I don't want to take my baby back to my mother-in-law's house. What should I tell my husband?

You can honestly communicate your thoughts and feelings with your husband. The following is a possible expression:

"Dear, I am very grateful for your contribution to our family, especially in treating children. I know you feel stressed sometimes, but I also know that you have been working hard. I want you to know that I think our children are our responsibility, not just yours. I attach great importance to this family and your parents, but I think that in some cases, bringing children back to your parents' home may be detrimental to their growth.

Children need more freedom and space to develop their own personality and interests, not limited to the framework we set. When we bring our children back to your parents' home, they will be under your parents' control, which may make them feel stressed and not free.

I'm not saying that we should never bring our children back to your parents' home, but I think we should give our children more opportunities to explore their own lives and interests instead of always being tied to your family. I believe we can find a balance, so that children can get along with your parents, and at the same time, they can have enough freedom to develop themselves.

I think we can discuss it and see if we can reduce the frequency of taking children back or limit the time of going back with your parents' consent. I think this will give children more opportunities to experience different environments and people, and also have more opportunities to develop their abilities.

I know this may make you feel disappointed and uneasy, but I hope you can understand my thoughts and feelings. I hope we can solve this problem together and find a good solution for us and the children. "

Of course, everyone's situation is different, and you can adjust the above suggestions according to your actual situation.