What is the adult's heart?

In my opinion, if an adult's heart doesn't start, it's already gone, and the first one is earth-shattering. Two extremes.

In fact, when adults reach a relatively mature age, they are rarely moved. The impact of time and the tempering of society will make people's mentality cautious and rational. Especially when it comes to love, you will be even more treading on thin ice. Knowing the intrigue between human nature and the workplace, adults never believe that there is a drama of Prince Charming who saves the world and the overbearing president falling in love with me.

Teenager's heart is intuition, and adult's heart is to weigh the pros and cons.

Some people may think that it is not material as the premise. That's right, that is, to maximize the benefits. Adults have a lot of experience in the workplace and the various groups faced by the society, and they are more accounting and clear about the benefits. Marriage is no longer a necessity in our life. We can choose or deny it. Therefore, when we are excited, we will put the gains and losses of interests in the first place.

For example, the balance of reality, we will think more realistically and transparently, in which it is true to let ourselves get hurt less. You will no longer be attracted by a certain aspect, and easily let yourself have irrational thoughts. The instinctive balance will make you restrain yourself, ask yourself with the most rational thoughts and examine yourself.

I'm moved, and then, what other benefits will there be? What can I do, what will happen if I do it, what will be the losses and what will be the costs. Everyone is an ordinary person, not a coal mining boss, so it is not difficult to understand the various reactions shown in the material.

My sister's husband has a brother who works as a driver in the court. His wife earns tens of thousands of dollars a month because of her strong ability. Due to the difference in ability, the two of them parted ways. The man later found another woman, saying that he met her, which was a "heart-warming feeling". But later, when the man chatted with us, he revealed some subtle signals from time to time, that is, the world of adults is so complicated. Their salaries are almost the same, and they still adopt AA system in family expenses. If you don't mention it, I won't say it, and no one will cross the line. This kind of life has been going on for two years, and it is still being maintained.

Behind adults' hearts is a battle of wits and courage.

The sadness of adults is to fight with their bosses and colleagues in the workplace. Competing with all kinds of complicated interpersonal relationships, perhaps everyone has experienced this battlefield without smoke. Therefore, in the heart, if you don't pay attention, it is yourself who is injured.

Life never trades at a loss. It will make you spit out all the things you got by taking shortcuts, and take back the youth that should have bloomed enthusiastically. I remember that Qin Lan played a play called "Life of the Rational School", and Qin Lan played Shen Ruoxin's first boyfriend Cui Lixin, which was of this type, almost bombing-style hospitality, followed by forced marriage in public.

back and forth, just one sentence: "I am so good to you, why don't you promise me!" " Moreover, after Shen Ruoxin explicitly refused, he proposed again in the company and pushed Shen Ruoxin to the public center, which made Shen Ruoxin feel "riding a tiger". Every move is motivated by "getting married", and what is extremely frightening is that getting married is not because of love.

You may think that adults are not so selfish. In fact, you might as well observe the adults around you carefully, which is more serious and mercenary. Some people will say "I'm definitely not like this", but I have to say that such people are everywhere in life now.

Adults' hearts are also simpler

Of course, not all adults' hearts are profitable. There is still love. I remember when I was in college, our professor met his true love among our students, and the performance of his heart was to take great care of this beloved person. Although the extreme age difference made everyone not optimistic about this young and old couple for a time, how many years have passed and people have a good life. You said irritating, not irritating.

Therefore, the heart of adults is either too profit-oriented or really take great care of them. This is still a scorer, and you don't have to care too much about what it has to be. Just follow your own heart and enjoy the natural feeling.