Seven-line Poems on the Elderly's Remarriage Blessing (A remarried couple's fireworks with poetry as the medium)

In this reorganized family, two writers, a screenwriter and a collector were born, both of whom were outstanding in their respective fields. Inheriting a good family style, they write the most beautiful and true feelings in the world.

Text | Zhai Lihua

I really look like that morning dew.

Pounce on the tip of his sword.

He explained it very clearly.

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In "The Journey of Mind" written to her husband Ma Lixian, Zhou Li expressed his feelings emotionally.

A fable is so long.

A story is so affectionate.

Forget the sorrow and misfortune.

Hold my hand tightly and move forward together.

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In the book Destined for Life written to his wife Zhou Li, Ma Lixian gave her the most romantic tone in her life.

Although Zhou Li and Ma Lixian are remarried couples, they love each other deeply. Although we met in middle age, when we fell in love, we were more poetic and romantic than young people.

The secret of happiness in remarried families is mutual tolerance and common growth.

In fact, at first, Ma Zhen, the son of Ma Lixian, was against the stepmother who wrote poems. He felt that his dead mother was about to be forgotten by his remarried father, and his heart was very painful, and his attitude towards his stepmother was neither too cold nor too hot. Faced with this situation, Ma Lixian was also very upset, but Zhou Li said, "Old horse, don't worry, I will let my children accept me!" "

On the second day of their wedding, Zhou Li went to visit Ma Zhen's grandparents. As soon as she entered the door, she shouted to the two old people, "Dad, Mom, my daughter is back to see you!" " "The two old people were startled by the sudden" daughter ",their eyes slowly turned red, and they enthusiastically let Zhou Wei into the room. Zhou Li said emotionally, "Mom and Dad, I married a constitutionalist, and you won't lose your son-in-law. I will be your own daughter in the future. " The two old men pulled her to tears, and Ma Zhen's heart was also hot.

After marrying Ma Lixian, no matter how busy and tired she is at work, Zhou Li will get up early to cook and feed her paralyzed mother-in-law, change clothes and sheets, help her clean her body and clean up her urine. During working hours, I was afraid that my mother-in-law would be wronged, so I specially invited a nurse to take care of it. At night, the door of her bedroom is always open. As long as there is any movement, her mother-in-law will rush to take care of it. Ma Lixian saw her efforts and said, "I have you in my life, what more can I expect!" " My mother-in-law, who had been paralyzed for 10 years, died peacefully at the age of 90 under her careful care.

At the end of 2009, Ma Zhen's son was born. Zhou Li devotes herself to serving the daughter-in-law of confinement and taking care of her little grandson. By this time, Ma Zhen had already been moved, and her stepmother took care of her family without any regrets. Not only did she want nothing, but she also bought some expensive books for herself. All she has done is enough to make herself shout "Mom". Grandparents also advised Ma Zhen: "What do you want with this mother? Even if your own mother is alive, she may not do better than her! "

Today, Grandma Ma Zhen and Zhou Li are like mother and daughter. Two old people celebrate New Year, holidays and birthdays. Zhou Li ran before and after, presenting them together. When the grapes in the old people are ripe, they will always be reserved for the girl Zhou Li.

In fact, Ma Lixian has also done a lot for his stepdaughter Zhou Zi Judy. On 20 19, sandy will go to France to study film directing. Considering family conditions, Zhou Li does not support her daughter to study abroad. Ma Lixian said: "Children have dreams, even if we sell iron, let her realize it!" It also raised 654.38+10,000 yuan to support stepdaughters to study abroad.

The day before Zhou Zi went to France, Ma Zhen made a big table of dishes to give his sister a farewell dinner. During the dinner, he handed the peeled shrimp to Zhou Li's mouth and said, "Mom, eat the shrimp!" "Stepson sincerely and naturally cried" mom ",Zhou Yan's eyes burning.

In September, the couple sent their daughter to the airport. When they passed the security check, Zhou Zi suddenly leaned down, hugged his stepfather and said with tears, "Dad, thank you! You let me enjoy my father's love and give me wings to chase my dreams, waiting for me to come back! "

Zhou Zi Dee lived up to her stepfather's trust. As a screenwriter of China's post-80s generation, she won the comedy screenplay award in the Hollywood Screenplay Competition for her screenplay "Absurd Agreement" written on 20 12. 20 15 The screenplay "Little Pig Love" won the Family Film Unit Award in the Hollywood Screenplay Competition. Ma Zhen, the son of Ma Lixian, has also become a collector because he likes history, and is famous in the industry.

Ma Lixian and Zhou Li, a middle-aged couple, are no less enthusiastic about creation than young people. After marriage, Zhou Li's novels Strike in Xiangying and Poems won many provincial awards, and she also published two collections of prose poems, The Soul of a China Man and The Soul of a China Daughter. Many of Ma Lixian's works, such as Witness of Time, Fate in this Life, Grateful Mother, etc. , has been published.

Ma Lixian can't use a computer, so Zhou Li will help him type, and he will also give some comments and suggestions to his works. When writing a long documentary "The Witness of Time", Zhou Li made some changes, which paved the way for the love between the hero and heroine. Ma Lixian couldn't help clapping and laughing, saying that Zhou Li was really a stroke of genius, and it was a good change! The couple pondered over a certain word for a long time, and finally Zhou Li's opinion shall prevail. Later, Ma Lixian called Zhou Li his teacher, and he was not stingy with his wife's praise.

For her husband's praise, Zhou Li was filled with emotion: "Poetry and books brought us together."

Use poetry and books as media to push away your "Chai Men"

Zhou Li is the business director and corporate account manager of Qingdao Chengyang Sub-branch of China Industrial and Commercial Bank. Ma Lixian was a professional writer and chairman of Chengyang Writers Association. They were originally two parallel lines.

Zhou Li was smart and studious since he was a child, and he liked reading. Apart from living expenses, most of her salary is spent on books. After reading more books, she has the desire to pour out her feelings with a pen. She poured her feelings into the pen, and beautiful prose and affectionate poems appeared in newspapers and magazines. Writing became the best way for her to express and vent her feelings.

In 2005, Zhou Li was transferred from pingdu city to Chengyang District, and the members of the Writers Association were transferred to Chengyang District. When she went to the Federation of Literary and Art Circles, she specially brought her poetry collection Dream in the Rain to visit Ma Lixian. It is said that this teacher Ma is not only good at writing poems, but also second to none in documentary literature and novels.

Ma Lixian in front of Zhou Li is elegant and introverted, showing a temperament of reading poetry books. His small office is full of books, which Zhou Li can't put down. Books soon brought the two people closer together. They started talking about Kan Kan from their literary creation, and it passed before they knew it. Zhou Li got up to leave and presented her own collection of poems; Ma Lixian also returned his collection of poems, Endless Missing.

One night, it was raining in Mao Mao outside the window. Zhou Li, who couldn't sleep, turned on the desk lamp, picked up Endless Missing and read it. Then she was deeply attracted. In his poems, Ma Lixian wrote his condolences and thoughts for his dead wife, and the infatuation between the lines was touching. She cried several times. At this time, Ma Lixian is no longer a gentle writer in her heart, but a lonely man who has lost his wife. In his poem, he asked: on the river of life/where is the ferry/who will help me through this misfortune? After years of divorce, she had a strong affection for this man in an instant.

Zhou Li wrote an essay "Who will push away your Chai Men" overnight, responding to Ma Lixian: "Can I be a small harbor/park your wandering love for the rest of your life/spend a rough life with you?" She put the article in a book and gave it to Ma Lixian the next day. This essay not only has greetings between confidants, but also has the meaning of asking for directions by throwing stones. However, Ma Lixian has been slow to respond to her feelings.

In 2006, Zhou Li was invited to visit Ma Lixian's home. His home is in Majiatai Village, xia zhuang Street, Chengyang District. The rural environment is quiet and easy to build. Zhou Li feels normal. However, as soon as I entered the door, a foul smell came to my nose. It turns out that Ma Lixian's old mother has been paralyzed in bed for several years, and he never does housework. He even depends on buying food, how can he take care of paralyzed patients! In order not to be choked by the smell in his mother's room, Zhou Li quickly asked her to go to her room. Zhou Zhen looked around Ma Lixian's house. All the walls were bookshelves. Beds, tables, sofas and even the ground are full of books. Zhou Zhen doesn't know where he can sit.

At this point, Ma Lixian has lost the composure of talking about poetry and paper. He fumbled with a book, trying to make room for Zhou Li to sit down. Or Zhou Li pushed the books on the sofa to both sides and sat down by himself.

Ma Lixian said, "Sit down for a while and I'll buy something to eat!" " "Then, I escaped. When he came back, he saw Zhou Li combing his old mother's hair. He stood at the door and kept looking at Zhou Li. His nose is sore and tears are rolling in his eyes.

Zhou Li's mother 1999 has breast cancer, and she has been with her mother to take care of her. After her mother left, Zhou Li almost had an accident because she couldn't stand the blow. Therefore, she cherishes the name "mother" more. When she opened Ma Lixian's mother's door, she saw the old man who was paralyzed in bed grinning happily and drooling all over his face because of his arrival, which made Zhou Li look very sad. She scrubbed the old man as quickly as she cared for her mother.

Hand in hand, the most romantic circle in the annual ring.

In June 2006, when the apricots were ripe, my colleague gave Zhou Li two boxes of apricots. She called Ma Lixian and asked him to take it back for her old mother to taste. He came happily. When he left, Zhou Li said softly, "Teacher Ma, don't wear this dress when we meet again next time. Too sloppy. " He left without saying anything. When they met again, he deliberately wore a new suit and appeared neatly in front of Zhou Jie. She was secretly pleased that he cared about her words.

In 2007, Ma Zhen, the son of Ma Lixian, got married and invited Zhou Li to a wedding reception. During the dinner, a teacher of the Federation of Literary and Art Circles quietly asked her, "I want to introduce someone to you. What do you think of Teacher Ma? " Zhou was moved, but she didn't say a word.

One night, Zhou Li gave a newly written poem to Ma Lixian, and then went to bed. The next morning, she saw an unread message on her mobile phone. She opened it and found it was from Ma Lixian in the early morning. Can Lao Ma send a message? It turned out that in order to reply to her short message, Ma Lixian deliberately let her son send it successfully until midnight. Zhou Li read this message over and over again and laughed all day.

From that night on, two people's text messages came and went. You wrote a poem and sent it to me, and I replied to you with a poem. Words that can't be finished and poems that can't be written are always reluctant to leave until late at night. Both of them have deep feelings, but neither of them will pierce the enough paper.

The two units are separated by a road, which is very close. After work that day, they walked side by side in the streets in early autumn. Let's start with literature, chat, walk, turn from one street to the end and then turn to another. It was raining in Mao Mao, but they were not affected at all. Ten miles down, two implicit middle-aged people always dare not even touch their hands. Zhou Li has worked hard in the workplace for decades and met all kinds of men, but there are few people with such stable self-control as Ma Lixian. Walking beside him, that kind of sureness and security is something she has never had in years. At this moment, she identified Ma Lixian in her mind.

In fact, Zhou Li also has a problem. After such a long walk, Ma Lixian didn't even buy her a bottle of mineral water. How stingy!

But it was this stingy man who gave generously when Zhou Li's daughter went to college.

In 2007, Zhou Zi entered xihua university to study music, and the tuition fee was very high. At that time, Zhou Li's foreign debt for treating her parents had not been paid off, and she could do nothing without the money. Ma Lixian, who knew the situation, came in a hurry and gave his provident fund card and ID card to Zhou Li, saying, "Go and take out my provident fund and pay the tuition for my children. Children can't delay going to school. "

In September 2008, the jujube trees in Ma Lixian's old house were covered with fruits, and Zhou Li was invited to visit. She first went to his mother's room to help the old man scrub his body and found that his back was covered with patches. As soon as he touched the water, he trembled with pain and her tears came out at once. Coming out of the room, Zhou Li said to Ma Lixian, "Teacher Ma, this family needs women. If you don't mind, let me take care of you! "

The next day, Zhou Li moved to Ma Lixian's house to wash her hands and make soup. Under her care, this dirty and messy home began to smell of fireworks and laughter. The next morning, she finished cooking and hurried to work. When I arrived at work, I found a bag of clean Chinese dates in my bag, which was put in by Ma Lixian.

Ma Lixian's old jujube tree is very tall. You have to climb the wall with a ladder to pick dates. Zhou Jie smiled at the thought of him clumsily picking dates on the wall. From that day on, Zhou Li can eat fresh jujubes at work every day. She felt that everything he wanted to say melted into a date.

On the ninth day of the first month of 2009, on Ma Lixian's birthday, they got a marriage certificate. At the wedding, a book destined for life witnessed their love. The husband and wife each wrote 50 poems for this collection, with Ma Lixian as the preface, Zhou Li as the postscript, and a hundred-year-old calligrapher as the inscription for the collection, wishing a hundred years of harmony.

So, they became life partners. 20/kloc-In May, 2009, Zhou Li and Ma Lixian were selected as "the most beautiful family in China" by the All-China Women's Federation because of their good family style and rich cultural background. In 2020, good news came from his family again. Zhou Zicheng was a master student at the Paris International Film Academy.

Zhou Li and Ma Lixian are also committed to public welfare undertakings, and jointly write books for Qingdao historical celebrities. In order to create a red series of documentary literature, the couple took the train to collect materials all over the country.

Mary Xian has high blood pressure and diabetes, and Zhou Li usually takes care of him at home. But during the trip, he insisted on carrying all the luggage on his back. When they went to Henan for an interview, they only bought hard seats. In order to make his wife comfortable, he let Zhou Li sleep on his lap and sat up straight all the way. Ma Lixian traveled to Guizhou and insisted on sleeping in the upper bunk. Looking at her husband's no longer tall and straight body and struggling to climb into the berth, Zhou Yan was very happy, but there were tears in his eyes.

On that day, Zhou Li wrote with emotion on his blog: "Meeting Ma Lixian is the best destination in my life!"