Little Lin Chiling and Chen Ruoyi: Married to the idol Lin Zhiying who is 10 years older, how have you been after 14 years of marriage?

The ageless male god Lin Zhiying took his mother and wife to participate in a family variety show.

Logically speaking, as a person who rarely appears, he should be very interesting to be able to show his life in front of the audience.

In fact, as a national idol, Lin Zhiying was indeed the youth of many people, and he is still in a state of frozen age now.

But this time everyone’s focus is not on him, but on his mother and wife.

Especially as Lin Zhiying’s wife, Chen Ruoyi has also attracted a lot of attention.

As we all know, handling the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a very difficult matter.

Whether it is a big family or a small family, whether it is a rich family or an ordinary family, they will encounter such problems to some extent.

This time, judging from the relationship between Lin Ruoyi and her mother-in-law, we can indeed find some hidden problems.

Lin Zhiying’s mother is a relatively conservative parent and has strict requirements for her daughter-in-law.

Like in the variety show, Chen Ruoyi was scolded by her mother-in-law for wearing a pair of shorts with holes.

It is obvious that Lin Ruoyi is a relatively fashionable woman and wears more open clothes, which is actually understandable.

The reason is that the mother-in-law would say it so bluntly, and it seems that the usual way of getting along is relatively solid.

In addition, this can also reflect from the side that Chen Ruoyi and her mother-in-law should lack communication.

In fact, this is also true, because Lin Zhiying’s family lives alone and does not live with her mother.

Chen Ruoyi and her mother-in-law also lacked contact and did not have enough time to get along, let alone a deep relationship.

How can we get closer and create trust after a year of just meeting and eating during holidays.

In addition, the most critical point is that Lin Zhiying's conditions are so good. Her mother-in-law has always felt that there is a gap between her daughter-in-law and her son.

This was really revealed in the variety show. Chen Ruoyi cried in front of the camera and said frankly that being married to Lin Zhiying was stressful.

Outsiders think that Lin Ruoyi must be very happy to marry such a handsome and rich Lin Zhiying who is also loved by thousands of fans.

But in fact, like a person drinking water, knowing whether it is hot or cold, you can hardly imagine the bitterness behind Chen Ruoyi.

To really talk about Chen Ruoyi, everyone will probably only think of her as Lin Zhiying’s wife.

After all, Lin Zhiying is much better than her, much more famous, and more popular with everyone.

But many people don’t know that Chen Ruoyi is actually not bad herself, and being favored by Lin Zhiying is naturally something special.

In her early years, Chen Ruoyi was a well-known model in Taiwan. She was as famous as Lin Chiling, and she also participated in many film and television dramas.

Her popularity at that time was also very unusual, and she was also known as "Xiao Lin Chiling".

And she also has her own career and is fully capable of living a good life.

It’s just that all these honors, fame, fortune, and career became unimportant after meeting Jimmy Lin, and I was willing to give up all of them.

In 2004, the already famous young model Chen Ruoyi met Lin Zhiying at the year-end reception of a large company.

At that time, Chen Ruoyi was planning to be arranged by the company to enter the music scene with two other model groups, and her future was bright.

After meeting Jimmy Lin, Chen Ruoyi seemed very excited because she was also a fan of Jimmy Lin.

The feeling of being lucky enough to meet an idol must be beyond words, so Chen Ruoyi also excitedly asked for a photo with Jimmy Lin.

If this was just a coincidence, then there wouldn't be so many things going on.

Coincidentally, the two met again at a car show a month later, and this meeting was no longer so simple.

And Chen Ruoyi also put a lot of effort into meeting Lin Zhiying again.

The two also felt that they were destined, and they were able to continue to keep in touch and get to know each other better.

Although Jimmy Lin had many relationships, he still fell in love after meeting Chen Ruoyi.

As the two went back and forth, they spent more time together and gradually improved their understanding.

Lin Zhiying did not want his girlfriend to be in the industry, so Chen Ruoyi also gave up career opportunities to be with him.

However, because Jimmy Lin is so famous, this relationship was still in a low state at the beginning.

As the relationship grew stronger, Lin Zhiying felt the need to take it home to show his parents.

Because Lin Zhiying lives in a single-parent family, and his father worked hard to raise the three brothers, his opinions are very important.

However, the first time Lin Zhiying's father saw Chen Ruoyi, he turned around and walked into the study with a gloomy face.

Obviously, his father was not satisfied with such a young model.

In fact, Chen Ruoyi was indeed young and beautiful at the time, a full 10 years younger than Lin Zhiying.

In my father’s opinion, such girls are most likely here for Jimmy Lin’s fame and money and do not know how to take care of others.

Faced with his father's resolute attitude, Lin Zhiying was very painful because he could not disobey his father.

So in February 2007, Jimmy Lin sent a text message to Chen Ruoyi to break up.

But such a breakup is heartbreaking after all, but it is difficult to let go.

After Lin Zhiying broke up, her condition has been very bad, and there is no way to give up Chen Ruoyi.

Three months later, Lin Zhiying couldn't bear it anymore, so she called Chen Ruoyi:

Can you come back? I can't do anything without you by my side...

It was because of this phone call that Chen Ruoyi knew that Jimmy Lin really loved her.

So the two people are back together, and Chen Ruoyi has also put in a lot of effort to prove that she is not just interested in money.

At that time, Chen Ruoyi deliberately took over a store owned by Lin Zhiying's family and achieved amazing results with her own efforts.

It was such a move, as well as Lin Zhiying's infatuated persistence, that made Lin's father accept the union of the two.

However, because Jimmy Lin’s career is on the rise, if he directly announces his relationship, it will definitely have an impact.

As a result, the two did not announce their relationship. Instead, they experienced a secret love for five years.

They secretly got engaged, secretly got pregnant and gave birth to a child, without even a grand wedding.

Perhaps this is the woman behind the star, who always has to sacrifice something for love.

In 2009, Chen Ruoyi gave birth to a son for Lin Zhiying.

When Lin Zhiying became a father, he felt a sense of responsibility when he saw his little son. He felt that he should give Chen Ruoyi a status.

So not long after, Jimmy Lin personally announced the good news at his 35th birthday party.

Not only did he generously admit that he was married to Chen Ruoyi, he also announced that his son was born safely.

This news caused a sensation in the entertainment industry at the time. No one expected that Jimmy Lin would get married.

What has attracted more attention is Chen Ruoyi. What kind of existence would it be like to be Lin Zhiying's wife.

However, public opinion at the time was not friendly. Everyone thought that Chen Ruoyi was ugly and not worthy of Lin Zhiying.

Even Jimmy Lin’s fans think so, and Chen Ruoyi is under a lot of pressure.

In 2013, Jimmy Lin arranged a make-up wedding for Chen Ruoyi, and the overwhelming news online was also very bad for Chen Ruoyi.

It can be seen how stressful it is to be the woman behind the male god.

Looking at the acquaintance between the two, it is not difficult to find that Chen Ruoyi has always been so humble.

Whether it was the first time we met as fans, or the subsequent overcoming of hardships to be together, or the final announcement to the world.

Chen Ruoyi has always had a very difficult journey along the way.

There is no doubt that Chen Ruoyi loves Lin Zhiying deeply. She gave up her career for him, took care of the family wholeheartedly for him, and gave birth to three sons for him.

It is impossible for Lin Zhiying to have such stable development in career and such a warm family without Chen Ruoyi.

I hope Chen Ruoyi can live her own life proudly, maintain dignity in this relationship, and stop loving so humbly.