Can't participate in the activity.

We all know that in AIDS life, we usually take part in some group activities, but for various reasons, we can't or don't want to take part, but we don't know how to express it. So how to express it?

How to express 1 unable to attend the scheduled event? How to express apologies by official documents?

It is best to use official letters to show formality, respect and not rudeness.

The contents of the official letter should briefly explain the reasons for not attending, apologize to the organizer (or handling unit), and leave the contact information of the unit and contact person.

I feel sorry and uneasy because I can't attend the scheduled activities because of something. I sincerely thank you for your concern and support.

Maintain personal and corporate image

The most basic function of business etiquette is "disaster reduction effect": less making a fool of yourself, less losing face and less damaging interpersonal relationships. The safest way to meet something you don't know is to follow suit or imitate, and use static braking.

For example, the hostess attended a western-style banquet for the first time. Only the hostess can sit down, and others can sit down. The hostess picked up a napkin to indicate the start of the banquet, and the hostess picked up a knife and fork for others to eat. The hostess put the napkin on the table to signal the end of the party.

First, the invitation methods are different. If you don't invite yourself, it's relatively simple to refuse. Just reply directly by SMS.

Second, if it is invited in person, it depends on whether there is anyone around. If there are others, you must pay attention to saving face for each other.

Third, it would be better if there were God's help at this time. Suddenly, a good friend said that she had an appointment, which was more convincing.

Fourth, if someone with a particularly good relationship invites you, tell the truth, and I believe the other person will understand.

Fifth, one of the reasons why it is easy to be found is that you are not feeling well, but the effect is still relatively good.

Sixth, don't say you must attend next time unless you have to. If you still don't want to see it next time, it will be troublesome.

Can't attend the event? 2 can't participate in group activities?

1, boss, I have a lot of projects in my hand these days, and there is no one to replace me in the company for the time being. If not, I'll join the League after I finish these projects.

2. Boss, there are some things at home recently, and my parents are getting older. Some things need to be done for them. I really don't have time to join the league building. Maybe next time, maybe next time.

Boss, I have an appointment with my client to visit, so I don't have time to join the group building.

Due to my physical reasons, I can't join the league construction of the company. Please forgive my mistake, and I will definitely take part in it in the future to show my enthusiasm.

No problem, but my wife is on a business trip and the children need to be taken care of. Please call me next time you have a chance.

Being popular is really a good thing, but you also have your own life and things to do. Being a good person often puts yourself under unnecessary pressure.

Everyone's ability and experience are limited, and it is impossible to meet everyone's requirements and requests, but it is also impossible to embarrass others and be ungrateful.

It is not good to say yes to everything. Being happy with others has wronged yourself. However, under the proper balance, we should still learn to refuse, and we must not ignore our own career, major events and family.

How to express that you can't attend the activity? How to refuse if you don't want to participate in the activity?

First, express "no" with body language.

Shake it, then point to the papers on the desk or add, "You know, the boss arranges overtime." No matter whether the other party knows to work overtime or not, they won't ask the truth. Work is not important.

Second, politely refuse and give the other party a step.

If you don't dare to go straight, you choose to turn. Whether you can't afford it or you can afford it, it doesn't hurt to leave a face.

You can agree first and then find reasons to convince. You can answer "It's good to take part in activities, but I haven't taken part in any activities for a long time, but …" Just find a reason to say it. Although I was rejected, I would understand, but I just expressed my regret.

You can also say, "no problem, but my wife is on a business trip and the children need to be taken care of." Please call me next time. " I politely refused, so I have to wait for the next time, at least to reduce such similar activities several times.

Third, perfunctory answers.

Lead the question to something else and tell the other person, "It's not that I don't want to go, it's a lot of work. You see, there is still a lot of work, and it is too difficult to be a man ... "Use emotional shock to express your helplessness and gain sympathy or sympathy. Whether I can participate in the activity is no longer the main contradiction, and no one is embarrassed anymore.

Fourth, answer irrelevant questions.

You can answer like this: "I have to attend a meeting later, and time is running out." Let the other person think that you are really a busy man. I'm sorry to rush you for the second time, but I will leave carefully.

Fifth, use the tone of discussion.

No matter colleagues, friends or bosses, they can say, "I'm so sorry today, I'm too busy to spare the time!" " It seems that there will be only next time. Thank you for your kindness. I appreciate it. "Let the other person feel that you respect him, and you won't be too reluctant and embarrassed.

Sixth, refuse to return the other party first.

For more important people, I dare not offend others too much, so I have to refuse first. When I am free, I will invite the other party to dinner to make up for it and make the other party feel better. I can also use this reason to change the way of wooing relationships.

You can answer, "I'm really sorry. I have a lot of work to finish today. I'm really sorry that I couldn't take part in the activity this time. I'll treat you to a meal to make amends another day. "

Seven, for the activities arranged by the company or the boss, you should pay attention to the way of answering.

The company and the boss are not to be taunted by us. Just rejecting them casually shows your attitude, giving people the impression that you don't attach importance to this activity and people don't understand it intentionally or unintentionally.

In this case, you can answer: "Manager Zhang, I have to work overtime. Although tomorrow is the weekend, I really can't take part in this activity.

There is a client signing a contract next week, and there is a lot of information to be completed, but please rest assured that I have to work overtime at home to complete it, so I won't delay it. "If the boss wants to participate in the activities by himself, he can also borrow the documents that the company wants. If time is too late, he will not participate in the activities.

Rejection is an art, you should control your life and be less troubled by other things and people. Learning to refuse can relax you.