How to achieve "never forget your active attitude, so as to achieve your ultimate goal"?

Three hounds chased a groundhog, and the groundhog got into a tree hole. There is only one exit from this tree hole. Suddenly, a rabbit ran out of the tree hole and climbed a big tree. The rabbit lost its footing in the tree and fell down, stunned the three hounds who were looking up. Finally, the rabbit escaped.

The story is over. After listening, are there any questions? Some people say: rabbits can't climb trees! Some people say that a rabbit cannot stun three hounds at the same time. All good questions. But have you noticed: where is the groundhog? The groundhog is your target. But many people often lose their goals in the face of complex environment.

It is said that "we can achieve our ultimate goal only if we don't forget our initiative", but most of us can't "stare" at this "initial heart", so we never reach our desired "destination" in the end.

Maybe you have heard of "from beginning to end" and know that what is needed behind "from beginning to end" is to stick to action and make detailed plans, but how to stick to the goal and stick to action? Today, we will talk about three big pits that target management needs to jump over.

The first pit: Is this goal really what you want?

A bright future is always exciting. Just thinking about it makes me feel excited. So, the next day, I ran to the target and stopped eating on the fourth day. . . This is the situation of many people.

To jump over this pit, before making up your mind to do something, you need to ask yourself three questions to evaluate your goal:

1. Is this goal really what I want, or is it a blind pursuit caused by comparing with others?

Do I have a chance to succeed in this matter? How much time and resources do I need to invest?

3. What is the best result of this goal in my current state? What may be the biggest practical obstacle?

After the target evaluation, if you feel that there is an opportunity, you will go all out. If you feel that the opportunity is not great, just put it down and invest in more likely projects. As the saying goes, giving up is also a beauty.

Target evaluation solves two common problems, one is the three-minute fever mentioned above, and the other is just thinking about it.

The second pit: how to solve all kinds of obstacles on the road of action?

If you really set the goal correctly, you will stick to the plan. At this time, you will find that there are various obstacles that prevent you from completing your daily plan. This obstacle may be a sudden change in the weather, my intense laziness, or a friend's visit. ...

Skip the second pit, our method is "woop" planning method, and woop stands for wish-result-obstacle-plan. Simply put, it is to think about how to deal with something in advance. For example, your goal is health, and your plan is to run 2km after work every day. You can list possible obstacles and solutions every day, such as what if you are too tired to run? Can you eat some high-energy food in advance? Or take a ten-minute nap to refresh yourself.

"woop" planning method is easy to use because it is easy to use in a stable environment, but it is not easy to use in a changing situation, because the pressure brought by change makes you too late to think and be overwhelmed by emotions, so you can only rely on instinct, and instinct is basically the worst choice. The only solution is to rehearse all the possibilities of obstacles in advance. This method is not only suitable for target management, but also suitable for various practical drills, such as speeches and large-scale activities.

The third pit: What will you do in the face of temptation?

On the way to action, there are not only obstacles, but also temptations. Today, I decided to improve my speech. Tomorrow, I found that writing is a better skill, so I immediately made plans and increased my schedule! The day after tomorrow, I will find that there are better things! No one wants to give up, so, "full firepower"!

Everyone's time and energy are limited, more is less, less is more!

Human nature is greedy, and only by making choices can we really make a difference.

Then the way to skip the third pit is: "Three things a day." Find a small notebook and list three things you plan to do every day (up to three). If you insist on punching in for 20 days every day, you will basically form a habit and even form a biological clock in your body. Now there is special software that designs three things every day. "Three things a day" can keep you firmly locked in your goal!

If you want to "not forget your initiative, so as to achieve your ultimate goal", it is not enough to make a plan. On the way to action, you have to jump over three big pits, and the corresponding methods are: target evaluation, woop planning, and recording "three things a day"!