I am with a married woman. I sent her a message recently, and she didn't reply to me very much. Can I be the same as before?

Since he is a married woman, you should not fantasize about staying with him for a long time, because he has a family. He is very inconvenient sometimes. When you send him a message, maybe he has someone or children at home, and he will avoid it.

You should consider the problem from his point of view. After all, you have a family, so you shouldn't send him messages often. It's normal for him not to reply to you.

As for whether we can be the same as before, it's hard to say. Because you are not the whole of her life, her mind is on her family, she has a husband and children, and he can't spend part of his energy on you, because you are just a familiar stranger.