My boyfriend saw my deposit, got up in the morning, looked at my mobile phone, and then saw that there were more than 20 thousand people charging for bank text messages. Later, he said nothing.

It's really bad of you to do so. Let me tell you, you can tell him clearly and frankly that this is your deposit, and resolutely refuse to take his money to make him feel as if you are going to break up with him. How sad do you think this man should be? Be kind to him, and you can accept whatever he gives you in the future, even if it's frugal.