What did the blind date say at first?

What did blind date say at first? Many people fail in blind date because they don't know what to say or what to talk about, so it's very important to chat on blind date. For the convenience of everyone, let's share how to say the beginning of blind date, hoping to help everyone.

The blind date begins with 1 1. Talking about hobbies, starting from hobbies, is very easy to talk about. What I want to talk about is everyone's hobbies, so you two may have many topics and think of many problems because of your hobbies, so if you are right, you will hit it off soon.

2, talking about ideals, I think no matter which man, I want girls to see what they have done, and when you are chatting, especially boys, you must let each other have their own direction and goals. How can we make our future life happier?

3. Talking about learning, learning is an eternal topic. In learning, we can see how the other person handles one thing, whether the other person will be positive, and we can communicate with each other well in learning. Of course, it's not just learning, but you can also extend it to other places according to learning.

4. Talking about filial piety, in fact, we know each other by blind date. In any case, all virtues and filial piety come first. An attitude towards parents can directly reflect you and show your position in each other's hearts, especially for men.

How to say 2 1 at the beginning of blind date, and what to talk about on WeChat for the first blind date, it is best to know each other in advance.

Knowing each other's hobbies in advance will help to open the topic better. And this can be understood through the introducer, her circle of friends and so on. When you tell her what you like at the right time, she will certainly like your care, at least she won't resent it. Easy to get close to.

2, the first blind date chat to communicate these topics can not be wrong.

Specifically, the two sides can communicate in an all-round way about their personalities, hobbies, living habits, parents' situation and culture, which is of great benefit to your married life. In addition, we can talk about our privacy later, and both sides should be honest and can't hide it. When chatting, the man should take the initiative, master the initiative, be able to control the situation of chatting, and also grasp a degree. If the woman doesn't want to talk, then don't try to talk. This man must have patience and confidence and never be shy. For sensitive issues, enough is enough. After the blind date, men and women should have a happy chat.

3, the first blind date WeChat chat learn to interact and communicate, boys take the initiative, girls don't always bring it.

It is inevitable that the first WeChat chat will be blunt, but don't be a topic terminator, for example, try to use as few modal particles as possible. When chatting, try to keep the rhythm of one sentence you send, one sentence I reply, two sentences you send and two sentences I reply. When the chat topic is embarrassing, remember to change the topic in time and keep a relaxed chat atmosphere. This method can also be applied to later communication. Please give me an evaluation and I'll give you a compliment. You treat me to Haidilao once, and I treat you to Starbucks once. Thank you for giving you so many teasing occasions in this era. If you use them, you have to use them.

4. Chatting with the blind date for the first time and using humor to resolve embarrassment.

Don't be too serious when chatting on WeChat for the first time. You can be as relaxed and humorous as possible, which will easily resolve the embarrassment. But pay attention to humor, not telling jokes, but making him think you are interesting and having a "knowing smile" when chatting. Tell jokes selectively, and don't turn yourself into a player, so that the other party will think you are very creative. All right! Having said so many suggestions, the most important thing is confidence. Just treat each other as good friends and chat naturally. With these skills, you can play for a long time!

5. Get the blind date's WeChat for the first time, and try to chat actively instead of calling.

When I first met you, it was easy to talk about anything on the phone. Wechat chat will have a buffer time for thinking, giving you time to think about how to open the topic and how to answer each other. Please use the normal brain circuit for the first WeChat chat. Avoid auditing and ask girls.

6, blind date emphasizes efficiency, but it is not recommended to be too impatient with the task assembly line.

After chatting with each other for a few days or meeting each other once, I am eager to have a clear relationship with each other. Many good girls and boys can't be dug up like this.