What is the experience of taking a newborn baby to bed?

The biggest "task" for newborn babies every day is to sleep besides breastfeeding. Under normal circumstances, the sleep time will reach 16-20 hours. So most of the babies in the month are sleeping. I invited Yue Yue to help me, and she accompanied me to rest with my baby at night. Because my family Yue Yue is really experienced and takes care of children very well, I will share her experience with the more important part of sleeping at night, hoping to give some inspiration to novice parents:

How to make your baby sleep more sweetly;

Successful and advanced novice parents should know that newborns have to breastfeed almost every two hours, but many babies are prone to milk spilling or spitting when they continue to sleep after breastfeeding, leading to dangerous situations such as poor sleep, being awakened or choking on milk.

The most fundamental reason for this problem is that the newborn baby's stomach is not particularly stable, and the cardia (the entrance to the stomach) is still relatively loose. After eating milk, the cardia can't contract like an adult to prevent food from flowing back to the esophagus, so it is easy to make milk flow back to the esophagus and cause galactorrhea or spitting.

The best preventive method is to hold the baby straight after each feeding and beat it rhythmically from the center of the back to help the baby get the hiccups out smoothly. This step must not be omitted! Be sure to hear the voice of the child typing before you can put it on the bed and keep sleeping on your side, otherwise it is easy to spit milk. Especially at night, once the child spits milk, adults fall asleep and don't know it. It's really dangerous!

Moreover, it is particularly important that the baby who has just finished eating milk can't directly let him sleep on his back, which is very easy to be inhaled into the nasal cavity because of spitting milk. It's better to wait for the baby to nurse for half an hour, and then it will be safer to sleep on your back.

How to let the baby sleep out a good head shape

In the first100th day of the baby's life, the baby's sleeping position also follows the rhythm of feeding, because the baby will be fed every 2-3 hours. The procedure of changing the baby's posture in the new moon is like this:

In this way, no matter day or night, my family's new moon never slackened off the baby's sleep and head shape until she left my home. So my baby's head slept beautifully, the back of his head was round, there was no sign of deviation, and his face slept symmetrically. I really appreciate her.

It is not easy for novice parents to take care of their babies. It is not an exaggeration to say that they work day and night, but when all efforts can bring about the healthy growth of the baby, then all the efforts are worth it.

Our two babies have been sleeping with us from birth to separation.

It's not that the old people don't help us, but that the old people on both sides have clearly offered to help us. It's just that we can't bear to let the old people suffer that, so let our baby take care of them.

It is really abusive to take a newborn to sleep, but our situation is still relatively good, because both of our families are safe babies, and the pace of life is relatively regular.

It is basically regular to get up every night to drink milk and change diapers.

At least until 1 year-old, you can't expect to sleep with your children until dawn and have to get up again.

Here's a tip about breastfeeding:

1. Buying a thermostatic kettle and preparing water before going to bed can improve the efficiency of milk making; Remember to replenish water, because changing diapers requires warm water;

2. Breastfeeding, wearing breastfeeding clothes, practicing lateral feeding, children eating with children and sleeping by themselves;

To tell you the truth, when I was sleepy and tired, I was really miserable and anxious, as if the world was coming to an end, but in retrospect, it was a wonderful memory.

My baby has been sleeping with me. The first month or two after birth is really hard. I still can't imagine how I got through it.

Because this is my first time as a mother and I have no experience, many things are easy to make a fuss. My baby is smaller than gestational age, and it has been in the stomach for more than a week, and it has not been in the stomach for ten months. Although she was born on the first day of 37 weeks, she is a full-term baby, but because she has been very small, she weighed only 4 kg and 7 liang at birth, so she is defined as a baby younger than gestational age.

But fortunately, the baby lived up to expectations. Although as small as a kitten, except for height and weight, other indicators are normal and very healthy. So my baby and I stayed in the hospital for two days and then went home.

We invited a new moon to take care of my confinement. On the one hand, let me have a good rest, keep healthy and facilitate my future work and life. On the other hand, because parents are new here, it is inevitable that they can't cope with many conditions of newborns. In order to avoid being in a hurry, I invited an experienced Yue Yue to take care of my confinement and learn from her parenting experience.

However, although I invited the new moon, I still insisted on sleeping with my baby at night, because I was breastfeeding and wanted to be close to my baby to familiarize him with my taste. But what I didn't expect was that it was so hard to sleep with newborns.

At first, it was irregular for babies to eat breast milk. They often cry when they want to drink, and fall asleep when they are tired after a few drinks. Later, under the adjustment of the new moon, the baby's milk drinking time was finally fixed, basically every two hours. But even so, the night is endless torture.

Babies drink breast milk very slowly. Because he drinks breast milk at night, he is also very sleepy, so he often drinks two drinks and sleeps for a while, and then drinks two more. It takes nearly half an hour to breastfeed each time.

When the baby is full, let him burp for ten minutes, and then gently put him down to sleep. By the time I finally arranged everything, more than half of the time had passed, and I couldn't sleep with my eyes open. It may be time for the baby to drink milk for the next time.

I don't know how many precious mothers are like me, breastfeeding to doubt life. Until later, I felt completely numb. I could imagine myself: long hair, dull eyes, comparable to panda's dark circles and bags under his chin. I can't bear to look straight.

When the baby is near the full moon, I don't know what's going on, and suddenly I start spitting milk frequently. Yue Yue says it's flatulence, but no matter how careful you are when feeding and how serious the hiccups are after feeding, the baby's stomach is still a little bulging. Although Yue Yue insists on doing exhaustive exercise for him every day, the effect doesn't seem obvious.

Our baby's flatulence is a bit serious, so that he spits milk very frequently, and he often spits milk in big mouthfuls. I feel fine during the day, but at night it becomes endless torture.

At that time, Yue Yue had finished her 28-day work and left our home, so I was taking care of the baby alone. During that time, my "work" process every night was like this:

The baby cries and needs to drink milk. I get up to feed, and the feeding time lasts about half an hour.

Then burping usually takes about 15 minutes;

At this time, the baby will be uncomfortable because the diaper is full, unwilling to sleep, and change the diaper for the baby;

In the process of changing diapers, no matter how gentle and careful, the baby must spit milk. So after changing diapers, clean the baby and change his clothes.

After changing clothes, the baby doesn't want to sleep in bed, so he has to sleep with you, so he sleeps with you;

After waiting for half an hour, the baby finally fell asleep. After putting him to bed, it may be less than half an hour before the next feeding time.

When I closed my dry eyes before I could fall asleep, the baby's magic sound began to pierce my brain again, and then I got up to nurse and repeated the last workflow, which basically lasted until dawn.

I always suspected that I had missed the point, but I asked Yue Yue and my friends who had children, and they gave me a lot of advice, but it was basically useless.

For example, Yue Yue suggested that I change diapers before feeding, so that I don't have to change diapers after feeding, and maybe I can avoid spitting milk caused by flipping the baby. But the actual operation is particularly difficult, because our baby is a super anxious temper. Every time he cries for milk, he can hardly wait for a second. Yue Yue tried to change diapers before feeding, but in just two or three minutes, the baby was heartbroken, crying blue and almost dying, which shocked Yue Yue. Later, I never dared to brush his lamella again.

My friends also suggested that I take more pictures every time I burp, let the baby burp it out, and then put it down to sleep. But sometimes no matter how long I shoot, the baby doesn't burp, but as soon as I put him down, he spits milk.

Later, another friend said that after putting it down, let the baby sleep on his side for half an hour first, so it is not easy to spit milk. However, in fact, during the second month, Yue Yue and I have been doing this. The baby must sleep on his side for at least half an hour after breastfeeding, but it is completely ineffective and does not prevent him from vomiting if he wants to.

Finally, a friend gave me a bad suggestion, saying that the baby should wear a bib when drinking milk, so that the baby doesn't have to change clothes even if he spits milk. However, it is found in practice that this is simply a fantasy. The baby is too young for the bib to hold his thin neck. Spit milk can easily break through the interception of the bib and soak the clothes.

Even if we put the towel on it and barely hold the baby's neck, the baby won't spit milk on the towel. He may vomit on his sleeve, on his bag, and then spill it everywhere, on my clothes, on the bed, anywhere you don't live. It's really arbitrary. What's more, our baby is particularly resistant to being "pinched" by towels. Every time he is given a towel, although he can't resist, he can express his dissatisfaction by crying and show his firm determination by refusing to eat.

In addition to the "pain" imposed by the baby, as a novice mother, I am also cautious about the baby. Every movement of the baby can affect all my nerves, which is simply fear.

When the baby moves gently while sleeping, I will wake up immediately. When the baby hums softly, I will immediately prick up my ears. Did he fold his head? Is he hungry again? Did I run over him when he was moving? In short, a hundred thousand worries haunt my mind every day.

But if one day the baby sleeps quietly all night, I start to feel uneasy again. From time to time, I have to check my baby's breathing, touch his stomach and feel him breathing, then I will secretly breathe a sigh of relief. I sometimes wonder if I should go to the hospital to see a neurologist, alas.

Sleeping with the baby every night is torture and pain, but it is more sweet and happy. Although he is crazy and sleepy every night, scratching his head and sighing, he is speechless, but it is worthwhile to watch him grow up healthily day by day, lively and lovely, and tired again.

No matter how hard I tried, I collapsed, and the initiator just ate, drank and slept by himself, but I even wanted to take revenge on his little face for fear of hurting him.

Every time he looks at you innocently with big eyes, what can you complain about? All steelmaking has become soft fingers, and I just want to give it all to him. So what can we do? Anyway, I surrendered!

My husband and I got married late and gave birth to a baby late, which is a typical elderly primipara family. My mother-in-law died early and my parents were thousands of miles away, so we knew from the beginning of pregnancy that after having a baby, everything had to be explored by ourselves.

When preparing baby products in the third trimester, relatives around us strongly suggested that the stroller was the most useless, so we didn't prepare the stroller, so we were ready to let the children sleep with us.

The baby had an emergency cesarean section in 38 and a half weeks because of water breakthrough. A beautiful little princess was born with slight hypoxia and was sent directly to the pediatric hospital for four days. During the period, she had a comprehensive examination and everything was normal, which laid the foundation for us to take our baby to war in the future!

When we were in the hospital, we also asked the nurses in the inpatient department a lot of matters needing attention in taking care of newborns. Aunt menstruation also taught us a lot of experience in taking care of newborns, but when the children really came back to us, two people in their 80s really panicked and were anxious!

The baby was brought back to us for the first time. Looking at the soft and small lump, I can't start. Because it was a caesarean section, it was still difficult to get up. My aunt and sister-in-law stayed late in the ward at night, teaching me how to breast-feed my baby and how to change its diaper.

At that time, I was worried that the baby would go to pediatrics after birth and always fed milk powder, fearing that she would not eat breast milk. As a result, I found it unnecessary to worry. When I was in close contact with my baby for the first time, I was moved to tears. At that time, I really felt this little man around me, coming out of my stomach, my baby.

Although I have learned a lot of feeding knowledge before, I have no idea of time at all in that panic situation. All I know is that in the middle of the night, the baby cried badly. At that time, maybe I didn't have enough milk, the children didn't have enough to eat and cried hysterically. When the nurse came to make rounds, she said, "The child is hungry. Why don't you feed the milk powder quickly?"

We have prepared milk powder. At that time, we were worried that it was not a brand of pediatric milk powder. Does the child have diarrhea after eating it? Or have any adverse reactions? The nurse said, "feed the baby first"!

So they were in a hurry to make milk powder, but they were afraid to use a pacifier, so they fed it with a soft spoon of silicone, ate two spoons, and the baby slept for a second, haha, just a sip of milk! Then I put the baby back in the stroller.

So the first night the baby came back to us, he slept alone.

The next day, I left the hospital and went home. We spread a small quilt for the baby in the middle of the bed. My husband and I sleep on both sides, and the baby sleeps with me.

There was not enough milk at the beginning of the month, and we had no experience. We feed it every hour, and sometimes the baby cries badly, so we add milk powder. Fortunately, the pursuit of milk was successful and pure breast milk was realized.

At that time, the baby was basically held by me to sleep, because I didn't want her to cry, especially at night, when I woke up, I couldn't sleep well at all, and cried several times, which really broke down. I was thinking about when I should sleep for two hours.

Soon after, I experienced a milk blockage. Mr. Wang cut potato chips for cold compress and found a way. Fortunately, the baby's "small artificial breast pump" gave strength and passed quickly.

The baby has been born for more than two months, and it is usually enough to eat milk once or twice at night. But in February, my baby had flatulence, and every day when it got dark, I was inexplicably nervous, because my baby couldn't put it down at all and slept until eleven o'clock.

After three and a half months, the baby can sleep by himself at night, but he needs me to coax him to sleep and accompany him. I can fall asleep at eight or nine o'clock in the evening recently, and I will breastfeed twice in the evening until around seven o'clock the next morning. Seriously, I feel very happy now.

I am busy and happy to take care of my baby. Although I haven't had a good sleep for a long time, although half of my body is exposed outside the quilt every day, although I have to wake up countless times to see the baby, it is still worthwhile to watch her grow up healthily and safely!

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As a treasure mother who once took care of her baby independently, I would like to share my experience here.

After the baby is born, it can still sleep independently. At that time, he could sleep well. Basically, he just needs to nurse, but I gradually found that the baby is used to sleeping with his arms. Sometimes relatives and friends will hold him for a while and shake him to sleep every time. Babies are getting used to this way of sleeping.

At that time, my husband and I took turns hugging at night. Basically, the husband sleeps with the baby in his arms, then puts her down, wakes up crying soon, and then goes to sleep again. Sleeping with arms around is not terrible. The terrible thing is that you are used to another behavior, that is, you must stand up and sleep with your arms around you!

I can't stand it. I'm really tired. We are also asking many parents with babies how to put their babies to sleep, find some books to do experiments and slowly adjust their mentality.

Later, the baby began to learn to sleep by himself. As soon as the lights are turned off, the baby will start to sleep, which is really much easier than before.

Here, I want to remind the parents of their babies that it is not difficult to take their babies to sleep independently. It is difficult to get him into the habit of how to sleep.

It's tiring to carry the newborn to bed. At night, the spotlights in my corridor don't turn on, so I can get up and nurse at night. Although my family eats breast milk, it is not breast-feeding. Every time a child suckles, there must be at least two people. It was a dark day.

On the third day of the baby's birth, the jaundice index is too high, so blue light can only be used. Small counties can only send their babies to ICU. In some big cities, adults can hold their children and shoot blue light with them every day, unlike us, adults and children have to be separated.

There is no breast milk, only milk powder. You don't need to bring anything except milk powder. It's provided by the hospital.

After leaving the hospital and going home, the child who doesn't suck nipples was hospitalized for four and a half days. I don't reject breast milk when I get home. You can quit milk powder directly, but you can only suck it out and drink it in a bottle.

So every time I breastfeed, the old man at home holds the child and I suck the milk.

At night, I sleep alone in the imperial concubine chair in the living room. My imperial concubine chair is very big, just like a small bed. Old people and children sleep in our room.

On the one hand, the old man and the young man are uneasy together, because from time to time, the old man has to see whether the child is lying on his nose or on his side. I basically get up every three hours, and I have a particularly poor sleep for a whole month. I want to sleep when I stand.

Angel baby or devil baby, the children downstairs are sleeping all night in the month, so the mother is alone with the children and doesn't need the help of other family members at night.

Therefore, it depends on the child's feelings.

Anyway, it is normal to be tired as a parent.

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I really recall those days and nights with my baby, sleepless nights, anxious and tired nights, maybe it is another kind of happiness.

When we have children, because my mother-in-law lives in her hometown, which is far from our new house, I will cook for grandpa. My mother-in-law helps me wash and cook during the day and goes back to my hometown around 4 pm. In other words, all the nights after the baby was born, I came with Bao Dad.

A few days after birth, the child is very soft. In addition to changing diapers or clothes, he tried not to pick it up and lay down to feed. Caesarean section can't even hold the baby and turn over. When the baby was young, it was very hard to eat. Just after giving birth, the body needs to recover. Therefore, when a child milks every 2 to 3 hours, he can't sleep. During the day, everyone takes turns changing diapers, and at night, it is war!

He fell asleep after feeding, and he cried again. As soon as he peed, I changed it again. A few hours later, he pulled again, and Bao changed his diaper. I have to get up five or six times a night, and I have to come over all night. Still didn't sleep a wink all night, counting the time to come over. This kind of repetition every night in the month, every parent may be without exception, unless he really doesn't care.

Sleep next to him, afraid that he will crush him. Even if you don't cry, wake up immediately if there is any movement. This function of mine has been like this until now when the child is over 3 years old. In other words, the child rolled over, pushed a quilt and snorted, and I woke up. In this way, no one slept well all night.

Out of the month, the baby grows up day by day, and the number of waking up at night gradually decreases. My body is slowly recovering, and I can cope on my own. I was afraid that my work would be affected the next day, so I slept alone with my children for about 4 months. Since then, it has been a night battle for one person. I'm afraid that function is not available to Bao Dad.

The child is now 3 years old and has not been separated from the bed at school. He is quite dependent on his mother. I still habitually wake up at night to look after the children. It's really hard to change or let go!

How many sleepless and tired nights, watching him sleep is so happy and warm. Watching him fall asleep, the fatigue of the day is gone, full of expectations on this little face. Silly smile, beautiful and happy in my heart.

I don't know if other precious mothers want to come like this! Pay tribute to the great us!

Hello, I'm Ma Bao Nian, and I'm glad to answer your questions. My father and I have been taking care of the children since they were born. Later, my father's paternity leave ended, and I took care of the children alone. Let me share my experience with you:

Back from the hospital, I slept with my parents and children. At that time, my mother-in-law came to see the children. We spliced a super big bed, and three adults and one child slept together. The children showed their "nature" when they came back. They cried three or four times a night, and it was dawn. We wanted to take care of the children by ourselves, but our mother-in-law insisted on taking them with us, so we slept together, but the children slept next to their father. As long as the child is in trouble, the father will get up cleverly, which I still didn't expect, because the father of the child used to sleep with someone who wouldn't wake up even if you took him away.

Although the paternity leave passed quickly, the father of the child couldn't sleep for a while, but he slept a lot, but he didn't want to go back to work. After the child's father went back, it was the second month, and everyone left, leaving only me and the child, which means that I have been taking care of her every night since the child was more than a month old.

Conclusion I am studying in Ma Bao. Welcome to pay attention to "Nianbao" and exchange parenting experience together. The most frustrating thing is that when the baby is two months old, he still has to sleep in a squeaky nest. But it will be much better after three months, so mom and dad insist.

Newborns are actually very easy to take care of, as long as you master the right methods. Generally speaking, normal newborns sleep most of the time except for feeding and smelling. Mothers can adjust themselves according to the baby's sleep time and try to keep a synchronous rest with the baby. At this time, you will find it easy and happy to take care of your baby.

First, how to cultivate the sleep law of newborns, first of all, let newborns realize the difference between day and night. We can let the baby feel it by opening and closing the curtains, or we can say to the baby, "Baby, it's dawn, let's get up." Baby, it's getting dark. Let's go to bed. Although the baby can't talk, but try more and repeat more, the baby will understand. What are the advantages of doing so? By cultivating the baby's awareness of day and night, it can effectively reduce the number of breastfeeding at night and make the mother's sleep quality more secure.

Second, how to feed 1 at night. Breastfeeding babies can choose to lie on their side to feed their babies at night. As long as the feeding posture is correct, there will be few cases of milk overflow. After feeding, you can let the baby turn over to sleep on the other side, or you can choose to sleep on the left side today and sleep on the right side tomorrow, so that the baby can have a beautiful head shape.

If the mother has a lot of breast milk, she can use a breast pump to suck out the excess milk and store it in her spare time during the day, and then feed it to the baby after heating it with a hot milk machine at night, so that the mother can sleep until dawn, but Bao Da has to work a little harder and needs to get up and warm the milk to feed the baby. This rotation during confinement can promote maternal recovery as soon as possible.

2. The baby who feeds milk powder can let Bao Da be the protagonist at night, and remember to burp the baby after feeding milk powder.

Third, there are three main reasons for how to solve the crying of newborns: breastfeeding, smelly and uncomfortable. If the baby is crying because of odor, change the baby's diaper in time; If it is crying caused by hunger, feed the baby in time; If it is crying caused by discomfort, you can observe whether the baby has other accompanying abnormal symptoms. Now the level of science and technology is very developed, you can consult a doctor online and solve the problem in time and effectively.

When you solve the above three problems, the baby basically sleeps or sleeps. Mothers should quickly restore health, health is the capital of bringing a baby.