A New Year greeting letter from my son to his parents during the New Year

1. Your organization is a professional organization, and taking the professional title route is your inevitable choice. Such units are included in the scientific research projects of the country, departments, and units. Being famous and profitable can also improve one's business capabilities, which is a shortcut to professional title promotion. There once was a graduate student from Tsinghua University who didn’t know why his employer asked him to apply for a scientific research project. There should be no second such “silly fool”!

2. First of all, we hope you are in good health. We have given you good genes, laying a good foundation for nutrition and physical development. However, health is like a child, it needs unremitting care until old age. We cannot rest on our laurels, and we cannot ignore the situation. After becoming extremely rich in material things, there are many temptations in front of us; many activities have to be arranged in the limited time. People often choose the temptation of sex, fragrance, and more interesting and relaxing activities, and forget "themselves." In fact, controlling desires and curbing bad living habits simply means "shut your mouth and open your legs." As long as you have "health" in your mind, time and methods are everywhere. It is inevitable for people to get sick from eating grains. Only by treating minor ailments quickly can we prevent minor problems. This is a common question, but the good news is that a good start has been made. You have arranged time to exercise. A cup of tea is both healthy and tasteful. A reasonable combination of vegetables, fruits, grains, meat, eggs, and milk will make your stomach comfortable, environmentally friendly, and in line with fashion. It's a pity that the facade is still missing, and I hope it will be resolved as soon as possible. Your body is your own and needs to be maintained and taken care of carefully every day. No one can replace it.

3. Communicate more with us. We are a democratic family and have grown up in an atmosphere of equality, care and harmony. The superior environment and excellent and orthodox education cultivate your ability to survive in society and create a relatively complete character and values. But in recent years, I feel that the distance between us is getting farther and farther, and I often don’t know what you are thinking or doing. It’s not about exploring privacy, but the need for communication. Especially as we get older and farther away from society, I hope to talk more about what you see, hear and think to bring freshness. Tell your parents where you are going when you go out and tell them your time when you come back late. You should know that your parents will be worried about this. When I first heard your boss say that you were "introverted", I was a little surprised. If you look closely, it seems that you are a little too talkative and a thousand cups of wine are too little when you meet a close friend. "Character determines destiny" is a famous saying. Closeness increases misunderstanding, while frankness increases understanding. We are both cheerful, principled and easy to get along with. I hope you can uphold your tutoring at home or at work, and interact with others enthusiastically and honestly!

4. In addition to your romantic partner’s friends, you also have friends in many circles, which is especially important for you as an only child. Said it was necessary. Times have changed. In the past, we only had colleagues and no real friends. The people you interact with certainly reflect your interests, hobbies, character, and values. "Those who are close to the vermilion will be red" is a cautionary saying for making friends since ancient times. "The breeze sends me to the blue sky" talks about the uplifting effect of the environment on people. I hope you are a "red" person and bring refreshing breeze to your friends. And your friends are the clear wind, keeping your "nobility" till the end!

5. I have said a lot, but I still have more to say. Parents always have hopes for their children. Simply put, our hope for you is to become a person of high moral character and good health. I don’t know whether you can read this message, whether you can appreciate its taste, whether you can understand its intention. But I suggest you keep it, maybe it will be more useful to you a hundred years from now!

6. I love you, dad and mom. son:. Fourth, about making friends. I don’t know why you haven’t had a girlfriend. We have analyzed several reasons: Trend? Economic?Physiological?Sexual trends? Maybe it’s nothing. As the saying goes, it’s just that fate has not arrived yet. You don't like to talk about it, but our random speculations only increase the psychological burden. Our attitude on this issue is that we hope you start a family as soon as possible. Generally speaking, the path taken by most people in the world is a good path and follows the rules. Having a normal family life is good for your physical and mental health. The aesthetic standards for choosing a spouse are different from those for works of art. The "person in the painting" will always be a legend, and virtue is the most important. "Which one" belongs to you in the dim light, you need to open your heart to find it. If there is anyone worth dating, you can take it home. Many young people today have come this way. Although we have traditional ideas, we are still willing to be a promoter. We are both in good health at the moment and can help you with your work. As time goes by, not only will we not be able to help you, but we will also need you to take care of us, and your burden will be even heavier.

Of course, you have many choices when it comes to marriage: earlier, later or "DINK". We will respect that and won't force you to do anything. However, people's physical and psychological development are time-limited. As age increases, the passion for love will no longer exist, and the dull and trivial family life will lose its foundation, which is not conducive to the stability of the family!

7. Any profession has skills and methods from low to high, which should be regarded as a career or as a career. Working, doing methods and harvest are completely different. If a person wants to accomplish something, knowledge and ability are important, but the idea of ??guiding behavior and controlling knowledge and ability is more important. During the turning point in your life, I hope you can sort out and plan your career development ideas to guide your professional behavior!

8. Third, about hobbies. Photography is a good hobby, and you also have a certain level of professionalism and status in the industry. We say your early works were of the flower, bird, fish and insect style, but now your works are mainly about the human body. Although it is not exposed and does not lack beauty, it is indeed not in terms of taste and ideological quality. When someone wants "hot" and "open" works and comes to you because of your "fame", and when your works are often blocked, then your position in the circle is self-evident. At the beginning of learning photography, it is not an exaggeration to be curious or distracted. As you approach middle age, your thoughts become more mature and your perspectives broaden. Your works should be more ideological and artistic. This is of course a high requirement, and it is worth thinking about how you will take your photography path. I hope you can use your good techniques and the status you have achieved to produce works with unique ideas. Cigars and Pu'er are both elegant toys, especially cigars, which are popular, but they can also easily go astray. In fact, there is no strict separation between highbrow and lowbrow. We always believe that you are determined. Although the "jianghu" is dangerous, the orthodox worldview education throughout your growth process will guide your choices in interests, hobbies, friends and many other aspects. Take good control of yourself!

9, 31. Years have changed, and another year has passed in a blink of an eye. In the eyes of our attention, you have stepped from a heroic young man to the threshold of 35 years old. Sociologically speaking, this is a sign of division between middle-aged and young people. After 34 years, you have gone through many years and events, and you have become calm, rich, open-minded, profound, calm and wise. These qualities that a mature man should possess have begun to belong to you. The once ignorant boy began to understand life, family, society, and the value of his own life. We have also grown up with you and entered old age. Aging is approaching us step by step, and the health, vitality and omnipotence we once had will gradually fade away. However, we are still used to treating you as a child who needs guidance and care. Your body, work, hobbies, relationships, personality, and even worldview are all evolving as we silently watch. This kind of attention and concern may very well become each other's burden, but without this "burden" we would not be a family connected by blood. This year’s farewell to the old year and welcome to the new year is of symbolic significance: as you enter middle age, you will be more mature and self-reliant; the two of us will need your care more, and our physical and mental dependence will also make us pay more attention to your physical and mental health. Require. The following words can be regarded as New Year greetings or life messages to you. I hope you can understand them:.

10. Second, I hope you work hard. We have always thought that you are a career-oriented and capable person, and we are not worried if you do your job well. However, a company's evaluation of people is comprehensive and does not only look at so-called "talent". In addition to working creatively, caring about the collective, being willing to help others, coordinating and communicating, abiding by rules, and being strict with yourself are all excellent qualities that a public official must have, and they are also a reflection of your abilities in many aspects. You are upright, generous, humorous, caring, and talented. You should be able to integrate well into the group. The question is whether you are willing to invest. Your company is undergoing restructuring, and there are a large number of familiar people who are closely connected, but you don't seem to be distracted. If you want to develop here, you need to pay attention to your connections and dynamics. It’s not about teaching you sophistication, but it requires wisdom and foresight!