Mother-in-law always speaks ill of you in front of her husband, and he believes you. What should I do?

After graduating from college, my husband and I got married. We live with our mother-in-law's father-in-law because of our own incompetence. During the year of living, I was tortured because my mother-in-law always spoke ill of me in front of her husband. Usually my husband is around, my husband is not around, and my mother-in-law is completely different, which also makes me see her mother-in-law's scheming. You can't say all the bad things your mother-in-law said, and your husband believes it, but always saying these things will definitely affect the feelings between husband and wife.

Therefore, the best way to deal with this kind of behavior is to move out with your husband, instead of living with your parents-in-law. This is the best way to deal with it, and it will also reduce many unnecessary quarrels. If my husband doesn't agree with such a proposal, I don't think divorce is necessarily a bad thing, because we need to know that such a relationship will only make your husband and wife torture each other.

Because of her mother-in-law's harsh words, your husband will definitely look at you differently, no matter how much you pay in this family, it's in vain. A husband who really loves you will definitely stand in your position. After all, when you marry into this family, you are still a foreigner. If he stands against you on your parents' internet, it will only make you more miserable.

So, in my case, I finally went out with my husband and bought a down payment house. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become more harmonious since I moved out. Every weekend, I will take my children to my parents' house for a party, and I will help each other when I meet difficulties. If I move out, it's not that I don't honor my parents. If parents can't take care of themselves, children will certainly take care of their parents, but it is best to take care of themselves alone.