My girlfriend's reply to the message is very slow, and there are many depressed things. Ask the girl to tell me what this is about.

Let me give you a clear idea first, and give you a sketch of her psychological activity process.

At first she had a crush on you, and she was moved by you. She thought you were kind to her, so she agreed to your pursuit.

As far as she is concerned, she has no love experience, so after agreeing to associate with you, she still maintains her original state and rhythm. For her, love has an impact on life, but it has little impact. Besides, you are chasing her and she passively accepts it, so it is decided that she can't respond to your enthusiasm too much.

When she felt your enthusiasm, she felt a little uncomfortable. She felt that you began to ask her this and that, trying to change her, which made her very uncomfortable, but there was nothing she could do but endure, but her understanding and tolerance for you did not win your respect, and you became more out of control, which made her unbearable.

Regarding kissing, proper kissing is a sign of love, but if you deliberately pursue or even ask for it, it will make girls feel uncomfortable. You make her feel that kissing is a task, a requirement, not love.

Although she promised to be your girlfriend, it is normal that she just likes it rather than loves it. As a little girl, she doesn't know much about what love is and what love is. Everything will only be based on her own heart. After being with you, you didn't let her feel your charm, but she became more and more uncomfortable and dissatisfied with you.

Let's analyze your problems in this relationship.

You regard love as the whole of your life, and everything in your life revolves around her, so once she replies to a short message slowly, she will be anxious and angry. This is an emotional expression, which is caused by your misunderstanding of love. And you love her far more than she likes you, and it is normal for her to reply slowly. All you have to do is send a text message. She can't love it back. Just do what you have to do and distract yourself.

If you love her too fast and too hard, it will scare her, make her feel uncomfortable, affect her evaluation and judgment of you, make her feel that you are not confident and attractive, bring pressure to her life and psychology, and make it difficult for her to give you the response you want.

When it comes to kissing, your performance is too immature. I'll tell you when kissing is appropriate.

A. When you do something that makes a girl happy, moved, liked and warm, you can kiss her forehead, nose, cheeks and lips, thus winning her love and respect.

B. You made a profound conversation and moved the other person. At this time, you can stare at her deeply and then slowly put your head in the past. If she closes her eyes, you can kiss her gently.

C. You can have a pleasant talk with her again and kiss her when you have a good understanding. You can say, honey, I want to count how many teeth you have with my tongue.

Kissing is a sentimental thing, unlike eating. You can't eat whatever you want. Don't be casual, frivolous, demanding, demanding.

The reason why you think she is not enthusiastic about you is due to your positioning of the relationship. You think she has promised to be your girlfriend, and that's what it should be, so you have a lot of expectations for her. Women are emotional animals, they can only feel and obey their own wishes. No one can stop her from doing anything. It's no use forcing her to do anything. So what you have to do is not ask her to do this or that, but.

Here are some suggestions for you.

Review yourself, don't blame each other, reflect on yourself and don't blame each other.

Improve your emotional intelligence, make yourself more attractive, let her appreciate you, get emotional with you, and approach you actively instead of asking her.

Improve communication with her. Everything you say and do to her will affect her opinion, evaluation and feeling about you. If you just criticize, complain, demand and say something with low emotional intelligence, it will only make her dislike you more and more. So you should find ways to improve your expression and communication skills.

Know more about her inner world and real thoughts. Don't take it for granted that she has promised to be your girlfriend. What should she do? Do nothing, especially emotional things.

Try to treat your feelings with her as a part of your life, not as a whole, distract your attention, control your emotions, adjust your mentality, and let her feel your positive changes.

Do something for her that moves her, say something she likes to hear, and let her feel your maturity, steadiness, thoughtfulness, understanding and humor from your words and deeds, and become willing to get along with you and communicate with you.

Control the frequency of kissing, even kiss your forehead, nose and cheeks, and don't stick out your tongue.

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