How does the cold violence between husband and wife break the ice?

1, you can choose another way of communication.

If you two are still cold and violent, then you can choose another way to communicate. For example, you two had a fight. No one will talk to anyone, but you think life can't go on like this, but if you are asked to soften up first, you won't; Then at this time, you can choose to send him an email. When you don't want to communicate in words, you can choose to send a short message, WeChat or email and type what you want to say to the other party. In this case, it doesn't matter which of you sends the message first. Because you didn't talk to him during the cold violence, you just typed.

2. Start with children.

If you two have been cold and violent for a long time, and you are both sloppy but don't know how to take that step, then you can actually start with children. For example, you can talk about children's learning, children's education and so on; Or let the children adjust among you, for example, let the children drag you shopping and watching movies together. Because no matter how much trouble you make, you won't show it in front of the children. In this way, after a long time, you will slowly start to communicate. And the child belongs to both of you, even if you make trouble again, you still have to take good care of the child, because it is your responsibility. Therefore, starting with children is also a good way to deal with cold violence.

Step 3 avoid sensitive topics

If you two cause cold violence because of a sensitive topic, you should pay attention to avoid this topic in the future. You can start with irrelevant topics and gradually resume daily communication. For example, you had a huge argument in personal affairs, and then you started cold violence, and no one would give in first. Then you can stop talking about that topic at this time and communicate with others first, such as family affairs and children's affairs. In this way, you can get rid of cold violence