Girlfriend cheated, how to recover?

First, calm down and reflect on yourself. Whether you are a straightforward northeast man or a gentle south man, first of all, please treat the fact that your girlfriend is cheating calmly. How to save your girlfriend's feelings is also a problem you have to think about. In fact, to a large extent, once a woman has an affair, it means that her heart is not entirely on you, and it is difficult to save this relationship. But at the same time, you can get together from the beginning, which shows that you have feelings more or less. Moreover, once a woman accepts a relationship, she must devote herself wholeheartedly. If you do it well enough, she will only get deeper and deeper. The biggest difference in Seven Lonely Days is that women are much more emotional than men. In love, there is no standard in her world, and she does whatever she wants. She feels a man's devotion to love, so she is also using actions to prove her love for her boyfriend. But once the boyfriend stops acting or is not so concerned, and another man who is better to her appears beside the woman, she will fall again. This may be a common problem for women, but it is also a common problem for men not to pay enough attention to love. Therefore, as a man, in the face of his girlfriend's infidelity, we must first find the reasons from ourselves, whether we treat her as well as before we fell in love, whether we keep our promises to her, and whether we always consider her feelings. If you fail to do so, we must reflect on ourselves before solving the problem. Secondly, after careful consideration, I decided to stay. Should I recover my girlfriend's cheating? Breaking up or staying, I can't give advice, because I can't understand how deep your feelings are and how deep your love for your girlfriend is. This requires a mature and steady man to weigh his love for his girlfriend and his attitude after an affair before making a decision. However, when you open this article, you must still love your girlfriend deeply, and your subconscious tells you to save her heart. How can I make my girlfriend change her mind and save your love? Then, next, you need to take action to get your girlfriend's heart back to you and try to save her. First, communication. Talk to your girlfriend and listen to her inner thoughts. Don't blindly guess what she thinks, and then show your attitude. You can understand her behavior and forgive her, but you also have a bottom line and principles. You can't make such mistakes again. If your girlfriend has completely lost confidence in your feelings and no longer loves you, then please let go, which is good for both sides. On the contrary, if she makes a profound review of her behavior and promises that it won't happen again in the future, why not give her a chance to tell her how much you love her, and tell your girlfriend the content of self-reflection and express your apologies. Second, take action. Only when your girlfriend feels your care for her can she get out of the shadow of cheating. Take her to the place where you used to date and relive the romantic moment, so that you can quickly get out of the unpleasant atmosphere and feel each other's love. Moreover, as a boyfriend, in the future life, please pay more attention to your girlfriend and always consider her feelings and moods. The most important thing is to let her feel your warmth and spend more time with her. Third, shape a better boyfriend for her. When you are good enough and mature enough, I think she will rely on you more. When I am alive, I want to be happy every day, so when I encounter troubles, I will solve them quickly. Depression and distress will only increase your troubles. Love is beautiful. Don't let the good turn into the bad. People who know how to manage their own love are the big winners in life. Life is short, cherish it when you meet it, and don't let regrets fill your life. How can I recover my girlfriend's cheating? 2. Save her cheating girlfriend. 1. Whether you still have an unfaithful girlfriend in your heart is a great blow to men. Many boys will define their girlfriends because of this, thus denying their love for their girlfriends. Therefore, if you want to recover, you must first face up to your heart and see if you still love your girlfriend. Save the derailed girlfriend II. It has become an unchangeable fact to face up to girlfriend's infidelity and girlfriend's infidelity. If you want to recover, you must face up to this problem and think about whether you can really let go. The past has always been the past, and if it is mentioned from time to time after success, it will undoubtedly hurt two people. Therefore, if you want to save your derailed girlfriend, you must think about it clearly. Save the derailed girlfriend 3. The first two steps to understand the reason of girlfriend's cheating are to understand the face of cheating from your own direction. Now it's time to watch your girlfriend cheat. Reasons and opinions on whether she can continue to be together in the future. It may not count if you want to save yourself, but you should also know whether your girlfriend has this idea and the reason why your girlfriend broke up. Save the derailed girlfriend. 4. Get along after being together. Knowing the reasons for his girlfriend's infidelity, you can also find your own shortcomings. Of course, it is necessary to correct and improve. If we can continue, the best way to plan the future is to make progress together, whether in career or life. We should also learn how to deal with problems and so on. Save the derailed girlfriend. The past is the past. After being together, we have to change. We must manage together and get better and better together. But how can there be no friction and no quarrel in feelings? But when quarreling, we must remember that the past is the past, and mentioning the past will not only hurt ourselves, but also hurt each other. So it's best to turn over and maintain this restored relationship. How can I recover my girlfriend's cheating? How can a wife's cheating save her heart? 1, with more * * * At the same time, the traditional idea of China people is that men are outside and women are inside. This understanding provides an excuse for men to often go out or even stay at home at night. Many women do housework as if their place were at home. However, if a woman stays at home alone for a long time without a man, she will be lonely and bored. After a long time, she will want to find a companion to relax or participate in some social activities and go out from home. Under the psychological effect of loneliness, women are likely to be tempted by other men when they go out. Because of this opportunity, the chances of cheating will increase. How can a woman have an affair if she doesn't go outside? Therefore, in order to prevent women from cheating, men should first take care of their families, give women more comfort, and let them stay at home with warmth after leaving home. In this way, women naturally reduce the chance of cheating. 2. Occasionally ask to attend his wife's party. If women always have activities, you feel that you can't control them, and you don't worry about your wife's whereabouts, you can temporarily ask to participate in her activities. In particular, you can take your husband to some activities. If your wife wants to go out to have an affair, she will naturally find no excuse to refuse your participation for a while, even if she makes an excuse, she will sometimes be reluctant. If you don't attend your wife's activities regularly, you will naturally have more and deeper understanding of your wife's interpersonal relationship and know yourself. If the wife is not having an affair, moderate participation in her activities will improve the relationship between husband and wife. If the wife has ulterior motives, she can also find out in time and take precautions in time. Don't do anything to hurt your wife. Many men's wives cheat, often because their husbands are not good to themselves. Of course, it is most likely that their husbands did something that deeply hurt their wives. If the husband beats his wife, cheats on her, or the husband has a lover outside. Or the husband is extremely indifferent to his wife, and the wife is pregnant, and the husband does not ask. After these injuries, the wife will not take the marriage relationship seriously and will not take the initiative to refuse the temptation of the outside world. On the contrary, when you meet a man who is kind to you outside, you may not choose the best one by comparison. 4. Let your female relatives be your wife's partners. This has several advantages: first, it can make the relatives of both sides truly integrate and feel like a family. Instead of being separated from each other and burying each other. At the same time, take care of and support each other in daily life to eliminate loneliness. Another advantage, of course, is to change the wife's daily communication environment, thus reducing the possibility of cheating. Also, relatives can play the role of supervision and information transmission. Although these do not need to be deliberately arranged, they will be conveyed through the daily words and deeds of their loved ones. 5, to understand the wife's social circle Sun Tzu's art of war, you must know yourself, you can be invincible. A wife is not an enemy, but it is not easier to prevent her own abandonment or betrayal than to deal with the enemy. To prevent his wife from cheating, that is to say, people who kiss again may have opposites. Otherwise, no one will leave. Instead of doubting his wife casually, we should pay more attention to his social circle, friends, acquaintances and colleagues. If you have the opportunity to get in touch with these people, you will understand his wife's behavior style and conduct more comprehensively and truly. If the wife won't have an affair, it can enhance her confidence. If there are any signs, there is no need to wait for her to have an affair, take root and sprout, and then pursue it, and regret it. 6. Prevent the wife from becoming a leader's red man for no reason. If the wife is not an able person at work, there is no special relationship background. And suddenly become an important person in the unit or a leader's red man, often accompany wine, play and travel, then you should pay attention to it and ask more questions. My wife often says that I have to work overtime at this time, so you should be more careful. If my wife used to be incompetent, but now she is finally shining, then don't worry. 7. Pay attention to whether the wife's life rules have changed. Once a woman has an affair, she will naturally not be calm when she has an affair consciousness. If you can't find a man for a long time, you can only say that men are too stupid. If the woman is outside and occasionally plays extramarital sex with others, it is mostly improvisation, and then it is over, which does not affect the normal life of both parties. But once a woman has an extramarital affair, it will definitely change the law of life greatly. For example, phone calls, text messages, rules of going out, mood changes and so on. Therefore, when a woman has an affair, she will try not to change this rule at first, but as time goes on and feelings deepen, it is difficult to maintain this calm. When women often find excuses to justify their actions, they should pay more attention as men. 8. Cultivate feelings with your wife and enjoy romantic interest. People who can send roses to their wives after many years of marriage are not necessarily born romantic, but only people who know how to love. If you don't want to improve your relationship, will you send roses if you have a bad relationship? Therefore, sending roses between husband and wife is either humility or happiness. I believe that if I cultivate more feelings with my wife, I don't need to talk about formal romance. If you have a good relationship, you will naturally have romantic interest. Therefore, emotional cultivation is the first. With feelings, you can resist interference. Just like radar, the instrument itself has poor hardware and performance, but it won't work without interference. What can we do? 9. Make yourself better. Men can't take responsibility, and women naturally cheat. For example, in today's society, the responsibility that men have to bear is not heavy. Buy a house, raise a child, provide for the aged, etc. Some men even have to raise wives. When a man's ability is limited, sometimes he may not be able to bear the responsibility of bringing home the bacon, or let a woman be generous. In this case, if the relationship between husband and wife can't be deepened enough to tolerate or ignore these situations, the woman is likely to seek help. The biggest resource and effort for a woman to seek help is probably physical and emotional. Therefore, men make themselves better, and don't let women worry about these aspects. Naturally, it will reduce the possibility of women cheating. 10, see more advantages of women. When men play a leading role in the family, they should see more advantages of women, because when women lack self-confidence, their mood will be low. In this case, if they are affirmed by other men in interpersonal communication and find more confidence, they may be extroverted. When a man sees the advantages of a woman, he will give her more confidence and let her take the initiative to assume family responsibilities. Especially when women are in love, most of them hear good words from men, but after marriage, this feeling will be turned upside down, which will definitely make women feel cheated and stop believing in the so-called love. If you find confidence outside, you must regard this home as hell.