How to ask for help?

1. Speak kindly and don’t say unpleasant things.

Since you are asking for help, you must have the attitude of asking for help, and be as kind and humble as possible in your language. First, let the other person have a good impression of you, and then he can help you with things. On the contrary, if you speak too directly and always say something disgusting and unpleasant, then no matter how important or reasonable the thing you want to do is, the other party will often not agree.

2. Have a positive attitude and don’t say frustrating or discouraging words.

When walking in society, as long as you choose to ask others for help, you must have encountered some difficulties that you cannot solve yourself. At this time, it is inevitable that you will feel anxious, painful, and depressed mentally. When dealing with people around you, you will inevitably say some depressing words. This is understandable.

However, when you face the person you want, your attitude must be positive. Don't say frustrating or discouraging words, and don't think that doing so will make the other person sympathize with you. In fact, doing so will only create a depressing atmosphere, causing the other party to feel unhappy and even despise you. Even if they agree to help you, they will often not do their best because you already give others the impression that you have no confidence. .