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From folk stories, we can know the cultural background and humanistic feelings at that time.

The following is a knock-on message I recommend to you:

The mobile phone rang and received a short message from a stranger: "Teacher, are you going to drown in the sea of questions for three years in high school?" Besides studying every day, how to study? Life is so boring! "

"What grade are you in? I feel very helpless. " I replied to him immediately.

"Our head teacher said on the first day of school that you spent three years in high school for the last paper. Without such a goal, you can go home now! " He didn't answer my question, but went on to state his experience. In the face of such a "visitor" who took the initiative to talk, I did not continue my topic, but guided him to continue to talk: "Your class teacher is very strict."

"yes. Not only is the head teacher strict, but our Chinese teacher is also very good. She said that my sense of language was poor, and she made me promise to read for an hour every day. God, I have so much homework, how can I have time to read extra-curricular books? "

"It seems that you are surrounded by learning. Do your homework every day and expand after class. It's really not easy. " I affirmed his "efforts" and hoped that he could trust me.

"Teacher, I have been in class since I opened my eyes every day, doing my homework and doing extracurricular problems. Sometimes I even dream of catching up on my homework. I don't think I can hold on any longer. Is this my high school life? Is this how I spent my high school? Was it like this in the previous high school? " He sent several question marks in succession. It seems that he really wants to solve his own problems and has a strong motivation to ask for help. But I think the consultation on the mobile phone can only be used as a start, and I still have to go to the consultation room for an interview.

"What is high school life like? Many students haven't thought about this problem until graduation. You can think of it, which shows that you are a diligent thinker. But at the same time, it is also a matter of different opinions. It is best to talk in detail in person. " I hinted that he would come to the consulting room to talk.

"Yes, teacher, I'll come to see you at half past six this Tuesday evening. But you may be disappointed in me, because I am an ordinary boy with acne on my face. " He seems dissatisfied with himself.

"We are all ordinary people, long acne means that you are still young, and the teacher wants to have acne. Then let's make a deal. See you in the consultation room at 6: 30 on Tuesday night. "

"Teacher, you are so humorous. I am a student in Class 8, Grade 1, Senior High School. My name is Xiao Wei. Usually in class, I think you can understand us very well. Psychology class can not only relax us, but also enlighten us. How can you find so much happiness and so many feelings in life? "

"Great men have great wisdom, and little people have cleverness. As long as you want to discover and think, you will feel that life itself is a beautiful thing. "

At 6: 1 on Tuesday night, Xiao Wei came to the consulting room. He looks a little tired and his eyes are bloodshot.

"Wei, sit down! You don't seem to have a good rest. " I asked him casually.

"Well, I haven't had a rest since I went to high school. I have to do my homework late and get up early in the morning. In fact, I am very tired every day. " He said helplessly.

"Are all the students around you like this?" I asked.

He thought for a moment and said, "There are several people in our dormitory like me, and others are living very chic. I can't help it I can get through it. "

"What do they think?" I asked.

"They think that high school should have a good time, make more friends, and there is no need to study hard. And now that many universities have expanded their enrollment, it is quite easy to get into a university. " He said with a little disdain.

"It seems that you don't quite agree with them?" I asked.

"Of course! How important it is to have three years in high school. If you don't work hard, others will surpass you. You must study hard and constantly surpass others, so that you can be admitted to key universities, study popular majors and find a job after graduation. As for making friends and enjoying, you can come back later. But once the college entrance examination fails, it will be irreparable. " He said excitedly.

"It seems that you think that you must study hard, work hard 100% and persist in struggle in high school for three years in order to realize your own value and have a better tomorrow?" I asked him seriously.

"yes." He answered without thinking.

"So, can you say that this is your explanation of high school life?" I asked.

He was silent for a while and said, "You can say that I think high school life is equal to struggle."

I smiled and said, "In fact, your actions are implementing your ideas. You think the meaning of high school life lies in struggle, so you study against time. "

He nodded and said, "unlike some students, my orientation of high school life is to study hard, so compared with their relaxed and colorful life, I may be very hard, but this is also the high school life I want, otherwise I will regret it."

I affirmed his idea.

"I know that learning is very important, so I study hard, but I can't surpass my classmates in front. Sometimes I really feel that learning is boring and depressing, and I even don't want to learn. I can't do it if I really don't learn. " Xiao Wei raised new questions.

"Learning is bound to encounter difficulties, and it is good not to be discouraged." I encouraged him to say.

He nodded and said, "But what should I do?"

"Xiao Wei, why do you think you are studying?" I asked him seriously.

He hesitated for a moment and said, "teacher, I'll tell you the truth." I can come here to study because of the help of my relatives. It's a shame if I can't read well. And my parents always told me that if you don't study hard, you won't find a good job in the future, and life will be very difficult. "

"I'm glad you trust me so much. You attach great importance to reading. On the one hand, you hope to live up to expectations, on the other hand, you hope to live well in the future. " I concluded.

He nodded.

"In other words, you value the result of reading more than the process of reading?" I asked.

He thought for a moment and said, "Yes. Sometimes I feel that reading is very hard and boring, especially when I don't do well in the exam. "

I led him to say, "If I were you, I would think so, too. Because I also value learning results. Of course I won't be happy without a good result. But can we think about it from another angle? No matter whether your exam is successful or not, the learning process can bring us a lot of gains. "

He thought for a moment, shook his head and said, "I don't think so."

I inspired him to say, "For example, if I learn a foreign language, I can understand the original movies and communicate with foreigners." I studied mathematics, and logical thinking was trained ... "

"I am studying politics and can understand state affairs; By studying geography, you can learn a lot about local conditions and customs. Learning Chinese, I can understand the Analects myself ... "He grabbed my words excitedly.

I looked at him with envy and said, "Yes, you see, we actually increase our skills in all aspects by learning knowledge, which is very meaningful in itself. It doesn't matter if we don't study once, we still have a chance. It doesn't matter if you don't do well in the exam once, you can know where you still lack. "

He said happily, "Yes, yes! Why didn't I think of that? If I think so, I won't feel that learning is a burden and I won't be depressed because of failure. "

I continued to guide him: "It is very important to find happiness in the process of learning. It can make us really love learning and study hard. "

I nodded and said, "there are such students who like learning very much, but the results of learning are always unsatisfactory." Once or twice is acceptable. After a long time, no one can stand it. This is like an old farmer who likes farming very much, but what do you think if there is no harvest every year? "

Xiao Wei thought for a moment and said, "It seems a bit too cruel. If you work hard, you will never get anything in return. Aren't you depressed to death? "

Xiao Wei said gloomily, "What should I do?"

"Each of us has different abilities. Some people learn easily, but they get good grades. Some people work hard, but their grades have not improved much. " I said.

"Yes, yes. Xiao Dan in our class didn't see how she usually studied, but she was the first in several exams. I study hard, but I can't get into the top few. " Xiao Wei looks helpless.

"Genetic factors are difficult to change and can only be made up by the day after tomorrow." But one bite won't make you fat. What should we do? "I asked Xiao Wei.

"Eat slowly." Xiao Wei blurted out.

"What do you mean, eat slowly? How to eat slowly? " I asked.

Xiao Wei thought for a moment and said, "Teacher, do you mean that I should not be in a hurry to be the first in my class, but approach step by step?"

I nodded and said, "Yes. We can divide our long-term goals into several short-term goals and achieve them step by step, so that our pressure will not be great and it will be easy to achieve. "

Xiaowei nodded and said, "Teacher, I understand. I think learning is boring, very boring. On the one hand, I didn't realize the fun of learning. On the other hand, I set my goal too high, which I have never achieved. I am always beaten. "

I affirmed his idea and concluded: "Plan your time according to your orientation of high school life, feel the fun of the learning process, and cut the learning goals into small and specific goals. The teacher believes you can do it! "

Xiaowei walked out of the consulting room with a satisfied and confident smile.

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