Excellent example of a letter to retain a husband who wants a divorce

Marriage is hard-won. When your husband wants a divorce, you might as well write him a sincere letter of apology. Below I have compiled a letter to save my husband, please read it.

A letter to retain my husband Part 1

Husband:

I know that my love can no longer keep you, and I have let you down.

I love you, love our home, love the happiness we had before, and love everything we have shouldered together in the past few years.

I stay at home these days, thinking that you will see the bright lights when you come back one day. I bought milk and eggs, thinking that you will be able to eat fried eggs one morning.

Since I am so reluctant to leave you, why do I have to leave home with you again and again, and why do I treat you like this with my family? Why don’t I let you wear clean and neat clothes to go to work, and why can I have a delicious dinner when I get home from get off work? . I didn’t understand the pressure of your life, I didn’t say a word of encouragement when you had insomnia, I didn’t accompany you quietly when you needed space, and I didn’t buy you any medicine when you coughed so badly.

You have been exhausted physically and mentally for two years. When you come back to face such a home, you said to me that you want someone who shares the same joys and sorrows. I don’t have a word to argue. Memory marriage, where can I be? Be a good wife who is sensible and considerate.

Now that you are gone, I understand these truths. When a man works hard outside, the best reward a woman can give him is a warm family.

You don’t have any big shortcomings. It’s just that my character is too willful and entangled, which triggers your temper. I want to change it, and I am changing it.

I no longer expect you to go home, but I really want to tell you that it is better to have a family and someone to take care of it than to be alone. There are some pressures in life, and it is easier for two people to bear them together than for you to bear them alone. .

If we get along again, I think my personal feelings are no longer important. I want to give happily, but only you can give me a complete home.

XXX

XXXX. Things I have done for you:

1. Every morning, open the curtains and let the sunlight shine into the bedroom, which will put you in a good mood.

2. Wash the fruits you buy every day, put them on a plate, and put them on the coffee table so that you can reach them when watching TV.

3. Every Friday, buy a lot of food and put it in the refrigerator so that you won’t be hungry when you are home alone.

4. Clean the house every Saturday. Use a rag to wipe away dust, oil stains and broken hair, leaving you with a clean and bright environment.

5. Wash your seasonal clothes and shoes every season and put them in the cabinet.

6. There are 4 different newspapers and books in the room. So that you can easily find it when you want to look at it in any room such as the bedroom, living room, dining room and bathroom.

7. Use an abandoned sugar bowl to collect coins so that you can use them to buy the weekly must-see "Globe".

8. Every time after you take a shower, I silently wipe the unfinished water in the bathroom with a rag to prevent it from mixing with the dust on the slippers and leaving black spots everywhere. footprints.

9. Every time you get drunk, no matter how late it is, I will bring you a washbasin, a cup of warm water and a roll of paper towels. The wash basin is for you to vomit, the warm water is for you to rinse your mouth, and the paper towel is for you to wipe your mouth.

Things you have done for me: With all due respect, I really can’t remember them. So, I agree to the divorce.

XXX

XXXX. I don’t know how long I can call you. I hope it’s not too late and I can travel back to the past, to the starting point, and to a trusting, happy, and affectionate marriage.

From the time I met you to now, it must have been thirteen years. I have been married, had children, been happy, been joyful, lived wholeheartedly, been in poverty, and have gone through bits and pieces and ups and downs together, although I have not experienced it. It has been a huge setback, but we have come through it side by side in more than ten years. After experiencing so many days of torment, torture, anger, sadness, confusion and despair, I feel like a harbor after a typhoon has passed. Although it is irreparably dilapidated and damaged, it finally returns to peace.

In order to love you, I rejected the marriage that my family had decided for me, and gave up a person who loved me. When I met you, you had nothing, except an unstable job, full of passion, and youth. Apart from Lisheng, I should be penniless, but at that time, I had been working here for several years and had a stable job. I could easily control and buy what I wanted. Of course, I couldn't compare with others. , just comparing with you, I have a financial advantage, but I don’t discount our relationship because of these. I am devoted to you. If you don’t have a mobile phone, I will give it to you. If you are not sick and have no money, I will give you money. , you were hospitalized, and I cooked and sent it to the hospital. When I bought a house, I paid most of the down payment. When I was pregnant with my son and had to get married, you came to my house without letting you spend any money. I was pregnant until one month before giving birth to my son. I still work hard. Even so far, I have been working very hard. I didn’t ask you to support me, I didn’t ask you to spend money on me, and I didn’t ask you to provide money to support my parents. I just hope for a stable job. Pure feelings.

There are several decades in life. People who are already forty years old should see farther and wider, think more comprehensively, be more rational, and be more intuitive to reality. In the face of new things, new people, and new things, we will be full of passion, fight for passion, and risk everything. When the novelty wears off, when all the passion fades, what remains is the same, the essence of life...ordinary !

One family, one world, this is really true. When facing both parents, you need to have enough patience to deal with it. In front of your parents, you must be respectful and filial. In front of you, you must be a wife who can go into the kitchen and in the living room. In front of your son, you must be a kind and principled mother. In front of my parents, you must maintain your glorious image. It makes my parents feel that their daughter is marrying the right person and can rest assured about their daughter's future. In front of your classmates, I am a good helper. Fortunately, honestly speaking, I have achieved the above points. I don’t want you to worry about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. My parents also think that they have found a good daughter-in-law and their son is growing up happily and healthily.

I don’t know what you are thinking in your heart, why there is a mistress, I am exhausted physically and mentally to deal with the mistress, thinking about everything in my past life, I don’t know what I have done wrong to make me endure this kind of mistress. Pain, I would rather get seriously ill or have you sick and have me work tirelessly to take care of you, in exchange for this kind of pain...

In our life, we have children, a house, a car, and a small amount of money, but there is also no oppression and pressure of life, and inner turmoil can breed and jump, making those things in your heart Young ideas are alive again. If you feel that there is no more pursuit in life, I can not go to work, give you a man's protection plot, and spend more money on you. It's not that I don't know how to spend money, but for the sake of my family, I gave up. The habit of spending money indiscriminately helps you think about the family affairs of your seven aunts and eight grandma, and saves my maintenance fees, etc. Saving money on living expenses, everything I have now is slowly accumulated with sweat. It doesn't mean that you have the capital to pick up a mistress and find your first love.

I don’t want to talk bad about your mistress (first love), I just hope you can understand what she will like you if you don’t have these things. Your nothingness made her leave you, and now she Divorced, sent someone thousands of miles to come to your city to inquire about your situation, you can understand that she came to enjoy the mountains and rivers, but in my eyes, as a woman, I came here from Changsha alone, so many classmates , she only dates you, what is her purpose? She has come over more than once. No self-respecting woman would be so proactive. . . .

You are so eager to promote yourself! I knew you were married and had a family, and I also told her clearly through text messages that I knew about your affairs and asked her to stay away. And she also sent you some ambiguous messages. She is really shameless. You explained these as just normal greetings between classmates, what official words, what a pale explanation! Your poor wife is hiding in the dark and crying and sad. For her, you, who are honest and upright, Learned to lie, learned to disguise!

When everything is exposed, you tell me that the mistress is actually very pitiful. She is divorced, has no job, provides a house, raises children, etc. All of this tells me that she The purpose is very clear, she needs a backer and money, you are exactly what she is looking for, and you still think of the so-called love! At this time, if you haven't woken up yet, you can continue your dream.

I can give you freedom. You can help her provide a house, help her raise her children, clean up and leave this home. Do you still have passion when facing these real problems? Even if there is, how long can the reality keep you passionate? In other words, can you pass this test of your parents? With your mother’s temper, can the mistress tolerate and tolerate it? Over the years, the emotions between your parents and I have , let alone my daughter, my respect for them and everything in my life, I think your parents will also turn against you.

If, after you leave me, I can live a high-quality life, have a job to support myself, a house, a car and a son, it is just that I am missing a man, and the pain will pass in a short time. Man, as long as I give up some of the three obediences and four virtues, but it is still easy when I want to! I can rely on myself in the first forty years, and in the next forty years, I can also face life with kindness!

　XXX

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