How do you deal with telling the truth and torturing the souls of relatives and friends?

I think frankly, this is the best response to family inquiries. Family members' inquiries are more out of concern for themselves and a kind of goodwill. If the care of family members is a kind of mental stress to ourselves, I think we might as well try to change our mentality and face these problems with a positive attitude, which may be something we don't want to think about at ordinary times.