Where is the gap between Zhiming and Chunjiao?

From an old saying, women chase men, which means that it is easier for girls to chase boys than boys to chase girls.

I never understood, why? Is there any data showing that girls have a higher success rate in chasing boys?

I didn't think this sentence made sense until I saw the movie "Chun Jiao and Meiji".

Zhang Zhiming first appeared in the world of Chunjiao, an image cheated by his ex-girlfriend and a joke in the mouth of friends.

But they are attracted to each other, and their chat is very interesting. I think the feeling of fate is probably love at first sight, tacitly.

The day after they met, Zhiming attended Chunjiao's friend's birthday party and sang together.

On the third day of acquaintance, Chunjiao came to a smoking place where no one else was there on a weekend, and Zhang Zhiming came in unison. On this day, Zhiming and Chunjiao helped their friends and Zhiming send Chunjiao home.

Also on this day, Zhiming sent a short message to Chunjiao, but this short message written backwards was considered as garbled by Chunjiao, and there were also reasons for Chunjiao's quarrel with her boyfriend at that time.

On the fourth day of acquaintance, Chunjiao made up her mind to break up with her boyfriend, and Zhiming helped Chunjiao move. The two decided to go to the lovers hotel. Zhiming once said a classic saying: many things don't need to be done in one night, and we are not in a hurry. This sentence gave Chunjiao a great sense of security.

On the fifth day, Chunjiao wanted to make the relationship closer, but Zhiming didn't seem ready. Chunjiao is a little frustrated and frustrated with this relationship.

On the sixth day, a policeman helped Chunjiao light a cigarette. Zhiming said he was jealous, but Chunjiao retorted. When you first met me, you lit a cigarette for me!

On the seventh day, the price of cigarettes will go up. The two met on the way to buy cigarettes. Zhiming invited Chunjiao to buy cigarettes together. Chun Jiao was secretly happy. On the way, the car broke down. Zhiming showed Chunjiao a short message, indicating that he had expressed his intention. Chun Jiao finally confirmed Zhiming's intention.

In buff's emotional love, it can be seen that Chunjiao is the more active party, but this initiative is actually based on her feelings for Zhiming's mind, but this is also the reason why she feels insecure. When Zhiming didn't respond to her, she was very upset. Several times between them, in fact, it is because Chun Jiao wants Zhiming to give her a definite answer.

The love in buff's story reminds me of the love story of a friend around me, and it is also the story of a girl pursuing a boy. Fortunately, their story is also a happy ending.

I once asked her what gave her the courage to decide to confess, and her answer impressed me deeply:

She said that in fact, she had a hunch before she confessed that the boy should like her. She said all kinds of signs, and even outsiders thought that the boy was flirting with her.

She said, in fact, there are impulsive factors, but I was in a bad mood that day, just chatting with him at night (people are really impulsive at night! )

So I think the reason why women chase men's barriers may be because girls are more sensitive, and it is easier to capture the signals given by boys, and they will perceive whether this boy really likes her. If they confess, they have a good chance of success. But think about it, is it easy to meet love rat?

But in the end, I still want to say that it is 9 102. Girls should take the initiative to seize the opportunity and pursue the person they like! Share this article with someone you still secretly like, and you may get different results.

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