After the first blind date, men often send messages, but they just don't ask to meet. What does that mean?

I have been in this situation before. I always feel that women marry men. Men should take the initiative, and women can only hint when they want to. However, a man just uses WeChat every day and never talks about love again. I'm also afraid of losing opportunities. At that time, I chatted every day for a month, first suggesting, then clarifying. As a result, the man said that I tied people up when I was working in a hotel. My colleague's husband used to work in the hotel. He gave it to me. As soon as he sends a WeChat, I will tell you that you are in the hotel and can't leave the hotel. A month later, the introducer kindly inquired, and my mother directly said that she had not seen the baby since we met. The introducer said that she couldn't see the baby at the school gate and his parents kept going to him. Later, the man went to the introducer himself, and the introducer's grandmother had a good relationship with my grandmother. Afterwards, she told my grandmother that she scolded him for seeing the baby and said it was right to introduce him to you. I only sent WeChat for a month, and the introduction was very popular. He called me for the first time. I told him which street my home was in before, but I didn't say the specific house number. He called, but I didn't answer. He sent a message saying that he was close to us, and I was even more angry. Why did you go to such a person early? I can't find anyone like you, and I don't care.