Girls don't return my messages.

As the saying goes, women have needles in their hearts. Many boys always lament that girls' minds are too difficult to guess, especially when chatting.

Sometimes girls are perfunctory, but boys can't get it, but they are immersed in their fantasy of success, hope for love and even marriage and children.

But pay attention, when girls really don't want to talk to you, you will only be regarded as sexual harassment.

Especially when people have the following performances, they have no feelings for you, or they are not interested in your topic at all, or even don't want to talk to you at all.

1. Chatting is too official, and I like to find various excuses to perfunctory you.

I have a friend who often complains to me that his goddess is like this. Most of the answers to the chat content are too official, and it feels like chatting with a superior leader, so that you can't understand her at all.

For example, the following:

Boy: "Are you busy recently?"

Girl: "Not bad!"

Boy: "What's your favorite dish?"

Girl: "Vegetables and fruits ..."

There is also this kind, if you want to stop chatting with you or feel impatient with your information, you like to find various excuses to perfunctory you, such as the following:

I took a shower and died in the bathroom.

I went to eat and died at the dinner table.

I went to charge and died in the socket.

This is still a good situation. When girls really don't want to talk to you, the reason will be very unwilling.

Sorry, I have something to do.

Sorry, my mother just called me.

Sorry, my mobile phone is dead, so I won't tell you.

The above-mentioned girls may be out of their own courtesy and self-cultivation, and will not ignore you directly, but they will always make you feel distant.

Because she doesn't want to know about your past or participate in your future. Like two parallel lines, you look very close, but you will never cross.

After all, loving someone will not push him so far, but will only try to pull the distance in.

This kind of person who can feel cold through the screen really doesn't want to chat with you, but really doesn't like you.

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2. If you don't agree, you will be cold, and you will only send expression packs when chatting.

If she doesn't have feelings for you, you send her 10 thousand messages, and her reply won't exceed three words.

"oh oh"

"Uh-huh"

"Bye-bye"

……

Oh, and "hehe". The word "hehe" can best curb each other's desire to chat. Didn't you say that chatting died of "hehe"?

You tell a joke, and she says haha. You think you are humorous, and the more you talk, the harder you work. Later, you found that "haha" is just a sign to end the topic.

If she thinks you are a person who can't chat and doesn't want to chat, she will enter the embarrassing expression pack mode.

In the end, she didn't even want to find an emoticon, so she used a fixed emoticon, such as a mysterious smile, which might mean termination, you know.

3. Drop the line directly in the middle of the chat, or reply after a long time.

Don't think that I don't like chatting, I just don't like chatting with you.

Or, you are too rude, and your topic is too boring to talk about.

For example, this self-destructive topic:

Can you send me a selfie? Who are you? Do I know you so well?

Step on a girl's pain point (for example, she has a little meat, so why don't you talk about losing weight)

Theoretical research on mathematics and economics (except for related work interests, most of them let me sleep)

Don't blame other girls. This boy's eq is really low, so he can't talk about it.

Also, if she often forgets to return messages or reply to you every few hours or even days, then forget it, just don't want to talk to you. Variety, Taobao and even fingernails are more fun than you.

4. The most direct, no response, even blacked out and deleted.

There was once a boy who added me and couldn't say two words. Yes, you heard me right, just less than two sentences.

Basically, I found a friend-through a friend-started chatting-said hello-and then blacked him out directly. Why am I so cruel?

Not only was he a stranger, without permission, but he was not familiar with it. He even gave me a video. After I refused, he bombarded me with videos. I'm sorry, then I have to hack you.

And this. You sent her a lot of messages, but there was no response.

At this time, it is always easy for people to find many excuses for each other: she may not have seen it; She may be taking a bath. She may be eating. ......

You think she must have a reason, otherwise she won't reply to you. As a result, you found that she just sent a circle of friends.

At this time, you will understand. You have time to send a circle of friends, but you don't have time to reply to my messages?

Well, I'll tell you a truth from the heart. I just don't want to talk to you.