Is it reasonable not to borrow money from relatives when life is at a low point? Why?

That makes sense. These four things that I personally experienced can illustrate this problem.

As the saying goes, (if you are poor, don't run away from your relatives, it's useless to run away). That's true! More than 30 years ago, my family lived in the countryside and life was very difficult. One spring, I wanted to repair the leaking house before the rainy season came, so I borrowed 500 yuan from my child's uncle's house. At that time, his family life was not bad. Who knows that as soon as I opened my mouth, people said that the money had just been lent to others, and they complained that they didn't reply earlier. Later, his neighbor told me that as soon as I left his house, I would lend 500 yuan to others or borrow money from my friends to repair the house.

In general, relatives are the people who know your family's living conditions best, because they are usually in contact. Once you are poor, he is the first to know. He won't lend you money, but he keeps saying how poor you are and how you can't afford it, so that you can't borrow money from many people. So don't ask your relatives for help when you are too poor. You can't count on it at all. You would rather lend it to someone else than him.

Once a person's life is too poor, there will be no relatives and friends at the bottom. He can't talk or do anything. Many relatives are avoiding you for fear that you will borrow money from him. At that time, small shops in rural areas also kept accounts, and all kinds of commodities and foods were on credit, and they were settled in autumn. There was a family with a difficult life, and relatives opened a big shop. If everyone else gives it on credit, don't give it to him for fear that he can't pay it back. In cash. He was so embarrassed in the village that it was impossible to get a loan.

When I was in the countryside, I had a neighbor who had a hard life. The man is seriously ill and needs hospitalization. At that time, several thousand yuan was a large sum, and few people could get it. However, life is important, regardless of dignity. My neighbors, relatives and friends, borrowed money as soon as they met. Fortunately, they borrowed enough money and saved his life. When I can count the money I borrowed, I borrowed it from my neighbors and friends, and no relatives borrowed it. He sighed, (if you are too poor, you will have no relatives)!

Hello, I'm Han Xupang, and I'm glad to answer your question.

"When life is low, don't borrow money from relatives and friends." I have a different opinion.

When people are at a low ebb, whether they can borrow money from relatives and friends has something to do with people, things and everyone's own character. There are roughly several situations.

1. The borrower is honest and trustworthy, and is in urgent need of emergency loan. My 9 1 college classmate XX Hui, his father works in a chemical factory to provide him with schooling. I accidentally fell down on the way to work and needed hospitalization urgently. Xx Hui is the eldest in the family, her mother died early, and she also has a grandmother in her seventies and a younger sister in junior high school. At ordinary times, the lives of four people are relatively tight, not to mention savings. In this accident, he just turned 2 1 year old and had no choice but to borrow money from his uncle and family. First, promise to pay back the money after three years (we will graduate after three years). He is an uncle. He grew up watching him and knew his character like the back of his hand. He emptied his bag without saying anything. After XXX, I earned my living expenses by working for three years. Until the year of graduation, I had a balance of nearly 1,000 yuan. He paid off his foreign debts through hard work.

Second, I really want to do something, and I have no money to start. My cousin worked hard in this town for a year and learned the craft of braised beef. I want to open a shop elsewhere, but I have no money, so I borrow money from my mother and aunt. My mother only paid a little retirement salary and took it out without thinking. My aunt also needed turnover, but she did not hesitate to subsidize it. My cousin has a good craft and a good shop location. With the help of relatives, she quickly paid off her foreign debts, and now her career is booming.

Third, relatives and friends come forward to help when they are in trouble, and disappear after the fight. I grew up in Juanzi with a beautiful hairstyle. I wanted to open a barber shop in the county, but I borrowed my aunt 15000 to open the barber shop. With the good craftsmanship of Juanzi, business is very good. Then move to the city to continue business. /kloc-During the Spring Festival in 0/6, I met my aunt Juanzi and asked me if I had heard from Juanzi, saying that the money I borrowed had not been returned, the phone could not be reached, and people would not come back for the Spring Festival. I feel helpless about what my niece has done. 18, Juanzi came back, paid her aunt15,000 yuan, and borrowed 30,000 yuan to expand the store. His aunt doesn't agree with anything. Juanzi is playing with other people's trust and making his own way out, which he deserves.

There are countless positive and negative examples in life. Among them, there are also some jealous people. You have a good life, he looks up to you, you have a bad life, he steps on you. First of all, correct your posture and treat them as weeds and thorns. Bypass the barrier that they can live in the past.

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Hello, I'm glad to answer your question.

Everyone will encounter life or career disappointments to some extent. As an experienced person, I can tell you.

Borrow money when you are in trouble, don't borrow money directly from relatives! ! !

Speaking of myself, it can be described as ups and downs. /kloc-started his business in 0/6 years,/kloc-had a bad business in 0/8 years, but ended up in debt of nearly 2 million.

I was desperate, and my parents helped me raise money everywhere. That's because I had to bite the bullet and borrow money from my relatives, but no one lent it to me!

At that time, I was really disheartened. I really realized what is indifference and what is indifference!

People are all the same in human nature, especially their relatives. Say they are a family, or can only say that they are as warm as a family at ordinary times.

In fact, the only people who really want you to be well are your own parents. Relatives say hello, which may be true, but don't be better than him.

This is human nature, as the saying goes, no one asks you if you are poor in downtown, but you have distant relatives if you have money in the mountains!

You can never see through without experiencing something.

They are true friends and relatives. It can be said that you really don't need to borrow money from your house when you are in danger. People will take the initiative to help you. If you don't help, you have already indicated that you want to stay away from you-

In short, you still have to rely on yourself and don't borrow money from relatives easily.

I hope I can give you some advice.

I think there are two aspects to borrowing money. The reason why I don't borrow money is that I'm afraid to test my family and friendship. If you are a hard worker, most relatives and friends are still willing to borrow it when you enter the trough!

That makes sense, because no matter you are a relative or a friend, some people borrow money from them when you are at a low ebb, for fear that you can't pay it back, and they won't lend it to you! On the contrary, it is good for rich people to borrow money for a reason, so others only look at the results rather than the process, so don't borrow it unless your parents cover their faces.

There is some truth in this sentence, but it is not entirely correct.

The road of life is less smooth and more bumpy. When entering the trough, the first thing that comes to mind is my relatives and relatives. It is human nature to hope for some help, get out of the trough and repay them when they get up.

However, this is normal. Some relatives, who are blind, dare not lend you money.

Blood is thicker than water, but ash is hotter than soil. These two common sayings also illustrate a truth. Therefore, no matter who it is, when life is at a low ebb, it is better to look for relatives and relatives first. You can't blame them for their willingness to help, because everyone has their own life. Helping is a kind intention, and it is their duty not to help. No one is obliged to help anyone before the game.

I believe that most relatives can help as much as possible, and it is common for a few people to have money and not help each other. It is impossible to generalize, there are differences between people. So what I said is partly true, but not entirely correct.

thank you

That makes sense. Because the so-called family ties in the world are unreliable. Money is like looking in the mirror. When you are at the bottom of your life, your relatives are afraid that you will get them into trouble and avoid you. Don't say you can't borrow money. Even if you don't borrow money from them, they are afraid that your bad luck will infect them. Therefore, when you encounter difficulties and fall into the trough of life, you must learn to die, believe in yourself and never give up easily. As long as you keep working hard, I believe that one day, you will make a qualitative leap and get out of the trough of life. Now that you are out of the trough, you will usher in a new turning point in your life. Start (a disease)