Did your parents ask you for money?

He is a common occurrence for my parents. They always call me every three days and ask me if I am short of money. When I was in high school, I had a holiday every month. Before school started, they would let me take my own living expenses. Even if I get enough living expenses, they will give me 200 more.

I'm telling the truth, not fiction. This doesn't mean how rich my family is. Actually, it's the opposite of what you think. Many students can't understand why my parents are different from theirs. In fact, more reasons are on me.

I am a child who has been obedient and excessive. Always want to scrimp and save all day. As a result, in the seventh and eighth grades, my body completely collapsed. At that time, I was in the stage of body expansion, but my nutrition couldn't keep up, which led to my poor health now. Run to the hospital at every turn.

Other children cry because they spend too much money, and my family cries because I don't spend money. Because my family runs a small shop, all the money is put in the till. Every time I go to school, my mother won't ask me how much money I bring. If I want more or less, I will put it in the drawer. It's just that after I got the money, I couldn't help but count off with her.

Every time I get enough living expenses, his parents will give more. If I don't want them, they will tell me that the school is far from home, they will be very busy and there are many places to spend money. If you have more money, you can put it in your pocket. But with less money, no one will send me to school.

Finally, I thought what they said was quite reasonable, so I reluctantly accepted it. Because you take more at a time, this inertia will form every month. That's it. They also call me from time to time to ask if I want money.

Now that I am in college, my natural expenses are much higher than those in high school. At the beginning of school, my mother asked me to bring enough cash and pay the tuition, leaving more than 700 in the bank card. Just a few days ago, my grant was also posted on my card. But even if I have so much cash, the topic that I can't escape on the phone is to ask me if I am short of money?

Although I am an adult, it seems to my parents that I will always be just a child. Sometimes I think they care too much about fire and worry too much. I always remind them to learn to let go and give me a space to grow up alone. But I still couldn't convince them. I wonder if they will get better with age.

I am a bird whose wings are not yet full, but I am also eager to escape from the cage and soar in the sky. I know I haven't been wet behind the ears, and my parents can't let go completely. But I want to say, in the end, I still have to go alone. They can walk with me for a while, but they can't take me all the way.