don't you want to see your wife smile at home every day?

You said you would go out to live, but I will still tell you how warm it is to live at home, how cold it is outside, and how comfortable it is to live at home without hot water to take a bath.

You are always angry and say, how do you live? ! I will still tell you that you go to work every day and go home for dinner after work. I cook at home and take care of each other in life. I will take care of all the housework after my arm and rib injuries are healed. You take out your salary every month to treat my injury. We will plan the living expenses, the children's tuition and keep accounts together. The rest should be saved to buy a house for his son, find a job and provide for the elderly. That's it. Sometimes I think that if I marry another husband in the future, I will live like this.

Honey, you are 50 years old. How many years do we have left when we are old? When we first got married, we used to have a bungalow and a bicycle. Now we have no worries about food and clothing. How can we get by?

All disappointments will pass quickly, and so will all bad moods. Remember? You texted me last summer and said, I reiterate: I never thought about divorce at all, and I will never mention these two words again. What is before us is to cherish and manage it. ? I still leave this beautiful message, and I still believe what you said is true.

XXX

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The second part of the letter to the divorced husband

Husband:

I can still call you that, but my heart hurts. Maybe I can't call you so soon. Now I can't imagine anyone who will call you husband in the future. I only hope that the woman you choose again can love you more, be smarter, be more capable and tolerate you more than I do. Maybe then you will give her the love you didn't give me, the tenderness and care you didn't give me, and I hope you can be really happy.

We have said countless times that it is not easy to get together. How can I give up easily? Love, marriage, buying a house, decoration, everything has come, just a child, but we have come to an end; Maybe you think you have paid more than me, maybe you think my ability and economy are limited; But I feel that I didn't ask you like other women, and I didn't ask to marry you unconditionally. When I got married, I took off my wedding dress and didn't even have to change my new clothes. I want to have a baby with you willingly, even if I want to bring it myself.

We used to cherish each other's feelings. Although I am willful, I have paid for your feelings without reservation. I am confident that you will cherish, love and tolerate me forever, but I didn't expect our fate to be so shallow. I've only seen other people's feelings come quickly, and you were so sad when you went. I never thought my feelings would be like this, and they were all empty in the end.

Along the way, I feel that I have lost my dignity. Believe in our feelings too much, I think you will love me, protect me, remind me, be afraid of my sadness, and not let me be wronged under any circumstances. . . Always believe what you once said: I am the one you are looking for; You fell in love with me at first sight. So I can live my life now. This is my own choice and responsibility, which has nothing to do with others, but time flies and I can't turn back. I am too blind and emotional, but I don't know that our feelings have changed. Now I understand that everyone has their own inner world, even people in love can't completely belong to another person. When you are in love, you will ignore many things that you care about very much. The reason is that you want to completely conquer each other. For example, you used to care so much about each other's financial conditions that you couldn't bear to write my name when buying a house. But because you cared about me at that time, you were tolerant for the time being. I was a fool when I was in love, and I was never rational until now. When you don't love, everything that was tolerated before is magnified, and it becomes so embarrassing and intolerable that even the other person doesn't like it. Walking in the street, every woman may force her wife to be fine. Perhaps this is the cruelest reality. You have to accept it if you don't accept it.

Just don't want to see each other have new feelings before divorce, just like rubbing salt on the wound; I only hope that each other can respect their true feelings, and don't make the once beautiful things so ferocious that they defile their feelings with others.

Since there are too many things that can't be changed, whether it's personality, views on certain things or other ideas, don't force yourself. If I really don't think about it, it won't change anything. If I persist, I will only harm myself and others, and I will continue to hurt people around me. It doesn't matter what I can't do I know you cherish this house more than I do, so I thank you for writing my name in that complicated state of mind. But for me, without love, how can I run this family?

My thoughts are very traditional. I have always believed that the family belongs to two people, and it has nothing to do with who earns more money and who earns less. Maybe this is also the gap between us. In your heart, you may always think that you earned this home, so you didn't say so until the night I left. Call me sad or call me desperate. Maybe I'm still dreaming.

I have been in love for four years and a half, and I have cooked for you countless times. You've only cooked a few times since my first miscarriage. After four years of love, I washed your clothes countless times. You bought a new washing machine and washed it twice. I have cleaned the room countless times. In order to spend the weekend with you, I basically wait for you at home every weekend, basically isolated from the outside world. Maybe you will say that I have no friends, but you have brought my heart back to my family. After four years of love, I shed too many tears for you, and the tears of sadness and despair are far greater than the tears of happiness; After more than two years of marriage, I called your parents countless times? Mom and dad? You seldom call my parents; After more than four years of love, I have basically recovered your constipation and stomach trouble, but mine is serious; We have been in love for more than four years, and we haven't even played in South Kyoto. After four years of love, Doni only sent me flowers once; I have loved you for more than four years. I have two children, one has miscarried and the other is stunted. I was hospitalized for the first time in my life, but you were not with me. You said you would make it up to me, but you just said it. Married for two years, never had two anniversaries, and never had a honeymoon like others; After two years of marriage, you didn't accompany me back to my mother's house in the second Spring Festival, and because you broke my parents' hearts; Married twice, and my first birthday after marriage was also my thirtieth birthday, so you didn't give me a good life; I have been in love for more than four years, and my colleagues and friends think I am very happy. In fact, my heart is more depressed than anyone else. . .

You don't have to hate me so much. You have to face what you have to face. Since nothing can be changed, choose to end it. Don't let this heavy marriage affect your bright future. I can't continue this life without care, consideration and dignity. If one day you think of it, let me know. As for the procedure, we'll discuss it.

XXX

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Letter to divorced husband 3

Husband:

After work yesterday, I bought things and small clothes, and took my friends to see the children's grandmother. As a result, my mother scolded me for not letting me in and seeing the children. I cried and begged her to let me see the children. She didn't open the door. I was crying outside and the children were crying inside. I suspected that you were in there with that woman, so she didn't open the door for me. My neighbor later confirmed my guess. You are really with a tall girl who is 25 or 6 years old. Ha ha! I really thought you were making money in Shaanxi like a fool! It turns out that in the past year, you said that you were in poor health and could not come near me. That's all fake, what impotence and premature ejaculation! How can you be such a liar! You also said that you can't give me what I want (sex life), that you are sorry for me and want to divorce me. Even if I tell you in tears that I can't have sex, I don't want a divorce! You still insist on leaving me! It turns out that this disease is just for me! I'm really stupid!

I gave up the idea of being a nanny and left my things at the door! I left in tears! I was in tears when I got into a taxi! Why! In fact, I was psychologically prepared before I came, but when the truth really appeared in front of me, I was really going to collapse, my heart was going to jump out and I was out of breath. How cruel! Is this my life? This is a dream! It seems that such a scene has only been seen on TV, and such a thing will only happen to others! I always thought you were different from other men. You are as emotional as I am. Once you were so kind to me that even friends joked that you had a daughter-in-law and forgot your mother. You joked that she was my own daughter-in-law! And how many times have you made fun of men who leave their wives and children at home and have women outside! Now you have done some very standard things! Have a wife! Ha ha! This is ridiculous!

Last summer, you started to go home late at night under the pretext of drinking, and then you went home twice every two or three days! As long as I persuade you, I will quarrel. Later, I thought you had figured it out yourself, but you didn't come home for months in the name of going out to earn money! Now I understand that you have been with her!

When you and her were in your mother's life is sweet, I was alone in this 80-square-meter house, cooking, eating, sleeping and paying all kinds of living expenses! I suddenly feel like a TV series. I'm a clown! There are some things I don't understand: since you want to be with her and have taken her to live with your mother, why don't you urge me to divorce! Why didn't you contact me? What I don't understand is that since that woman wants to be with you, why doesn't she urge you to divorce and wear my children to buy cotton shoes! Your mother can accept that she lives in your house without our divorce. What kind of family is this? What does she want! The last thing I understand is, is your mother willing to let you live like this? What did you think when you and she moved into your mother's house? Too wild. Don. No wonder your mother said: My son can find a big girl when he divorces you. Can you find a young man? Hehe, it turns out that as early as last year, she knew that you had found her a little wife outside!

I remembered Winnie Hin's understanding of singing: Ah! What a painful realization, you used to be all to me, and when I look back, every step is so lonely! Everything she gives you now, I gave you all these years! Once we were the most enviable couple among friends, who would have thought that we would have today! I don't want to get it back now, and I know it's impossible. My heart aches, I can't bear to part with it, I miss it! I once really loved you. At home, I fantasized that you would suddenly open the door and appear in front of me. I think I will still fly over and hug you and say, I miss you so much. When you are not at home, I still put away my summer clothes and put your thick clothes neatly next to me. Hug your clothes and cry! Looking at our wedding photos in a daze

Hey, now I have taken off my wedding photo! I know that we will be the most familiar strangers in the future! Once you were mine and I was yours. Who will we be in the future? Ha ha! I am rational, I won't do anything exciting! I also want to understand! After breaking up, I admit that I will miss you! But time will make me forget your happiness and pain! I will have my own new life! Come back and divorce me! We can all be free!

Promise me that you will get along with her! Take care of yourself and drink less! We will all change our temper in the future, so you have a good life! I and my future him will be very happy, too! Take care of our children!

All right, that's all. What a mess! I didn't mean anything by it! I feel more comfortable saying it! We will be the most familiar strangers in the future!

Goodbye, the man I once loved most!

XXX

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Letter to divorced husband 4

Dear:

This is a letter of parting.

Not all breakups are due to the disappearance or transfer of love.

Honey, just two days ago, you broke up with me again, just because you repeated it twice and I didn't hear it.

Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Whenever you say goodbye, what I see in your eyes is not the boredom of your life now, nor the extinction of the light of hope. On the contrary, I saw the desire. A few times, your eyes even sparkled with excitement. I know you are expecting the pain and hysteria that I am about to lose you. You are waiting for this moment in your heart to convince you how much I love you.

Therefore, for you, breaking up is not even a boring prank, but a love drama that will be staged regularly between you and me. It is a gluttonous feast that makes you extremely enjoy and satisfy.

Dear, I'm really tired, for your endless questioning and testing, for your endless love practice.

Every time I look embarrassed or tired, you will say that I don't love you, or that I am old and can't love anymore.

I am willing to give everything for you, but not in this way.

I love you. But our understanding and demands for love are different. You worship that kind of restless and paranoid love, so you always hope that you can make love tortuous and complicated, prove and interpret it with a series of earth-shattering stories, with the consumption and dedication of overdrawn life, and with unparalleled sadness.

But for me, love is not like this. Love is not a confrontation between life and death, a dilemma between emotion and reason, or the courage to give up all other precious things in life. Love is just a simple idea, a desire to be with someone, a small memory after a few days apart, a faint fragrance in my heart when I think of each other, that's all.

Yes, love should be an addition, it should bring glory to all things because of its arrival, and it should not deprive the rest of life of its right to exist. Love should be kind, generous and auspicious. It should not be harsh, overbearing and unlucky.

Letter to divorced husband 5

What should I call you? I still don't need to call you.

I still got up early today. I read until the wee hours last night. Call a friend at three o'clock in the morning, holding the phone in tears. Then I curled up on the bed and looked at the wall on the right. I kept looking at the light and dark colors on it, from gray to dark gray, to silver gray, to ginkgo, and then to milky white. Tears fell into my right ear and filled my ears. Then get up and turn on the computer. I think I should say something to you.

Maybe you will say why I don't learn to be smart. Your silence has said something. Some things don't need to be punctured, which is good for everyone. However, I can't do this, I can't be so silent, I can't be as if nothing had happened, I can't seem to have never met. I'm not so free and easy. I can't do this. A farewell may make my heart easier. When you say goodbye, I can turn away and try to forget what I shouldn't remember.

I always thought that some pain was inevitable, but it was tolerable. But now I find that some pain is doomed and unbearable. I still underestimated your weight in my heart. I've been comforting myself. Maybe losing sleep every night can make me read books crazily and make me stop thinking so much. However, it turns out that I can't do it. I can't stop crying. There are so many tears that the words in the book melt one by one. They were as tearful as I was. Although I keep telling myself, I still have to bear what I deserve. I keep telling myself that the urgent task now is to take the exam and study hard, but the words in the book are as sad as me, and I cry as much.

I shouldn't believe in love, so-called fate, touching words and childish idleness. It is so difficult and complicated for two people to fall in love. Once I thought I was lucky. I was surprised by your gentleness and beauty, and I was glad that I had a lifetime of scenery. I never thought it was just God's joke.

Love is so fragile in front of reality. In fact, I should have found out that what you gave me was just a perfect illusion. What you love and spoil me is not the real me, but an empty and uninhabited place. However, I deliberately indulged myself and committed suicide in love. When the emperor fills the sea, the land is silent. This kind of action has become a repeated restriction, which makes me mistakenly think that I have experienced the most realistic love and will always be the most realistic. Our love must be a real dream, so real that I can't bear to touch it. And I'm still living in a dream.

Actually, I shouldn't call and write to you anymore. I should be like you. My mistake is that I am too serious, too easy to believe, too naive and too careless. This is what fools do. Just being laughed at, laughing at such a fool. Why can't I control myself, treat everything as a game and forget him with a smile? When my friend is around, she can't comfort me. She just says to me: The deeper you love, the deeper you hurt. ? Yes, people like me should not love.

I regret it, March. Why should I write that letter to you? Without that letter, I think you and I will always be two parallel lines that cannot intersect, and happiness is in our respective life trajectories. If I didn't love you, where would I be now and what would I be like? After listening to sentimental songs, will you be as sad as you are now?

You didn't call again yesterday afternoon, so why did you give me the runaround? Later, when I went out with my friends, I thought I could recover by going out for a walk. But when I got home at night, I pushed open the door and tears fell down again. I have been afraid to speak while eating, because I know I can't help crying when I open my mouth. When mom and dad left the dinner table after dinner, the tears in my eyes dripped in the blink of an eye. I quickly hid my head in my rice bowl and didn't dare to let them see it, so the tears dripped into the rice. Hiding in the kitchen, I quickly wiped away my tears. However, I only ate two meals when I came out, and my face was full of tears. How could I be so useless?

I'm going to leave Shenzhen temporarily. I should have traveled together. I think I have to go by myself now. I can't pretend nothing happened in front of my parents, so I have to leave for a while, and I can't face their doubts and worries. The day before yesterday, my mother told me that if I knew you were going home that night, I should let you come in and bring back some lychees. Father went to inspect and brought back a basket of lychees. He also said that if you get married, don't buy a house yet, and Futian's house won't be rented to us? I can't stand these words. Every time I go back to my room with tears in my eyes, my heart aches. What used to be sweet has become the bloodiest pain today.