My wife chats online and sends text messages every day. Found something wrong. Even when it comes to divorce, she secretly sends messages to netizens.

You haven't been around for a long time, obviously your wife is lonely, and women are most afraid of loneliness, and the internet is just a hotbed to get rid of loneliness. Anyway, I can't see each other, but I can imagine each other as beautiful, which is especially easy to fascinate lonely women. First of all, you should think about whether you usually ignore your wife, which is why she is addicted to the internet.

Your wife always sends text messages first. Obviously, first make sure she is safe, and then contact that person. You said that all your wife's online friends have been to your place, which shows that their feelings are very unusual. I don't know if they have slept together, but I think if just ordinary friends meet, will people run over excitedly? Without your wife's permission, will the other person come over? If the other person comes and fails to achieve his goal, will he still be willing and continue to associate with your wife? Besides, your wife said she was too timid to see him. At least your wife admitted that she didn't see him, not because she didn't want to see him, but because she was timid. At least your wife had an affair. So you should have an attitude of accepting cuckoldry.

Anyway, I think you still have an illusion, don't want to believe the worst, and are afraid that she will leave you, so you come here for help. And she is sure of your cowardly character, and can only be suspicious all day and secretly upset. Even if she finds out the truth, she is only lying to herself, so there is nothing to hide. She also wants to leave the red flag at home, and the colorful flags are flying outside.

I think whether you really want to save this marriage or just want to end it, don't be alone. The more you tinker at the edge, the less she cares, which not only makes it easier for her to gain the sympathy of the people around her, but also gives her more reasons to leave you and spend more time looking for that man. Besides, even if she breaks up with this man, she will find another man. Even if she doesn't cheat with this man and you are so timid, she will be afraid of you and cheat with other men one day.

You should abandon your fantasy, share weal and woe with her, make her feel a sense of crisis, and don't let her think that you are just joking when you say cruel words. You'd better do something to make her really scared, not think you are timid. Women need stability and want romance and excitement in stability, but if the cost of seeking excitement is too high, they will give up. She also knows that the other person may just play, will the other person love her? Will love for a while. But will you marry her? If your wife really cheated, you all know it won't. That man will look down on your wife, and he will be cuckolded one day.

My judgment is that your wife is likely to cheat. My advice to you is that your relationship is in crisis. What is the initial root cause? What did you do wrong, which made your wife very lonely. Then you must make up your mind not to worry about it here, but to let your wife really feel the crisis. If she continues, she will really have to pay a lot of money for it. Is she worth it? If she doesn't deserve it, she will come back. If she is still desperate and the woman has changed her mind, there is nothing anyone can do. What do you want from this woman?