When my mother died, my father seldom cared about me. Every time I try to find him, he ignores me and thinks we have nothing to say. How can we improve this situation?

Are you a boy or a girl? How old are you this year? What grade are you in college now?

From your description, it seems that you are a little strange when you get along with your parents for a long time, and you have less communication with your parents. This situation has something to do with you and your parents.

Your parents may not be very literate and may not know much about psychology. They just blindly believe in the theory that filial sons are born under sticks. They are worried that you will go astray, and they are responsible for your growth. This long-term education in the form of sticks has made you learn well, but it has also affected your character and your psychological characteristics to some extent. It should be said that the strangeness between you and your parents is related to this way of getting along. Fortunately, your psychology is ok, and you belong to the sunshine child. You have never complained about them. Your mother died, and you are very sad. You can accept your father's remarriage and understand your father. This is commendable.

Son, as you said, your father is old and he needs the care of his children. He loves you very much, but he just doesn't know how to express his love. It is best for your father and his present wife to live happily. You have done what you should do in this respect, and you are your understanding and support. It's good that you can continue to be kind to them in your later life. You can call them often, especially your stepmother. Your father must be very happy when you do this. Go home during the holidays, spend more time with them and tell them something new about the provincial capital. Slowly, the strangeness between you will disappear. Wish you success!