I am a boy of 13 years old. I feel like a homosexual, and I often want to have sex with men. Am I gay?

First of all, you are now in a period of sexual ignorance (teenagers attach importance to friendship with the same sex, are ashamed to be close to the opposite sex, and are afraid of being laughed at or discussed. Some teenagers also show contempt or disgust for the opposite sex. ) there is still a deviation from real sexual behavior.

Secondly, children of this age from primary school to junior high school have similar or vague feelings about the closeness of the same sex and the opposite sex, and it is gradually clear after high school.

Finally, find out the reasons and seek countermeasures. The formation of homosexuality may be caused by congenital factors or acquired environment, and the situation is more complicated. I suggest you, with the help of a psychologist, find out the reasons for your homosexuality and work out the corresponding corrective measures. It should be pointed out that the treatment of most homosexuals will be long-term, which requires full psychological preparation and continuous efforts.

You are only 13 years old now, and you don't know much. The definition of sexual behavior is very vague, and you can't 100% judge that you are gay just because of your current thoughts!