Ask a girl out, and she won't return my text messages. What is the reason?

There are only two situations when an invitation is sent to a girl and the other party doesn't respond. One is that she is really busy with something, and the other is that she is not mature enough to politely refuse you. I'll tell you how to deal with the situation of not responding to girls' invitations.

First of all, make it clear that if the other party doesn't reply to your message, don't chase or call. You can wait two or three days before contacting her. Because the current chat tools are free tools for time expansion, she may be busy or forget to reply, so don't take it too seriously.

If you take this matter to heart, then you will always wonder why she didn't reply, and then you may directly violate the taboos of "chasing hair" and "calling" mentioned above. This will only expose your need to her. There is a good chance that she didn't see it or was busy with something else. After receiving your call or reading your message, it is likely to ruin your invitation. And it will also arouse her disgust. You must tell yourself that no news is nothing at all. Don't take it too seriously.

Ask a girl out. What if she doesn't come back?

What should I do if I meet someone who just doesn't want to accept your invitation and politely refuses to reply?

If you want to change this situation, let her see your sincerity. Of course, it is not that you are asking questions right away, but that you are sending her messages in a few days. Be sure to remember one thing, don't pester, control your sense of need, send only one message a week, and keep in touch if you can make an appointment.

Then, in the meantime, find out your own problems and see if there is anything wrong with your image and presentation, or if you are in a hurry and have no attraction for this girl at all. First, think about it. If girls are not interested in you at all, or have no affection for you, and you don't show anything that attracts girls, then why do girls spend time and energy dating you just for a meal? Or watch a movie? Or a cup of coffee? Beautiful women are always surrounded by men willing to pay for them. Why did you choose to follow you? What can you bring them? What's your attraction?

This leads to a serious problem. Many brothers simply don't know how to put themselves in others' shoes. Straight men think too seriously and think I like you. You are sexy and beautiful, so you are going out with me.