What is the mentality of people who send text messages in groups during the New Year?

First, sending messages in groups seems insincere.

The Spring Festival is a good time for family and friends to get together. Usually, they are disjointed, intimate and distant, familiar and unfamiliar. Some years, this rope is twisted together, and they can't help getting close to each other. They made an appointment to greet each other and catch up. The atmosphere is a vast world and an idle time. Everyone has no pressure and chats naturally. But for those who can't meet each other, they can only realize the same wish with the help of developed communication facilities, such as calling New Year's greetings, online video, SMS and emerging WeChat. Telephone and video are undoubtedly time-consuming, not economical and fast enough, and it is impossible to spread to all relatives and friends unless they are particularly close. Short message is a popular form of communication, which is fast and convenient enough. It has been popular for more than ten years, but it still occupies the first channel of Spring Festival greetings, only short message operators happen from time to time.

On such a grand occasion as China New Year, everyone is eager to receive blessing messages. The more they receive, the more they show that they have strong personality charm and make more friends, which is a foaming agent for self-expansion. However, among the many messages you received, you found that different friends sent the same blessing message, and some reckless people even forwarded it before changing their signatures, which is even more surprising. Will it still feel heavy? Of course not. You will regret finding yourself unimportant, and you will see through your friends' carelessness. Tap a key on a short message, and the message sent to you will be sent to hundreds of people at the same time. This convenient operation will ruin your friend's good image of sincerity and reliability in your mind. It turns out that you are just a string of cold numbers in his New Year greetings. What you send is not a blessing, but a radio wave that tests the link. At this time, people tend to doubt the significance of texting and lose confidence in their sincerity.

Second, sending messages in groups casts a layer of dust on the celebration of the New Year.

Chinese New Year celebrations run through the New Year's Eve, and most people who have gone through hardships just happen to catch up with it. Perhaps the only good time to reunite with your family is New Year's Eve and the first day or two. On other days, they need to go out to visit relatives and friends often, and they are as busy as children. Therefore, the feast of New Year's Eve needs to calm down and concentrate on spending time with parents and family, but this time is also the time to send a message of blessing to generate, and everyone can't stop the interference, because you can't rudely refuse other people's good wishes, and you can receive sincere wishes, which will definitely add icing on the cake to the festival. If the massive text messages on the screen fill the memory of your mobile phone like a plague, your heart will not be so beautiful and you will be depressed! You'll get sick! These massive short messages are submerged in the torrent of truly meaningful greetings, which may make you miss the vital blessing information in your life. It is possible that the person in your heart has not received a response for a long time after sending you a blessing of love, and there is always a feeling of resentment. During the Spring Festival, any unpleasantness will cast a layer of dust on the celebration of the New Year, leaving a shadow in my heart. A bad beginning will always make people have an inextricable knot.

Third, sending messages in groups makes friendship or family lose its sense of reality.

The maintenance of feelings lies in the management and dedication of both parties. Affection and friendship are two different feelings. We tend to treat each other separately and maintain sincere and long-lasting feelings with different attitudes and ways. The greetings during the Spring Festival, however, have brought the two feelings together and merged into one. During the Chinese New Year, friends and relatives can't tell each other clearly, and they don't want to be so clear. Anyway, it's the New Year, just for happiness and luck, the rule that family and friendship can agree with each other is simply a pot of stew.